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Experiment How many foids have you asked out/approached? (POLL)

How many foids have you asked out and/or approached in your life?

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FailedNormieManlet

FailedNormieManlet

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I have a theory that most of us here are mentalcels.

I've personally NEVER asked out a single foid in my entire 27 years of life :lul::lul::lul:

I have extreme social anxiety :feelsrope:
 
Well over 100+

I spend £120 a month on very realistic hair to cover my baldness. I had professionals look
at my dating profile. I lost well over 120 pounds in weight. I did fucking everything. Women
just judged me for my looks.

Personality meant nothing at all. I was light hearted, jokey, did everything every normie cuck
did.
 
Well over 100+

I spend £120 a month on very realistic hair to cover my baldness. I had professionals look
at my dating profile. I lost well over 120 pounds in weight. I did fucking everything. Women
just judged me for my looks.
brutal
 
Well over 100+

I spend £120 a month on very realistic hair to cover my baldness. I had professionals look
at my dating profile. I lost well over 120 pounds in weight. I did fucking everything. Women
just judged me for my looks.

Personality meant nothing at all. I was light hearted, jokey, did everything every normie cuck
did.
Doing all that and still being rejected is fucking brutal
 

I also mew'd so much I have six packs on my cheeks.

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Never approached a foid even once. I don't see the point in doing so when the outcome is clear.
 
there was one girl that i asked out at 10-11 yo, spoiler she kindly refused
 
5 and I just gave up after the last one lmfao. Even back then, I knew that the juice just wasn't worth the squeeze
 
Well over 100+

I spend £120 a month on very realistic hair to cover my baldness. I had professionals look
at my dating profile. I lost well over 120 pounds in weight. I did fucking everything. Women
just judged me for my looks.

Personality meant nothing at all. I was light hearted, jokey, did everything every normie cuck
did.
Beyond brutal :feelscry:
 
gave up around the 12th attempt, after that i did fewer attempts thinking about giving up completely this year
 
no point in "approaching" a foid unless you've received some sort of IOI
 
Well over 100+

I spend £120 a month on very realistic hair to cover my baldness. I had professionals look
at my dating profile. I lost well over 120 pounds in weight. I did fucking everything. Women
just judged me for my looks.

Personality meant nothing at all. I was light hearted, jokey, did everything every normie cuck
did.

So brutal man, how is that even possible? Do you have a deformity or extreme short height like 5'2?
 

So what did you do, just walk up to random women and ask them for their number. Or did you try to warm approach women in social circle or your work?

I've heard warm approach is better than cold approach. I've never tried either though, I have deadass 0 approaches in my whole fucking life.
 
0 dont wanna be scarned
 
2 both had boyfriends
 
2, I'm not low inhib / psycho enough to walk up to random foids and ask them out. One was a classmate and the other a co worker.
 
Around 20 if we even let middle school count.

But none since I joined .is

I dont meet many Gen Z women anymore anyway.

I dont like Roasties and I dislike fucked out women too.

The most interaction i get with women is on the train. Sometimes we talk about something but i have not asked out any of them.

It will end up with:

"I have a boyfriend"
"What can you provide?"
"Ewww you creep"
"No thanks"
"I am Lesbian"
"I am Non Binary"
"I dont need a boyfriend right now"
"I am out of your League"

And so on and so for I had ALL of these btw.

Most time I was sitting right next to them and talk to them, i look at them and they tell me "Are you speaking to yourself?" a girl from 10th grade was Holding her hand into my face who I wanted to just talk about something thats going on in school, i was not interested in her or being even just a friend, she said "Talk to the Hand".

The dating App experience was I had some like Tinder for years and got only few matches. They never responsed back. It was a waste of time.

I am banned from all major Dating Apps now. So its over for that.

Never got any Dates anyway.

Snap I talked to dozens of girls about literally anything but it never amounted to me dating these people. It also was not enjoyable because all these women were bland as fuck. They had not much going on in their lifes. They usually just spoke about their social media and their orbiters - I made a lot of posts about it.

I kinda felt like a Orbiter too after a girl I even met personally on College told me over Snap "I am just another Chat" after I asked her "What am I to you?".

We never talked again.

Discord E dating I did for 4 months before I gave up. I usually just trolled around. Its pointless. Most girls arent even girls they are guys catfishing.

The few girls wanted to promote their OF or Instagram.

Was a shit Server.

There were all kinds of Gymcels and Truecels on the server. Some HTN amd Chadlites but rarely.

When I was early 20s, like 20 to 23 I did visit a lot of Bars. Almost weekly going to bars, i met a few interesting people...but they were all men.

I only met landwhales or Roasties and Boomer women at Bars.

Nothing I would consider girlfriend material.

I also came to the conclusion that I am simply too financially low class to have any relationship going. I am not a NEET but what I make is simply too little to entertain a women.

