Serious How many other incels have been physically abused by their parents?

[Crustaciouse]

Since my parents came from a third world country their first choice of punishment was always physical beatings.
It has definitely caused lasting damage to me, for example I flinch very easily and sometimes if I see someone's hand coming towards me my initial thought is that I'm gonna get hit and i flinch even though it isn't going to be an attack. And I'm extremely high inhib which was definitely caused by my parents.
Some of the worst beatings I remember are: when I was in elementary school I got bad grades at one of the parent teacher conferences, and when we got home I was doing my homework with my mother trying to help me do it, and she eventually got so aggravated that she took a wooden ruler and hit it on the top of my head, the ruler broke in half because of the force.
Another instance my dad hit me hard on the leg with a broom and left a giant bruze on my leg.
Most times even if I was seriously crying and apologizing my parents would still keep beating me because in their sick minds I guess they thought that is an appropriate punishment.
I remember at one particular time my dad was beating me and I cried out by saying "stop you really hurt me" because I was badly hurt and he said "I want to hurt you". That moment made me realise that the beatings wherent to teach me a lesson, instead it was their way of punishing me and they would let off steam by doing it whenever they got mad at me.
Other incels, share your abuse stories.

 

[Limerencel]

Spanking lowers IQ and creates many personality problems

 

[Crustaciouse]

Spanking lowers IQ and creates many personality problems

Definitely explains my insanely high inhib and the fact that I'm an absolute PUSSY that's afraid of any type of confrontation.

 

[Richard spencer]

Yep,my mom physically and verbally abused me,
But I was too ugly for her to sexually abuse

 

[randomguy1235]

Spanking lowers IQ and creates many personality problems

Good post brother.

 

[Creep]

Drunken father often threw me around and choke me till black out.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

My mom and grandma use too beat me with a belt, wooden spoons, and slap me when I was a kid. I wanted to kill them

 

[Narazz]

spanking fucked me up. it works on normal kids because they can just out grow their parents bs and they have good things in the world like friends that don't use them and women. spanking/switches taught me to not talk around my folks, the world is ageist me and really fucked my social skills up. Of course i wouldn't say what i went through was abuse. it's just something that dumb parents with tempers use on their kids and find excuses to think it's a good thing.

 

[FortunateMilkman]

My mom and grandma use too beat me with a belt, wooden spoons, and slap me when I was a kid. I wanted to kill them

My moms and grandmas favorite things to use were power extension cables.

 

[JamesW]

Not abused physically but I have a twin sister that my parents favored over me my entire life. Idk If they really knew how fucking cruel that was

 

[Creep]

Spanking lowers IQ and creates many personality problems

Looks like spanking may be good for a boy. Lower IQ so they can relate with retarded normies and increased physical aggression so they are less likely to be bullied and more likely to be respected by men and women, with the latter being more attracted because of it.

 

[Deleted member 60]

idk if it was abuse, but yes I got beatings. I would usually retaliate in some way. When I was 15 I finally snapped and beat the crap out of them. They called the cops and I got arrested. It changed our relationship forever. I practically own them now

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

i got the shit slapped out of me like every day until I was like 10

 

[Weirdcel]

Drunken father often threw me around and choke me till black out.

Wonder why your mom chose him. Must have a good personality and respects women.

 

[diogenes]

Got beatings until I got big enough to resist, then they decided that I was "old enough not to need it".

I don't really feel like it affected me in a positive or negative way. My parents also got the shit beaten out of them, so were my grandparents, and great grandparents. I know that this is anecdotal but still makes me wonder. I would only catch beatings after doing something wrong, and I think that physical abuse is more of being a target of violence for outlet by a parent or guardian.

 

[LebaneseCel]

I have been spanked by my parents frequently but I wouldn't call it "abuse" lol.

 

[heroinfather]

when i was really young i did, i didn't get "beat" per se but one time i got my sbox cable whipped on my leg FUARK that shit hurt like a fucking bitch. I love my mom even tho she did all that, when i got into highschool is stopped, with the occasional smack if i insult her

 

[anon]

I didn't get beat up like how you would get beat up in school or when you get mugged, but I'd get an occassional leg kick from my dad, getting wrestled down and slapped on the back of the head. Nothing too crazy. My dad went through much worse when he was a kid.

It stopped when I turned 15 or so.

 

[Raskolnikov]

I didn't think the majority would vote Yes. I really feel bad for you guys.

 

[Evidential]

Very rarely, and I kind of liked it in the moment, but not after when I think about it.

 

[heroinfather]

Very rarely, and I kind of liked it in the moment, but not after when I think about it.

nigga u like getting beaten wtff is up with these maycels you are all actually mentally ill

 

[Evidential]

nigga u like getting beaten wtff is up with these maycels you are all actually mentally ill

I'm sorry

 

[Deleted member 265]

the only "abuse" i ever got in my life was being grounded from using pc when i skipped classes/ had shitty grades

 

[Evildoer]

Very rarely, and I kind of liked it in the moment, but not after when I think about it.

You like being slapped or what?

 

[Evidential]

You like being slapped or what?

My mother beat me with objects. Knowing I couldn't do anything about it felt good. Not the pain itself.

 

[Evildoer]

My mother beat me with objects. Knowing I couldn't do anything about it felt good. Not the pain itself.

So you like to feel helpless?

