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Serious How many of you have sat down with your parents and told them about your inceldom, alienation due to ugliness, and that you have no future?

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I've had this discussion with my dad many times, a lot of which ended up in arguments. Most of the time, we can't see eye to eye because he expects me to be able to discard my needs, forget about the rest of the world and cope with whatever I can find like sports or art. He wants me to cope my way through life and I've made it clear that its just not possible for me to do that and that I won't be able to carry on much longer into the future, meaning I'll be roping sooner than later. There are parents who are left bewildered and confused in the aftermath of their child's suicide, but I deliberately want the opposite in my case. I have made it totally clear that I can sustain myself for much longer.

How do your parents reacted to your inceldom? Are they typically bluepilled and out of touch about it, or do they understand and try to help you with plastic surgeries?
 
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I've never had a full on discussion but when my mom brings up relationships, I tell her that women don't like me cause I'm short and ugly.

She's pretty bluepilled and usually says that that's not true and that I'll find someone eventually.
 
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My father is somewhat redpilled on women, but not blackpillled. There is no reason why a man who is married should ever face the realities of blackpilled. I have dropped some subtle blackpills on him, but nothing too big. I think he already knows of my social status, because i literally rot all day at home. He has never seen me with a girl my age, and i have never been with a girl my of any age for that matter. :cryfeels: I think he still has some hope for me, but maybe it's just him trying to cope with the fact that one of his sons turned out to be a genetic failure who cant hardly speak to women, while his other one has an active sexual/social life.
I have never talked to my mother about any sort of relationships, but she constantly advises me to "Not get any women pregnant, too soon." I just sort of grimace and say I won't, who knows if shes coping like my father is, but maybe she is that delusional.
 
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Your brain is clearly fucked if you're genuinely asking questions like "Why can't my parents just accept my suicide?"
 
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Please don’t kill yourself, you’re a solid user. But I have mentioned that I’m “not interested” in a relationship to get my parents off my case (even though I want one more than anything). They used to pester me about how they want grandkids etc but they understand their KHHV 18 yo son probably won’t procreate.
 
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I never talk about that with them, i only say that women are whores and it ends with my cucked father denying and my mother calling me a "male chauvinist".
I get scared that i say something about that i never got laid and my mother bring a fucking ugly landwhale inside our house and makes me talk to her, i can already feel the awkwardness in the air and me doing some mental gymnastics or lying to my parents saying that im actually gay to escape the foid :feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
 
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There's no point. Foids by default can't understand and most men are coping too hard to accept it.
 
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iamsubhuman said:
She's pretty bluepilled and usually says that that's not true and that I'll find someone eventually.
As a woman herself, does she really think a woman will accept your height and looks? Is she trolling you or what?
 
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wereqryan said:
As a woman herself, does she really think a woman will accept your height and looks? Is she trolling you or what?
I can't blame her cause my father is short and was balding (I think) but they lived in a shitty and religious country with no dating apps. She won't understand that modern women aren't like that.
 
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Never, they are oblivious bluepilled normies

My father is extremely paranoid so of course he is going to interpret my consideration of the blackpill as a threat against his world view.

My mother is a narcissist who thinks me to be very attractive but only because I am her son.

Only my brother knows that I am blackpilled, yet he himself knows nothing of the blackpill. Funny isn't it
 
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And to add onto this post, my mother doesn't like to sit near me, i am suspecting that she doesn't sit by me because she doesn't want to be associated with her ugly son. She wants to be seen with her attractive looking soon.
 
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FrothySolutions said:
Your brain is clearly fucked if you're genuinely asking questions like "Why can't my parents just accept my suicide?"
Read my post again you bluepilled retard. I don't expect them to accept my suicide, just know why I'm doing it. How they handle it is solely up to them.
iamsubhuman said:
I can't blame her cause my father is short and was balding (I think) but they lived in a shitty and religious country with no dating apps. She won't understand that modern women aren't like that.
Ah that makes sense.
keksofthebest said:
And to add onto this post, my mother doesn't like to sit near me, i am suspecting that she doesn't sit by me because she doesn't want to be associated with her ugly son. She wants to be seen with her attractive looking soon.
Brutal.
 
