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How motivated are you on average on a weekly basis despite being incel?

How motivated are you on average on a weekly basis?

  • 5/5 motivation: I work, go to the gym, and stay on top of my finances.

    Votes: 6 7.3%
  • 3/5: I get shit done but have periods of hopelessness.

    Votes: 12 14.6%
  • 3/5: Switch between staying on top of my shit and doing nothing / being depressed and helpless.

    Votes: 25 30.5%
  • 2/5: Barely keep my head above water, barely staying above homeless level.

    Votes: 21 25.6%
  • 1/5: I pretty much just want to die. I can barely get the necessities in life or I'm homeless.

    Votes: 18 22.0%

  • Total voters
    82
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I'm curious how many men are still motivated despite being incel and no positive interactions with women.

2nd option is supposed to be 4/5, not 3/5, oops.
 
Meh. I go to work and whatnot but I'm generally pretty apathetic.
 
Im waiting for a date to get checked if i can get neetbux tbh, i have 0 motivation for anything but if i get them i will continue to cope for some time
 
I have no other purpose with women, but I still want to be healthy so I do not spend on medicine. I go to gym, feed myself well, and take care of my finances.
 
I can barely muster up the motivation to leave my bed on most days
 
It depends. I have energy spikes from time to time. On Sundays I have no motivation at all.
 
I never feel happiness anymore. Only brief spurts from copes like food. I'm always stressed, depressed, and too self-aware.
 
Basically the middle ground out of these options
 
I never feel happiness anymore. Only brief spurts from copes like food. I'm always stressed, depressed, and too self-aware.

Life for most men in current year.
 
I feel motivated but I don't do anything. I feel held back.
 
Depends on how often I meditate and take cold showers
 
1/5: I pretty much just want to die.
 
I'm tired of the college life, and dropped an internship.
I wish I could play vidya and rot all day
 
Used to be literally homeless. But I'm barely keeping my head above water right now. Do 2/5.
 
You ask a question about motivation but all of the poll options are related to depression.

I wouldn't say I am depressed anymore but I do not care enough to go tot he gym or ascend anymore. I spend most of my 20s being fit as fuck and legitimately putting in an effort to find a mate yet I was terribly uncsuccessful. My past experiences caused me to not give a shit anymore and would rather just moneymaxx while not caring about how I look. I guess that is a 3/5 (which I think you meant 4/5) on your scale?
 
prob 3/5, i have a job and function enough to do the bare minimum
 
I work part time. However, I struggle to diet properly, workout, and brush my teeth. I do have the occasional surge of energy, but it never lasts long. :feelsbadman: If I didn't have sleep apnea, I'd choose "on top of shit with occasional bouts of hopelessness"
 
3/5: I get shit done but have periods of hopelessness.
 
I fight to keep my weight down and my teeth clean. It's a losing battle.
 
3/5
Not that bad tbh.
 
I go through phases. For a few months straight I’ll bust ass flipping burgers and selling grass, then I crash for a couple months, then I hop up and do it again. Burger flippin and grass growing. And then I crash and ask to work like 3 days a week and sleep all day and call off half the time. Luckily my manager needs me for my cheap hillbilly grass
I fight to keep my weight down and my teeth clean. It's a losing battle.
Teeth clean is tough, cuz I steady drink monster and when I brush them it tastes like shit
 
I force myself to be motivated as I know the racewar wont wait for me to get in shape. And there's gonna be a racewar soon.
 
2/5 - Barely able to keep my shit from sinking underwater.
 
3/5: I get shit done but have periods of hopelessness.
 
Hanging on by a string :lul:
 
4/5. I force myself to stay motivated. The alternative is more depressing.
 
It's super inconsistent for me tbh. Most days I'm at a 2, but sometimes I feel like I'm at a 5.
 
i fantasize about learning 700 hundred languages and shit but at the end of the day I play vidya and say Ill do it tomorrow
 
2.5/5 right now, maybe 3/5 during summer with more time for good copes.
 
I go to my job and do enough to make sure I don't get fired, come home and sit in front of my computer before going to the gym (something I only do as a cope these days, I realised that gymmaxxing will help me very little with foids a while back now) and coming back, falling asleep, and repeating the process again, on the weekends I just sit in my room drinking booze in front of my computer.
 
I mainly get stuff done and even some extra stuff but really, one bad experience could send me spiraling into the abyss.
 

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