 

[Dry Spell]

By my parents NO, but by other AUTHORITY FIGURES and older adults when I was underage, yes.

 

[Evidential]

So you like to feel helpless?

Yes.:trepidation: It's most likely a defense mechanism.

 

[IsolationHurts]

I didn't think the majority would vote Yes. I really feel bad for you guys.

Indeed. My parents hated me but just ignored me as much as they could. They punished me isolating me in a boring room with no tv, books or anything. Never touched me. Never loved me tho.

 

[Evildoer]

Yes.:trepidation: It's most likely a defense mechanism.

Are you into femdom or something

 

[theultimate341]

The belt was my moms go to but if she really angry anything she sees is her go to.

 

[Evidential]

Are you into femdom or something

No. lol

 

[heroinfather]

I'm sorry

sorry for lowkey attacking you tbh i didnt mean it like that

 

[Evidential]

sorry for lowkey attacking you tbh i didnt mean it like that

Don't worry

 

[heroinfather]

Don't worry

 

[Wot1994]

No. I have good parents. And since I've been a practioner of martial arts for a while I'd probably kick their ass.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

Not much, but that has nothing to do with my mental sate which is what normies would love to use this as an excuse.

 

[YunGandUgly]

They did, my mom did most of the light spanking and washing my mouth with soap but when it came to bigger punishments my dad would do it.

 

[Modus Coperandi]

not physical, but i got locked in the basement and had to piss on the floor.
at least i didn't need to clean it up.

 

[Dekim]

Not physically, but mentally

 

[towncel]

No, but I was mentally abused by them

Then physically abused by peers in the first 4 years of elementary school and some of the second 4 years and was seen as spoiled even tho my upbringing was worse than 95% of people's

 

[_incelinside]

i dont remember but i am always extremely high inhib around my parents. Just saying there has got to be a reason

 

[FlyFace]

No. I have good parents. And since I've been a practioner of martial arts for a while I'd probably kick their ass.

So do I but my dad still sucker punched me while I was sitting down while we were eating dinner at a PUBLIC FUCKING RESTAURANT. He had a fucking horrible attitude and was looking for trouble, I get confused(because we usually share food and he was sat quite far so I was asking how he wanted me to take the food..) I'd given him some burger already.. for some reason he stands up and slams my burger back on my plate and I'm confused as hell.. I'm just like "what did you do that for?" and he's looking back at me getting agitated going "What? What?!" long story short he tells me to get outside and right after slams my head for no fucking reason.. fucking prick. Nobody saw it either. Mum is all like "OMG I don't want to see him right now.." fast forward one day "LMAO come back to bed honey.. teehee"

Then when we went out on the town at the weekend my mum, in the last bar is like, "You love your father don't you.. apologise for him hitting you.." I say no, she agrees with me and gives me dead hooker eyes when she says "could you apologise for it happening". This world needs to be burnt to a crisp. When they came in another time my mum kept laughing at me for saying "what?". Fucking hate the stupid slag

2 weeks ago tomorrow it happened, the restaurant. But I've been abused all throughout school too.. from incompetent teachers to bullying students. A teacher even saying to my face that basically "look you are being bullied, we know but we can't tell the parents of those kids or do anything against them because what if those parents talked badly about the school".. it's un fucking real.. wanted to burn that shithole to the ground, still think about burning it down today and burning myself up with it.

i dont remember but i am always extremely high inhib around my parents. Just saying there has got to be a reason

I'm High Inhib everywhere.. I just don't trust a soul.. they have proven their untrustworthiness as being nothing but vessels of suffering.

 

[Crustaciouse]

So do I but my dad still sucker punched me while I was sitting down while we were eating dinner at a PUBLIC FUCKING RESTAURANT. He had a fucking horrible attitude and was looking for trouble, I get confused(because we usually share food and he was sat quite far so I was asking how he wanted me to take the food..) I'd given him some burger already.. for some reason he stands up and slams my burger back on my plate and I'm confused as hell.. I'm just like "what did you do that for?" and he's looking back at me getting agitated going "What? What?!" long story short he tells me to get outside and right after slams my head for no fucking reason.. fucking prick. Nobody saw it either. Mum is all like "OMG I don't want to see him right now.." fast forward one day "LMAO come back to bed honey.. teehee"

Then when we went out on the town at the weekend my mum, in the last bar is like, "You love your father don't you.. apologise for him hitting you.." I say no, she agrees with me and gives me dead hooker eyes when she says "could you apologise for it happening". This world needs to be burnt to a crisp. When they came in another time my mum kept laughing at me for saying "what?". Fucking hate the stupid slag

2 weeks ago tomorrow it happened, the restaurant. But I've been abused all throughout school too.. from incompetent teachers to bullying students. A teacher even saying to my face that basically "look you are being bullied, we know but we can't tell the parents of those kids or do anything against them because what if those parents talked badly about the school".. it's un fucking real.. wanted to burn that shithole to the ground, still think about burning it down today and burning myself up with it.

I'm High Inhib everywhere.. I just don't trust a soul.. they have proven their untrustworthiness as being nothing but vessels of suffering.

I hate how parents all ways take each others side even if they did something completely wrong and they km ow it's wrong.
My parents would all ways back each Other up with my beatings. Sometimes I was able to run away from them in the house but then the other parent helped them entrap me and I got an even bigger beating.