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wereqryan said:
Read my post again you bluepilled retard. I don't expect them to accept my suicide, just know why I'm doing it. How they handle it is solely up to them.

What you said was...

wereqryan said:
There are parents who are left bewildered and confused in the aftermath of their child's suicide, but I deliberately want the opposite in my case. I have made it totally clear that I can sustain myself for much longer.

Your brain is fucked if you think you can get or even deserve the opposite.
 
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I have nothing to gain by telling my mother tbh because she's already willing to help pay for some of my surgeries and stuff.
She wouldn't understand anyways.

wereqryan said:
As a woman herself, does she really think a woman will accept your height and looks? Is she trolling you or what?
I suspect pretty much all women are full blown narcissist on top of being illogical and can't accept that someone she's conceived isn't attractive or viewed as worthy to reproduce.

She can't understand why her short son with a recessed chin can't get any dates when all the guys she fucked in here 20's where 6'3 badboys with sharp jawlines.:lul:
 
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My pops wanted me to play varsity sports and be a computer whiz. High expectations for a parent who died broke.
 
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FrothySolutions said:
Your brain is fucked if you think you can get or even deserve the opposite.
Yeah I want the my parents to be the opposide of "bewildered, confused, and wondering." I want them to know and understand. Whether they can accept it is a whole another thing altogether.
Pixycel said:
I have nothing to gain by telling my mother tbh because she's already willing to help pay for some of my surgeries and stuff.
That's very nice. When I had hope a couple of years ago, I used to get into fights with my dad trying to get him to finance my surgeries, but he was too tough of a nut for me to crack. In the end, I just gave up on all of my hopes and dreams and now I'm just rotting away like a corpse.
Pixycel said:
I suspect pretty much all women are full blown narcissist on top of being illogical and can't accept that someone she's conceived isn't attractive or viewed as worthy to reproduce.
Yeah you hit the nail on the head. I think there's delusion and stupidity mixed in there as well. Women are truly the inferior specimen of the human race. Sucks that men have to drag this liability along like beasts of burden.
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She can't understand why her short son with a recessed chin can't get any dates when all the guys she fucked in here 20's where 6'3 badboys with sharp jawlines.:lul:
Women like her who have such profound ignorance, lack of intelligence, and narcissism makes me want to blow them to pieces with a shotgun.
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My pops wanted me to play varsity sports and be a computer whiz. High expectations for a parent who died broke.
Was your dad athletic himself?
 
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wereqryan said:
I've had this discussion with my dad many times, a lot of which ended up in arguments. Most of the time, we can't see eye to eye because he expects me to be able to discard my needs, forget about the rest of the world and cope with whatever I can find like sports or art. He wants me to cope my way through life and I've made it clear that its just not possible for me to do that and that I won't be able to carry on much longer into the future, meaning I'll be roping sooner than later. There are parents who are left bewildered and confused in the aftermath of their child's suicide, but I deliberately want the opposite in my case. I have made it totally clear that I can sustain myself for much longer.

How do your parents reacted to your inceldom? Are they typically bluepilled and out of touch about it, or do they understand and try to help you with plastic surgeries?
I just told my parents that I'm never having kids and they went "We know" - so they knew I was a loser from the start.
 
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InMyCellInHell said:
I just told my parents that I'm never having kids and they went "We know" - so they knew I was a loser from the start.
Make them know why you're not having them just in case.
 
