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How many online dating messages you have sent?

Windowlicker

Windowlicker

Greycel
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For a couple of years I thought online dating would work for me.

My numbers are these
-Sent over 2000 messages
-Got a few hundred replies with a standard "No interest!"
-Got around 20 positive replies
-15 of them were no scammers, bots
-8 of them replied more than once
-3 of them wanted tot date me
-2 of them did appear on a date
-1 of them kissed me
-0 of them brought me sex or a relationship

What are your numbers?
 
I sent like 10 messages two years ago, the only girls that responded were the ones that I insulted out of boredom, just to call me an asshole or whatever. The rest ignored me. This proves that women mostly read these messages to inflate their egos rather than actually date.
 
In different thread I just wrote I got replies from 2 real girls on tinder over the period of 5 months which rejected me anyway and got labeled as a fakecel. If I am fakecel you must be at least normie with those numbers.
-1 of them kissed me
OK, how the fuck is this possible. Did you drugged her or something?
 
0. I'm horrified to try it as I've been blackpilled on the topic and have heard all the horror stories.

Also:
I sent like 10 messages two years ago, the only girls that responded were the ones that I insulted out of boredom, just to call me an asshole or whatever. The rest ignored me. This proves that women mostly read these messages to inflate their egos rather than actually date.
this is very true. Someone I know told me that they know women who are in relationships but still use tinder. Wonder why?:think::think::think::think:
 
Got about 30 matches in a month, about half of them answered and 3 wanted to date at first but ghosted me when I messaged them to set time and place.

Also had a couple of dates IRL (my job gives some status) but same thing happened when I tried talking to them later.
 
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ghosted me when I messaged them to set time and place.
Dude, don't ask femoid to set time and place, just pick something yourself. Femoid brain is incapable of doing this.
 
-Sent over 500 messages
-Got around 10 positive replies
-5 bots
-3 of them replied more than once
-1 of them wanted tot date me
-0 of them did appear on a date
-0 of them kissed me
-0 of them brought me sex or a relationship
 
OK, how the fuck is this possible. Did you drugged her or something?

No, it was the only time a woman liked me and she was the one that started it.

After the date she ghosted me. Never knew the reason but I think there was some other guy dating her also..
 
Few hundred. Got tired of time wasters trying to collect orbiters and not meet up.
 
Don't see the point. Online dating is a sausage fest. Not even factoring hypergamy, the odds are already against you. +70% of users are male on most platforms.
 
Dude, don't ask femoid to set time and place, just pick something yourself. Femoid brain is incapable of doing this.

Whenever I do that (for ex "wanna go out this saturday) they say they got other plans tho
 
Around 50. It always ends with no reply or rejection
 
None. I look like an ex-con . One message from me and females would block my profile. srs.
 
ive lost count of how many girls i have messaged on plenty of fish.
 
3 wanted to date at first but ghosted me when I messaged them to set time and place.

Seriously, wtf do women do this. Just say no instead of saying yes and then ignoring people
 
Almost there just try another 4000 :feelsgah::feelsgah::feelsgah:
 
0 / if you are ugly it doesnt matter / real life or nothing
 
I've been on okcupid for quite a long time.

Dedicated a lot of time to my profile because I was under the assumption girls would be interested in that stuff. Like doing all kind of sport activities, denoting my msc degree, good job, pursuing romantic activities (kek). But yeah all this stuff doesnt matter obviously because I'm ugly.

If I only knew earlier, could have saved me a lot of time.
 
Something in the range of 80.
 

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