How often do you get the feeling that you REALLY want sex and your brain really focuses on it for hours?

[Deleted member 7448]

I'm in my late 20s and it's really weird. Sometimes for weeks I'll have a really low libido, but then it comes back with a vengeance. It really takes over my whole brain.

It's literally torture that it can't be satisfied in those hours. Knowing that I won't be able to satisfy it ever, and that I'm not even close (I'd need to change who I am and every aspect of my life, from looks to brain, and some things are just impossible to change. All for that for a tiny sliver of a chance).

It's such a simple thing. It's not like I want a billion dollars, now that's an unreasonable desire. But wanting to fuck? That's so fucking simple, every human does it very often. Many teens do it. And yet I'll never be able to. And hookers are not only disgusting and expensive, but it's not the same thing. I want to really fuck a woman all night long, kiss her and lick her pussy and do all kinds of passionate things then cuddle and hold her tight. Not to have some boring sex with a condom and no kissing with a disgusting STD-infested hooker.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

My sex drive fluctuates, but I'm generally happy enough satisfying it by masturbating when required now.

I honestly don't think of sex as some kind of 'holy grail' - some magical experience that would transform my life if I were to experience it. Sure, there's an element of curiosity there - I think it's only natural to be curious about something you've never done - but it genuinely hardly bothers me in the slightest now that I'll never get to experience it. I imagine it being one of these things that can either be really good or really bad depending on the circumstances, specifically the other person and their experience, desires etc.

When I masturbate, I know exactly how I like it done, I go at my own pace, can use whatever material I want, I don't need to worry about 'performing' for anyone else and I can do it whenever I want. None of this is guaranteed or even likely with sex.

 

[Genetic Dead End]

Lately, almost never.

 

[Deleted member 27249]

all the fucking time. Masturbating doesn't even stop me from being horny anymore. I'm craving touch so badly I could masturbate 3 times in a day and still all I can think about is a woman.

 

[Deleted member 22549]

It happens every now and then, some days it does and some days it doesn't. I usually just masturbate once or twice and it goes away, and in the rare case that masturbation doesn't cut it and i keep thinking about sex for a few days (this happens about 2 or 3 times a year), i just fuck an escort and it goes away. It's just your primal instincts bothering you, once you take care of it, the cravings go away.

 

[Deleted member 6657]

Idk if I wanna play a game that looks like this ngl. kinda looks like shit from this pic alone.