Experiment How old.were you when you realized that you're an incel?

[brokenheartcel]

I knew from elementary school when we were playing a truth or dare game. some girl was dared to come up to me and ask me to be their boyfriend, and I thought about it for a second but ultimately said no. the look on her face after I declined said it all - she was completely relived and blew out some air. she went back to her friends and then started laughing, and I heard one say "eww, imagine if he actually said yes?" that shit destroyed my confidence and made me realize that I'm disgusting. fucking hate foids ngl

 

[Alex Grandi]

chads.co

 

[Deleted member 22907]

I have always subconsciously known that I was ugly and unwanted

 

[OldIncel]

didn't occur to me until I was 17 or 18

I was always bluepilled and told bluepilled shit that someday i was going to find "the one"

 

[brokenheartcel]

didn't life feel so much better before you knew the truth?

 

[Sexdoll Pioneer]

I have always subconsciously known that I was ugly and unwanted

I have always consciously known that I was ugly and unwanted because I was reminded of it everyday growing up (and still am!)

 

[Incline]

I knew from elementary school when we were playing a truth or dare game. some girl was dared to come up to me and ask me to be their boyfriend, and I thought about it for a second but ultimately said no. the look on her face after I declined said it all - she was completely relived and blew out some air. she went back to her friends and then started laughing, and I heard one say "eww, imagine if he actually said yes?" that shit destroyed my confidence and made me realize that I'm disgusting. fucking hate foids ngl

I was incel since 16 but became blackpilled at 21-22

 

[IncelKing]

I have always subconsciously known that I was ugly and unwanted

same but i kept fooling myself on a conscious level by thinking that personality matters and that i have a chance, because the young kid that i used to be couldnt come to terms with the harsh realization that it was truly over for me, so i had hope and kept trying everything possible to get friend/get laid.

Eventually at the age of 20, after numerous incidents where people mistreated me for no fault on my behalf, i realised that looks are everything when it comes to sexual attraction and the way people treat you in general, and that if you just happened to be born with the wrong genetics, nothing you do can help you get laid or be treated with respect (other than money and/or status).

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

In teen years, when other boys grew into men, and I stayed childish manlet. Just incel terminology was not known back then

 

[Tallcel]

Things started to dawn on me when I was asked about my sexual activity at psych hospital and local walk-in physician. I heard about others having sex as early as 6th grade but didn't even really know what I was missing until I started masturbating on my 16th birthday. I dropped out of HS and all my old ties slowly cut away. NEEThood, religion, hormonal and mental problems plagued my late teens through 20s. By the time I tried college, I was 31. JFL

 

[TINMAN]

14

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

16 I think

 

[Damo the incel]

In teen years, when other boys grew into men, and I stayed childish manlet. Just incel terminology was not known back then

Little manlet bitch

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I was 11

 

[Deleted member 1983]

when i was 20

 

[Deleted member 4999]

16-17

 

[ihaveno1]

i wanted a gf but could not get once since 15 but mainly 16, didn't know what the word incel was till 20 though

 

[RandomGuy]

Grade 2

 

[wasted12years]

Mid 20s. I was very bluepilled when growing up.

 

[NEETard]

12 when i started high school. Girls treating me worse than other guys when id done nothing wrong to them. Realised I was destined to be a loser

 

[Deleted member 16624]

i think unrionically 12

 

[Ghost]

I knew from elementary school when we were playing a truth or dare game. some girl was dared to come up to me and ask me to be their boyfriend, and I thought about it for a second but ultimately said no. the look on her face after I declined said it all - she was completely relived and blew out some air. she went back to her friends and then started laughing, and I heard one say "eww, imagine if he actually said yes?" that shit destroyed my confidence and made me realize that I'm disgusting. fucking hate foids ngl

Elementary school too early to declare yourself incel.

Wait till you're at least 25 and have done all in your power to get laid without money involved. (escorts don't count)

Do the following first before declaring inceldom:

1) take more showers and wear cologne
2) toughmaxx (gym, learn bjj or muai Thai or any full contact martial art)
3) looksmax with better clothes
4) careermax or make at least $30k a year
5) adopt alpha male traits like stomach in chest out, deep voice, etc.
5) go on tinder or match and swipe on EVERY SINGLE female. Even the landwhales, old used up roasties, ugly ones, ones who don't have pictures.

If still no results by at least age 25 then declare yourself incel.

If you haven't tried and declare yourself incel you truly are a level 99 pathetic loser.

 

[Monk of Failure]

8-9

 

[Kurt Gödel]

In middle school when other kind of nerdy guy got his first gf. I was like 14.
Didn't became blackpilled until last year at 23 though.

 

[brokenheartcel]

Elementary school too early to declare yourself incel.