I got no family with connections. In fact I dont have a family at all atp.

Aint got no friends either. How am I supposed to establish connections in my 20s. Everyone either has already "Enough friends" or doesnt want to have friends.

So its over.
 
So what did you do, just walk up to random women and ask them for their number. Or did you try to warm approach women in social circle or your work?

I've heard warm approach is better than cold approach. I've never tried either though, I have deadass 0 approaches in my whole fucking life.
a mix of both really. I had a small group of ''friends'' from highschool we would get drunk/high and go to bars etc and ask girls there. Always worked for them but never for me. I used to cold approach a lot in highschool too but never got any success either.
 
Around 20 if we even let middle school count.

But none since I joined .is

I dont meet many Gen Z women anymore anyway.

I dont like Roasties and I dislike fucked out women too.

The most interaction i get with women is on the train. Sometimes we talk about something but i have not asked out any of them.

It will end up with:

"I have a boyfriend"
"What can you provide?"
"Ewww you creep"
"No thanks"
"I am Lesbian"
"I am Non Binary"
"I dont need a boyfriend right now"
"I am out of your League"

And so on and so for I had ALL of these btw.

Most time I was sitting right next to them and talk to them, i look at them and they tell me "Are you speaking to yourself?" a girl from 10th grade was Holding her hand into my face who I wanted to just talk about something thats going on in school, i was not interested in her or being even just a friend, she said "Talk to the Hand".

The dating App experience was I had some like Tinder for years and got only few matches. They never responsed back. It was a waste of time.

I am banned from all major Dating Apps now. So its over for that.

Never got any Dates anyway.

Snap I talked to dozens of girls about literally anything but it never amounted to me dating these people. It also was not enjoyable because all these women were bland as fuck. They had not much going on in their lifes. They usually just spoke about their social media and their orbiters - I made a lot of posts about it.

I kinda felt like a Orbiter too after a girl I even met personally on College told me over Snap "I am just another Chat" after I asked her "What am I to you?".

We never talked again.

Discord E dating I did for 4 months before I gave up. I usually just trolled around. Its pointless. Most girls arent even girls they are guys catfishing.

The few girls wanted to promote their OF or Instagram.

Was a shit Server.

There were all kinds of Gymcels and Truecels on the server. Some HTN amd Chadlites but rarely.

When I was early 20s, like 20 to 23 I did visit a lot of Bars. Almost weekly going to bars, i met a few interesting people...but they were all men.

I only met landwhales or Roasties and Boomer women at Bars.

Nothing I would consider girlfriend material.

I also came to the conclusion that I am simply too financially low class to have any relationship going. I am not a NEET but what I make is simply too little to entertain a women.

I got no family with connections. In fact I dont have a family at all atp.

Aint got no friends either. How am I supposed to establish connections in my 20s. Everyone either has already "Enough friends" or doesnt want to have friends.

So its over.

God damn so brutal bro :dafuckfeels: Sorry brocel I wish I could give you a hug.:feelsbadman:
 
a mix of both really. I had a small group of ''friends'' from highschool we would get drunk/high and go to bars etc and ask girls there. Always worked for them but never for me. I used to cold approach a lot in highschool too but never got any success either.

Is this DBDR's alt account? His story is the exact same
 
no point in "approaching" a foid unless you've received some sort of IOI
What about guys like me who have no positive experiences. A woman never flirted or gave me any signs.
 
So what did you do, just walk up to random women and ask them for their number. Or did you try to warm approach women in social circle or your work?

I've heard warm approach is better than cold approach. I've never tried either though, I have deadass 0 approaches in my whole fucking life.

No - a lot of mine were at work. This isn't counting women i've asked out on online dating.

It isn't helped by the fact that knowledge-wise I know more than my managers/people in
my industry, but was stopped from progressing/being promoted, so they just kept me
at the bottom level for over 10 years, despite performing better than them.
 
smart thread grAY, if any mods see this, they can weed out the fakecels easier
 
God damn so brutal bro :dafuckfeels: Sorry brocel I wish I could give you a hug.:feelsbadman:
I was thinking about cold approching just hundreds of girls..but then again i think. I cant fucking provide anything and i dont want to have an assult claim or sexual harassment or whatever on my ass.
 
What about guys like me who have no positive experiences. A woman never flirted or gave me any signs.

A better question is How do you even know what an IOI or an attraction sign is?

If we have 0 experience we wouldn't know if a girl wants us or not?:feelshehe:

Where do normies even learn these secrets, because I was never taught this shit.
 
If we only count times I asked out the girl, 5 girls.
Plus 2 girls I approached/tried to get close with but without asking them out directly.

