Serious How Much Do Looks Matter In Socially Interacting With Other Men?

[universallyabhorred]

We all know foids care about male looks to an insanely high degree, so how about other men, are they influenced by the halo effect? To what degree does your facial aesthetics increase or decrease the amount of respect or social status you receive in social circles or in general interaction? And how much can an above average (6+) face compensate for being autistic and socially awkward or clueless?

 

[Insomniac]

Being autistic is worse than being ugly or short around men. Definitely.

Men aren’t as judgemental with looks. At least in my experience

 

[Cuyen]

If you're good looking you'll have friends that want a part of you, basically using you for their own benefits but if you're ugly and have any friends then you almost can be sure that they are real friends, thats what I think.

Men aren’t as judgemental with looks. At least in my experience

thats true

 

[Valiant Virgin]

A lot. There are countless studies that the correlation between physical attractiveness and success - not just romantically, but in various other spheres of life.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

I would say gym + height would be better when you interact with men. But in general if you have a fun personality unironically men would want you around.

 

[Vlone]

Men will be nice to you if you're nice to them 99% of the time. However, they won't hang out with you outside of school/work if you're ugly.

 

[sub8male]

Less so than with females.

 

[TheSecondComing]

Men will be nice to you if you're nice to them 99% of the time. However, they won't hang out with you outside of school/work if you're ugly.

agree 100 percent

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

A lot.

- It will determine which group of guys you can hang out with. ie. a group of 6'4" white chads will not want a 5'7" curry/rice in their group no matter what (and they wouldn't have anything in common because looks = life).
- Guys want to hang around good looking guys because they think it will help them get girls.
- Looks predicts popularity in high school and beyond for both men and women.

Looks control everything.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

in my experience everyone's attitude changes if you so much as have a bad hair day vs. a good hair day

 

[ReallyRice]

Looks control everything.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

When it comes to looks it matters but in a different way. Men respect men who look masculine and big - not tall but big eg. big frame, muscular and athletic. For example a guy who is 5'9'' but has a muscular athletic body will get compliments from other men while a 6'3'' lanklet won't. Women are the other way around, they would prefer the taller guy (assuming other things are equal).

That's because men are into sports and working out and know how hard it is to get an athletic body.

This is why I'd suggest incels to pick up a sport or go to gyms at least because while it might not help with women, it will improve the way you interact with other men.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

I am considered weak and ripe for bullying because of my height, due to my disfigurement, my face is like that of someone with downs syndrome so pretty much nobody respects me or treats me like a real human.

 

[Emba]

The halo still exists no matter who views it.

But it matters less to men.

 

[Aryanmanlet]

Birds of a feather.

 

[Deleted member 17719]

I feel overwhelmed when speaking to tall men, I feel more at ease speaking to ugly manlets as you know they aren't judging you as much.

 

[horseshoe]

Birds of a feather.

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

Looks are pretty important when dealing with other Men .
But when dealing with other Men , its purely about the constant underlying threat of physical domination .
So other Men wont care about your ugly face .
Heigth and Frame matters most .
When Men socially interact , its about whos dominant who 100% OF THE TIME .
Theres no brothers or friends or shit like that .
Its all just a game of domination .

A lot.

- It will determine which group of guys you can hang out with. ie. a group of 6'4" white chads will not want a 5'7" curry/rice in their group no matter what (and they wouldn't have anything in common because looks = life).
- Guys want to hang around good looking guys because they think it will help them get girls.
- Looks predicts popularity in high school and beyond for both men and women.

Looks control everything.

Also this . TLDR : Its over .

 

[frustratedhapa]

We all know foids care about male looks to an insanely high degree, so how about other men, are they influenced by the halo effect? To what degree does your facial aesthetics increase or decrease the amount of respect or social status you receive in social circles or in general interaction? And how much can an above average (6+) face compensate for being autistic and socially awkward or clueless?

They matter almost as much as to women. You'll never find good looking males hanging out with ugly males, and if you do, it's because the good looking male gets off on having an omega male friend who looks up to him like a God. The alpha male will treat his friend like shit but the omega male will still come around like a loyal puppy.

Also, ugly males have trouble getting employed. If you're an ugly male and get a job interview, you will be discriminated against even if the interviewer was a straight man. Meanwhile, Chads can get employed easily even if they aren't as qualified as the ugly males. Good looks are a STRONG halo. Chad gets called "charming", "intelligent", "creative", "hardworking", "innovative" all because he is good looking.

 

[SchrodingersDick]

Being autistic is worse than being ugly or short around men. Definitely.

Men aren’t as judgemental with looks. At least in my experience

Not looks, but size and NT. I’ve noticed most male friend groups are heightmatched and more or less SMVmatched

when interacting with other men, the most important thing is fighting success/being large.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Everything is looks and how much money you have.

 

[ihaveno1]

Looks control everything.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Ugly equals death

 

[needsolution]

Being autistic is worse than being ugly or short around men. Definitely.

Men aren’t as judgemental with looks. At least in my experience

cope bro, i would rather by autistist than be disabled manlet

 

[ShyManlet]

I am considered weak and ripe for bullying because of my height, pretty much nobody respects me or treats me like a real human.

this is me..being ugly is true hell, I wish my biggest issue in life is getting females, but its really not...its other men brutally bullying me...from elementary school all the way to my workplace, even though the bullying is more subtle here, cause they dont wanna lose their job for physically assaulting me..