Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

if I was a chad I wouldn’t be asking this but since I’m not, here I am

I legit have no idea how it works, do I just go to her and ask something, what would I even ask “will you be my gf” kek that sounds retarded asf

also I’m way too high inhib to talk about anything romantic related with a girl

just end this life