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Blackpill How men vs women deal with "disadvantages"

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When men realise that they have biological disadvantage with eg. height, they accept it as just that, biological, an objective fact rooted in reality. Of course, they're not happy with it, but they don't go marching in the street in order to try to get women attracted to "short kings"

Women on the other hand, attribute disadvantages to society. They believe that men preferring young women is due to a societal structure, basically a scary shadow government called The Patriarchy that tells men to prefer younger women in order to get older women to feel bad.

Why is it like this? Why don't women just cut their losses and accept that their attractiveness fades dramatically as they age? It's because they don't see reality as objective. To them it's based on emotions and "vibes". They're used to their reality shifting, there's new make up and fashion trends all the time and so they apply that same thinking to society. They think that the fact that men prefer young women is just a temporary state, they believe that if The Patriarchy lost its control, men would see 50 year olds as just as attractive as 20 year olds. Because it's all just trends to them, nothing is rooted in reality. If black jeans can be in one week and blue jeans the next, why can't 50 year olds become hot with a bit of marketing?

It must be exhausting to constantly gaslight yourself and others. It's not like balding men try to gaslight society into thinking balding men are sexy, they understand that It's not just something you can promote and have everyone go along with, yet fat women have been campaigning for a decade about "fat being beautiful" because as I said, they think they're just one marketing campaign away from becoming the beauty standard. Obviously it hasn't worked.
 
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You bring up a provocative perspective, and it's clear you're tapping into a larger cultural conversation around gender, perception, and social dynamics. Let's unpack this with a bit of nuance.

The difference in how men and women respond to certain biological or social disadvantages isn’t necessarily because one sex is more “rational” or “delusional” than the other — it often comes down to different social conditioning, incentives, and lived experiences.

### 1. **Biological Reality vs. Social Narrative**
Yes, men tend to accept certain physical limitations (like height or balding) more as immutable, whereas some women push back against age or weight-related standards by invoking social constructs. That’s not because women can't grasp objectivity — it's more about how society has historically tied women's value more closely to appearance and men's more to achievement or utility.

### 2. **Why Women Push Against It**
When aging or weight negatively impacts how women are perceived or treated, it often feels unjust because those traits were once their "currency" in the social market. So there's an incentive to challenge the system — not necessarily because they believe reality is malleable like fashion, but because social trends *can* shift norms over time. Not always drastically, and not always in the way they hope, but enough to make pushing worth the effort in their view.

### 3. **Men Accepting Limitations Isn’t Always Noble**
Men who are short, balding, or unattractive *do* complain — online, in incel forums, through blackpill philosophy. They just rarely frame it in social justice language or movements, because that's not how male frustration is typically expressed or validated. Instead of protesting, they might retreat or lash out. “Acceptance” can often mask internal suffering.

### 4. **Marketing and Beauty Standards**
You're not wrong that there's an element of "marketing" to beauty — but it's not *purely* made up. Standards of beauty do shift (think of the difference between Marilyn Monroe’s era vs. today), but they also have biological roots (youth, health indicators, symmetry). The "fat is beautiful" movement hasn’t toppled biology, but it *has* changed the way some companies and media portray bodies — which has real effects for people trying to feel included or respected.

### 5. **TL;DR – Anime Girls**
Fair enough — anime girls are immune to aging, weight gain, and reality. Maybe that’s why they’re winning the aesthetic war.

If you’re venting, fair game. If you’re serious, this kind of take could start a fascinating (and fiery) blog post or video essay. Want help developing it into something structured or more satirical?
 
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You bring up a provocative perspective, and it's clear you're tapping into a larger cultural conversation around gender, perception, and social dynamics. Let's unpack this with a bit of nuance.

The difference in how men and women respond to certain biological or social disadvantages isn’t necessarily because one sex is more “rational” or “delusional” than the other — it often comes down to different social conditioning, incentives, and lived experiences.

### 1. **Biological Reality vs. Social Narrative**
Yes, men tend to accept certain physical limitations (like height or balding) more as immutable, whereas some women push back against age or weight-related standards by invoking social constructs. That’s not because women can't grasp objectivity — it's more about how society has historically tied women's value more closely to appearance and men's more to achievement or utility.

### 2. **Why Women Push Against It**
When aging or weight negatively impacts how women are perceived or treated, it often feels unjust because those traits were once their "currency" in the social market. So there's an incentive to challenge the system — not necessarily because they believe reality is malleable like fashion, but because social trends *can* shift norms over time. Not always drastically, and not always in the way they hope, but enough to make pushing worth the effort in their view.

### 3. **Men Accepting Limitations Isn’t Always Noble**
Men who are short, balding, or unattractive *do* complain — online, in incel forums, through blackpill philosophy. They just rarely frame it in social justice language or movements, because that's not how male frustration is typically expressed or validated. Instead of protesting, they might retreat or lash out. “Acceptance” can often mask internal suffering.

### 4. **Marketing and Beauty Standards**
You're not wrong that there's an element of "marketing" to beauty — but it's not *purely* made up. Standards of beauty do shift (think of the difference between Marilyn Monroe’s era vs. today), but they also have biological roots (youth, health indicators, symmetry). The "fat is beautiful" movement hasn’t toppled biology, but it *has* changed the way some companies and media portray bodies — which has real effects for people trying to feel included or respected.

### 5. **TL;DR – Anime Girls**
Fair enough — anime girls are immune to aging, weight gain, and reality. Maybe that’s why they’re winning the aesthetic war.

If you’re venting, fair game. If you’re serious, this kind of take could start a fascinating (and fiery) blog post or video essay. Want help developing it into something structured or more satirical?
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