Wait till you're at least 25 and have done all in your power to get laid without money involved. (escorts don't count)

Do the following first before declaring inceldom:

1) take more showers and wear cologne
2) toughmaxx (gym, learn bjj or muai Thai or any full contact martial art)
3) looksmax with better clothes
4) careermax or make at least $30k a year
5) adopt alpha male traits like stomach in chest out, deep voice, etc.
5) go on tinder or match and swipe on EVERY SINGLE female. Even the landwhales, old used up roasties, ugly ones, ones who don't have pictures.

If still no results by at least age 25 then declare yourself incel.

If you haven't tried and declare yourself incel you truly are a level 99 pathetic loser.

I am 25 and I have done every single thing you said

 

[Ghost]

I am 25 and I have done every single thing you said

Then you can rightfully declare yourself incel.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

14, when i was the only one developing acne

 

[Deleted member 6626]

Always have been incel. The Blackpill was discovered many years later, at age 28.

 

[crestfallencel]

26-27

 

[97cel]

Before high school I knew I was a malfunction, even if others wouldn't directly tell me that

 

[Incel Wizard]

Probably around 25

 

[Speedloader]

didn't life feel so much better before you knew the truth?

Yes bro

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Only pretty recently. Girls have called me ugly since kindergarten but until I read this forum i didn’t know why.

 

[ShadowTheEdgehog]

I knew from elementary school when we were playing a truth or dare game. some girl was dared to come up to me and ask me to be their boyfriend, and I thought about it for a second but ultimately said no. the look on her face after I declined said it all - she was completely relived and blew out some air. she went back to her friends and then started laughing, and I heard one say "eww, imagine if he actually said yes?" that shit destroyed my confidence and made me realize that I'm disgusting. fucking hate foids ngl

5 minutes. My mom didn't want to hold me after birth. She told me that a couple of years back. The nurse handed me over and my mom rejected me jfl.

 

[SolitaryConfinement]

5 minutes. My mom didn't want to hold me after birth. She told me that a couple of years back. The nurse handed me over and my mom rejected me jfl.

Brutalmaxx

 

[Yerberito]

I was youngcel

 

[Deleted member 21908]

17 or 18, told myself if i didn't lose my virginity in high school or experience teen love it'll probably stay that way unless i pay for it

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

18

 

[Deleted member 10124]

In teen years, when other boys grew into men, and I stayed childish manlet. Just incel terminology was not known back then

19 for me

 

[Ping And Pong]

18, before that I assumed it was normal to be a virgin while still in school. (The only friends I had in school were nerdy incel types which explains my ignorance and social alienation to think the way I did)

Then I did research and slowly started to realise how wrong I was, and here I am a year later, blackpilled and depressed. I still hope for ascension in college but the damage is already done by being so behind than the average.

 

[azakhan]

16-17

 

[Deleted member 17749]

Last year, 22.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

16-17

 

[Pennywise]

The fact that I was lonely and had serious problems with courtship and dating became evident in high scohol. I'd say 9th grade.

When I learned about TFL in the 2000s I knew that was me. It was sad but relieving that other people were having the same or similar problems as me. Honestly, for a long time, I thought I was the only one, as weird as that sounds.

 

[RandyProzac]

When I was ostracized harshly my entire life in school for absolutely no reason. People subtly made fun of me, no one wanted me in their groups etc. I went through grade 3-12 (US) with the same group of kids and I never made it passed talking to them in class on rare occasion. No one invited me anywhere. Birthday parties, to their house, to go out to eat, or even to sit with them at lunch. I figured out in high school, with my severe lack of socialization, that I was indeed incel

 

[Too_ugly_forlife]

8. We really need to reach more young people. Being black pilled gives context to what's going on around you when you are young and ugly. Maybe a incel version of "it gets better" the way gays had.

 

[Blackpincel]

I noticed there was something very wrong about me when I was 14. I was ghosted by foids like never before, and even nerdy cliques started rejecting me. Normie men and chads openly said I was ugly and that I should aim for low tier foids, and so I did. Back then started to obsess over some low tier beckies from my class on the hopes I could at least be friends with them only to be called creepy and get angry faces (since it lowered their self-esteem to know some ugly Incel was into them).

But I wasn't fully blackpilled yet then and I hoped a unicorn foid would eventually appear and see me past my bad looks and lack of social/sexual experience, and interact and take interest in me in other ways. And it pretty much never actually happened.

The Tinder+Instagram age made me fully blackpilled starting at 20yo. It made me realize how shallow most women really are. They are unwilling to even allow you to have brief moments of conversation and companionship if you don't meet their ever growing absurd demands about looks. They think you are undeserving of any joy next to them simply because your flesh and bones are arranged a little differently from what they expect, even if they are not model-looking people either. Yes, I did try to date ugly women before and got rejected. A lot of insecure, low self esteem 3/10 women think they deserve a 7/10 chadlite because they would otherwise feel bad psychologically and would face judgement by their fellow shallow female friends and peers. Their entire reason to live is to feel validated by other people, is to show others how good their lives are getting. You can barely find anymore women that doesn't care what other people think, that focuses on their careers and look for partners primarily after their intellect and virtues and not for some low key particular eugenicist goals.