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lord said:
I never talk about that with them, i only say that women are whores and it ends with my cucked father denying and my mother calling me a "male chauvinist".
I get scared that i say something about that i never got laid and my mother bring a fucking ugly landwhale inside our house and makes me talk to her, i can already feel the awkwardness in the air and me doing some mental gymnastics or lying to my parents saying that im actually gay to escape the foid :feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
I've said that I was a kissless virgin to them and they didn't give a fuck
 
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wereqryan said:
Yeah I want the my parents to be the opposide of "bewildered, confused, and wondering." I want them to know and understand. Whether they can accept it is a whole another thing altogether.

That would be "acceptance." You want them to not be bewildered. You don't seem to understand how impossible that is. How anathema that is to being a parent. And I think I've told you this before.
 
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Orca said:
I've said that I was a kissless virgin to them and they didn't give a fuck
Yes, my parents know that too, but i never talked about being a incel about them, they probably think that i can get laid at any moment.
 
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A few months ago my father and I discussed in great detail why I and so many other males are incel. He wasn’t too resistant for a blue-pilled cuck.
 
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No. My parents don’t care. In fact I’m sure they are happy that I am alone. It never crosses their mind that it’s weird for a man my age to never been seen with a woman and who is not a fag.
 
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FrothySolutions said:
That would be "acceptance." You want them to not be bewildered. You don't seem to understand how impossible that is. How anathema that is to being a parent. And I think I've told you this before.
It seems to me like you don't comprehend nuance in language at all.
 
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wereqryan said:
It seems to me like you don't comprehend nuance in language at all.

There's no nuance here though. What you've said is clear. But you don't seem to understand or care that this isn't how any parent's mind works or can work.
 
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wereqryan said:
I've had this discussion with my dad many times, a lot of which ended up in arguments. Most of the time, we can't see eye to eye because he expects me to be able to discard my needs, forget about the rest of the world and cope with whatever I can find like sports or art. He wants me to cope my way through life and I've made it clear that its just not possible for me to do that and that I won't be able to carry on much longer into the future, meaning I'll be roping sooner than later. There are parents who are left bewildered and confused in the aftermath of their child's suicide, but I deliberately want the opposite in my case. I have made it totally clear that I can sustain myself for much longer.

How do your parents reacted to your inceldom? Are they typically bluepilled and out of touch about it, or do they understand and try to help you with plastic surgeries?
Yeah same, my father says “just accept it “ bitch Its not about acceptance at all ,it’s very painful “

They don’t get it at all , cuz they are retarded normies
wereqryan said:
typically bluepilled and out of touch about it
This always
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try to help you with plastic surgeries
Does parents like this actually exist ? I rly wonder cuz all parents are retarded Normies
 
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Complained to my dad about being subhuman
He's not fully blackpilled, but will admit some form of looks discrimination
Showed him scientific blackpills and he doesn't deny the data
He's mostly bluepilled because he lived in a different time as a white guy
His body count is like 200 jfl mostly ethnic roasties
He tried to give me bluepilled advice but I rebuked it so we considered escorts
 
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the virgin shepherd said:
Never, they are oblivious bluepilled normies

My father is extremely paranoid so of course he is going to interpret my consideration of the blackpill as a threat against his world view.

My mother is a narcissist who thinks me to be very attractive but only because I am her son.

Only my brother knows that I am blackpilled, yet he himself knows nothing of the blackpill. Funny isn't it
Same,I wonder if there is a non Bluepilled normie parents exist ?
 
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Mentally lost cel said:
Yeah same, my father says “just accept it “ bitch Its not about acceptance at all ,it’s very painful “
He doesn't realize that he's basically asking his son to voluntarily starve to death.
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cuz all parents are retarded Normies
Most indeed are.
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His body count is like 200 jfl mostly ethnic roasties
Holy shit!
 
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wereqryan said:
He doesn't realize that he's basically asking his son to voluntarily starve to death.
He is very retarded and very evil
 
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wereqryan said:
Holy shit!
Quarter of them were escorts
He didn't start slaying until his 30s and even then he plays his jbw card on noodles most of the time
 
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didn't do it yet, they just wouldn't understand
 
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