How often do you guys think about the scenario of people you see everyday finding out about your situation?

[cheekylad97]

I do think about this sometimes, and i'm thinking about it again now because of a conversation at work last night. What would you guys do if the people you saw daily, your co workers, classmates whatever found out you were an incel? Have you ever told anyone? How did they react? I've told 3 normies and i t most of them maybe expected it because two weren't surprised at all. The first person i told her reaction was "holy shit", the other two were really casual about it though and just said " oh. you'll meet someone eventually". It's crazy to me that there's people who have been dating since 8th/9th grade. I don't know sometimes it's hard dealing with inceldom. I'm glad i at least found some company via this site.

 

[Crustaciouse]

Most normies dont even know what an incel is.
And if they did know it wouldnt change their treatment of me since they already treat me like a weirdo and exclude me

 

[cheekylad97]

Most normies dont even know what an incel is.
And if they did know it wouldnt change their treatment of me since they already treat me like a weirdo and exclude me

I get treated the same way by the masses. I wonder if they do it on purpose or is there some part of them that just tells them we're not allowed in the herd? I mean i've noticed alot of people who have issues and people that are nasty often are just not a part of the herd for whatever reaspn.

 

[Angry_runt]

I never told anyone. Younger ppl can probably guess, older people probably not. I don't know anyone who'd care either way.

 

[NeetSupremacist]

> I don't know any people IRL besides my parents.

 

[First loss]

I hide it from people .

 

[Grotesque]

lol

 

[Insomniac]

I only see my parents and my brother anyway. My parents are too old to give a fuck and my brother is too busy having a social life to give a fuck.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

I think about htis all the fucking time and I think they know, they all know

 

[YungCell]

They would just think that it all makes sense

 

[Cuyen]

I hide it from people .

 

[Deleted member 6599]

I fantasize about scenarios all day everyday. It's a mental illness.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Most normies dont even know what an incel is.
And if they did know it wouldnt change their treatment of me since they already treat me like a weirdo and exclude me

Exactly, you would be treated the same. Doesnt matter if you call yourself a incel or not

 

[tooth monster]

Why would you tell other people you're an incel? Being a virgin is enough

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

 

[ihaveno1]

i dont see ppl everyday, but i've never told anyone irl that i'm an incel

 

[Captvic]

My family knows something is up with me. My fucking parents basically accused me of being gay not too long ago.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

My parents know of my struggles to get girls but I've never mentioned the term 'incel' to them. A quick Google search for 'incel' returns headlines referring to us as a "disturbing, thriving online community" that "targets and terrorises women", so it would probably set off alarm bells if I mentioned it.

It very, very rarely comes up in conversation in work, but if it does I'm just honest and say I can't get a girlfriend. No point in being embarrassed/trying to hide it. Again, I've never mentioned anything about 'inceldom'.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Everyone knows my situation. If you're a truecel it's pretty obvious, you can't just wear a mask everywhere.

 

[Involuntarily]

They know. Its not hard to think a subhuman is still a virgin.

 

[Inceldo]

Im pretty sure everyone i know thinks im incel. Whether they know what an incel is or not.

 

[Michael15651]

They wouldn’t care

 

[Deleted member 6329]

Nope.

 

[KingChemist]

Most of my colleagues figured it out. They tell me to get off this site and shower. LOL