Kissless truecel in his 30s here, never been on a date.
Not trying to make a truest incel competition, that's just the way my life is. I do think it's ridiculous when people claim they're so ugly they get laughed at every time they go out. I'm ugly and people mostly just ignore me. Maybe once every couple of months, someone, usually young foids, will openly make fun of my looks, but no one's going to get those comments all the time unless they're legit deformed, and even then they'd get more pity than laughter.
I'd feel a little better about life if I was a "higher tier" incel, someone who was able to get dates with women or even go out to lunch with female coworkers. I ask them and they look at me like I'm crazy.