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Serious how the fuck do I even try to get a girlfriend. im serious.

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My entire life has been garbage. I was bullied at school and most importantly at home by my own parents. I'm deeply traumatized by this.

I recently realized that any time I've made irl friends I've subconsciously pushed them away by not trusting anyone.

I haven't socialized for most of my life despite being fucking 32. My teen years were utterly horrible, my 20s were wasted too but not as bad, I didn't live with my parents anymore and was slowly getting better and less traumatized, but was still too anxious to go out most of the time. I'm serious about it now and trying to make a comeback and ascend.

I'm ugly but I see ugly guys with gfs. How the fuck do I even try though? I'm not going to do fucking cold approach like the retarded redpillers :feelshaha: that's so fucking stupid. Normie lurkers will think "you can't comment on what they do because you have no experience and no success" ok but I have a brain and I know that's a terrible idea. Tinder is chad only (I'll make a post about that btw, I have an atomic blackpill to share) and basically just humiliation for avg guys. How tf do you go from socializing to getting a gf? How did those ugly guys with gfs even do it? :feelswhere:
 
Most of the time dudes pull by being NT. Don‘t use dating apps, they‘re used by bitches w no self esteem to get a few compliments
Have you tried taking pregabs
 
being aspie and non-nt is worse than being ugly....you see some ugly guys with gfs cause they are extroverted and social-circle maxxed.

at 32 its very tough to find a circle
 
Just put yourself out there bro and you'll get loads of girls :feelsokman:
 
You save up a bunch of money and betabux some roasty bitch
 
being aspie and non-nt is worse than being ugly....you see some ugly guys with gfs cause they are extroverted and social-circle maxxed.

at 32 its very tough to find a circle
I'm not a fucking aspie JFL
 
Easy
  1. Be good looking
  2. Don't be ugly
 
It's over. Agepill come to collect. Your fate now is either become a betabuxx or live alone forever
 
Please respond seriously to this

My entire life has been garbage. I was bullied at school and most importantly at home by my own parents. I'm deeply traumatized by this.

I recently realized that any time I've made irl friends I've subconsciously pushed them away by not trusting anyone.

I haven't socialized for most of my life despite being fucking 32. My teen years were utterly horrible, my 20s were wasted too but not as bad, I didn't live with my parents anymore and was slowly getting better and less traumatized, but was still too anxious to go out most of the time. I'm serious about it now and trying to make a comeback and ascend.

I'm ugly but I see ugly guys with gfs. How the fuck do I even try though? I'm not going to do fucking cold approach like the retarded redpillers :feelshaha: that's so fucking stupid. Normie lurkers will think "you can't comment on what they do because you have no experience and no success" ok but I have a brain and I know that's a terrible idea. Tinder is chad only (I'll make a post about that btw, I have an atomic blackpill to share) and basically just humiliation for avg guys. How tf do you go from socializing to getting a gf? How did those ugly guys with gfs even do it? :feelswhere:
why don't you try in real life? i always tried in real life, i would never post my face on a website like tinder, i'm ugly as fuck
 
0dVNyc0
 
oh that's good then, go out and make a social circle. join some clubs n activites
I've been trying but I can't get a girlfriend out of it.

This is so fucking horrible because this kind of thing is what normies worry about when they're 14 and they have time to figure it out. I'm fucking 32.
 
being aspie and non-nt is worse than being ugly
i'm all three at same time plus have NW3 hairline and small dick, it's like faith laughs at me and my misery and want me to die alone
 
You don't try, if you got it—you got it. If you have to try, it means it's over.
 
You're looking for advice in the wrong place. If even one of us had a decent piece of advice, we'd have done it ourselves.
 
This reminds me that one of the reasons I never had a girlfriend is that I have no Idea of what I'm supposed to do. From meeting girls to getting dates, and then escalate it with the girl on the date, I have no idea of how it works. All "dating advice" doesn't really say anything more than 'go with the flow' and 'things will lead one yo another'. Which brings us to the next point...

You don't try, if you got it—you got it. If you have to try, it means it's over.
...this, and reminds me of this image from. Since I can't post images I linked a thread where it was posted.
https://incels.is/threads/this-is-what-breaks-the-normie-this-right-here.558367/

Anyway something that almost everybody should work on is becoming low-inhib, if they aren't already. Just talk to everyone without caring if they want to listen or not. If you are truecel you still won't get laid but I'm saying this to every shy man... try to work on it, you won't regret. Your chances of talking with someone are already probably close to zero, when you get one don't let your own inhibitions stop you.
 
Please respond seriously to this

My entire life has been garbage. I was bullied at school and most importantly at home by my own parents. I'm deeply traumatized by this.

I recently realized that any time I've made irl friends I've subconsciously pushed them away by not trusting anyone.

I haven't socialized for most of my life despite being fucking 32. My teen years were utterly horrible, my 20s were wasted too but not as bad, I didn't live with my parents anymore and was slowly getting better and less traumatized, but was still too anxious to go out most of the time. I'm serious about it now and trying to make a comeback and ascend.

I'm ugly but I see ugly guys with gfs. How the fuck do I even try though? I'm not going to do fucking cold approach like the retarded redpillers :feelshaha: that's so fucking stupid. Normie lurkers will think "you can't comment on what they do because you have no experience and no success" ok but I have a brain and I know that's a terrible idea. Tinder is chad only (I'll make a post about that btw, I have an atomic blackpill to share) and basically just humiliation for avg guys. How tf do you go from socializing to getting a gf? How did those ugly guys with gfs even do it? :feelswhere:
ascending is a meme. be quick and betabuxx a decent lady asap. you might make a child if your lucky.
 
Just put yourself out there bro and you'll get loads of girls :feelsokman:
That's really how it works. But, you need to be more attractive than the men she knows.
 
This reminds me that one of the reasons I never had a girlfriend is that I have no Idea of what I'm supposed to do. From meeting girls to getting dates, and then escalate it with the girl on the date, I have no idea of how it works. All "dating advice" doesn't really say anything more than 'go with the flow' and 'things will lead one yo another'. Which brings us to the next point...


...this, and reminds me of this image from. Since I can't post images I linked a thread where it was posted.
https://incels.is/threads/this-is-what-breaks-the-normie-this-right-here.558367/

Anyway something that almost everybody should work on is becoming low-inhib, if they aren't already. Just talk to everyone without caring if they want to listen or not. If you are truecel you still won't get laid but I'm saying this to every shy man... try to work on it, you won't regret. Your chances of talking with someone are already probably close to zero, when you get one don't let your own inhibitions stop you.
shit man

how old are you?

the pic is based. JFL at redpillers :feelsEhh:
 
The ONLY hope you have is to socialcirclemaxx. Do you have any friends? If you do, you can meet women through them in social settings. Your height isn't terrible. BUT even guys taller and better looking than you are struggling right now, so your competition is heavy.
 
Improve your looks any way you can. If you’re fat, lose weight. Have a big ugly nose, get surgery. Maybe there is something else wrong with your face that surgery could fix. Do that. Don’t worry about your personality, just do whatever you can to improve your looks by at least 2-3 points to have any chance at getting a gf. Looks is all women care about.
 

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if u have a shit facial structure and are non-nt ur fucked bro
 
Improve your looks any way you can. If you’re fat, lose weight. Have a big ugly nose, get surgery. Maybe there is something else wrong with your face that surgery could fix. Do that. Don’t worry about your personality, just do whatever you can to improve your looks by at least 2-3 points to have any chance at getting a gf. Looks is all women care about.

thanks brocel

im trying to beardmaxx

i have a remarkably recessed chin. i can grow a full thick beard but i had a habit of shaving daily and never thought of it :feelstastyman: now im growing it out to fraud a better chin, should be there in a couple more months of growth and then i'll get it trimmed and groomed by a pro. this should get me 2-3 points at least. if that doesn't work it's ovER tbh there's no fucking hope. i've been putting myself out there for an entire year and got nothing.

i see no other major defects about my face so i cope with the thought that this will make me a normie
 
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if u have a shit facial structure and are non-nt ur fucked bro
my facial structure is beyond shit. my chin is so fucking recessed i am a meme basically :lul:

sometimes i get mad at normies but i look in the mirror and think "shit, i wouldn't take myself seriously either"
 
your best bet for ascension is a single mother. if you can even call it ascension lmao
 
Over. Even if you manage to ascend, 32 years old is too old to start a family.
 
ugly guys with GFs are sugar daddies, or friend zoned simps who don't get to fuck, or victims of paternity fraud.
 
Please respond seriously to this

My entire life has been garbage. I was bullied at school and most importantly at home by my own parents. I'm deeply traumatized by this.

I recently realized that any time I've made irl friends I've subconsciously pushed them away by not trusting anyone.

I haven't socialized for most of my life despite being fucking 32. My teen years were utterly horrible, my 20s were wasted too but not as bad, I didn't live with my parents anymore and was slowly getting better and less traumatized, but was still too anxious to go out most of the time. I'm serious about it now and trying to make a comeback and ascend.

I'm ugly but I see ugly guys with gfs. How the fuck do I even try though? I'm not going to do fucking cold approach like the retarded redpillers :feelshaha: that's so fucking stupid. Normie lurkers will think "you can't comment on what they do because you have no experience and no success" ok but I have a brain and I know that's a terrible idea. Tinder is chad only (I'll make a post about that btw, I have an atomic blackpill to share) and basically just humiliation for avg guys. How tf do you go from socializing to getting a gf? How did those ugly guys with gfs even do it? :feelswhere:
Cutting the head of a good looking guy and putting it in your body
 
Over. Even if you manage to ascend, 32 years old is too old to start a family.
My dad started a family with my mom when he was 46. But maybe that's why I turned out non-NT, mentally messed up, and socially retarded.
 
That's the only way you could ascend. At your age every girl has a lot of relationships and sexual experience, there is no way they would date a KHHV 32 years old guy. Even it you get a relationship it just wouldn't be the same because that foid have experience that thousands of times. You are welcome here.
 

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