- 6th grade, flirted with her but never was interested in me and ended up being the problematic foid only dating degenerate older dudes
- 10th grade, asked her out for a date, she said yes, then changed her mind on last minute (closest i ever got to a date) and got in a relationship with a jock literally two weeks later
- 12th grade, approached her but she never seemed interested in me
- Uni year 2, asked her out, she ghosted me (still waiting for an answer to this day)
- Uni year 3, flirted with her, she got away with a chad instead
- Uni year 4, asked her out, she rejected me
- Uni year 4, asked her out, she said she was never interested in me and probably never will
 
If we only count times I asked out the girl, 5 girls.
Plus 2 girls I approached/tried to get close with but without asking them out directly.

- 6th grade, flirted with her but never was interested in me and ended up being the problematic foid only dating degenerate older dudes
- 10th grade, asked her out for a date, she said yes, then changed her mind on last minute (closest i ever got to a date) and got in a relationship with a jock literally two weeks later
- 12th grade, approached her but she never seemed interested in me
- Uni year 2, asked her out, she ghosted me (still waiting for an answer to this day)
- Uni year 3, flirted with her, she got away with a chad instead
- Uni year 4, asked her out, she rejected me
- Uni year 4, asked her out, she said she was never interested in me and probably never will

Interesting, It sounds like you had a normie life, even going to university and stuff.

How did you end up incel? Are you very short or ugly? Do you go for your looksmatch or only go for very hot Stacey's?

Also can you run JBW game in France on dark skin African foids?
 
Interesting, It sounds like you had a normie life, even going to university and stuff.
I wouldn't qualify it as a normie life, far from it

I could have friendly albeit autistic conversations with foids so it proves my personality isn't the problem and never was, despite what normfags want us to believe

How did you end up incel?
You don't end up incel, you are born as one

Are you very short or ugly?
5'7 ugly balding gingernigger

Do you go for your looksmatch or only go for very hot Stacey's?
Looksmatch

Also can you run JBW game in France on dark skin African foids?
Out of the seven foids I listed, the two first were white, the third one black, then turkish, latina and two arabs
So more ethnics than whites and it still didn't work
 
Out of the seven foids I listed, the two first were white, the third one black, then turkish, latina and two arabs
So more ethnics than whites and it still didn't work

As an ethnicel I've always seen black foids online have a huge fetish for white men. Especially very dark African foids, are they really that hard?

Have you tried online dating sites targeted at black women? I'm sure many want to be bleached by your BWC, that's what I would do if I was white.

Before nofap I used to masturbate to a classy French-African foid (Isabelle Miller) she was so sexy with huge dark chocolate ass and tits :ahegao:
 
As an ethnicel I've always seen black foids online have a huge fetish for white men. Especially very dark African foids, are they really that hard?
Maybe in some cases idk

But on a personal level, no black foid was ever interested in me

Have you tried online dating sites targeted at black women? I'm sure many want to be bleached by your BWC, that's what I would do if I was white.
I always felt dating apps were a loss of time, no matter what kind of dating apps it is

Before nofap I used to masturbate to a classy French-African foid (Isabelle Miller) she was so sexy with huge dark chocolate ass and tits :ahegao:
Agreed, some black foids are hot :feelsohh:
 
2, even though I had 4 crushes my entire life.

The first one was an MTB BPD emo foid in my class of 9th grade middle school (equivalent to freshman year). She ignored me while I was talking, talked about cutting herself, rejected me and said she was aromantic before proceeding to give me disgust looks at the bus we took home.

Saw her with an unironic tall lanky blue-eyed white gigamogger charismamaxxed artist chad 2 years later.

Second one was a nicer emo foid who looked like the first and wasn't BPD whom I met in my first year of highschool. She rejected me but I still kept following her around and talking to her. She got an MTN boyfriend which she announced in the class chatroom (most likely to get me to stop talking to her) and I sperged out like the autist I am in it and made everyone in my class instantly hate me in one day.

After that I just kept angrily staring at her boyfriend like a tard and annoying her for a good 2 months straight before getting over it.
 
A better question is How do you even know what an IOI or an attraction sign is?

If we have 0 experience we wouldn't know if a girl wants us or not?:feelshehe:

Where do normies even learn these secrets, because I was never taught this shit.
Simply you watch another guys who have no problem with women. A girl will hang out around you, look at you like a stupid puppy, lean her head, play with hair etc.
 
0 in person. But I consider dating app swipes to be similar enough to asking someone out, so that's more than 1000+ rejections.
 
Simply you watch another guys who have no problem with women. A girl will hang out around you, look at you like a stupid puppy, lean her head, play with hair etc.

Just find a Chad friend bro

0 in person. But I consider dating app swipes to be similar enough to asking someone out, so that's more than 1000+ rejections.
Dating apps don’t count. I mean IRL asking a girl out from your social circle, school, or job who you already have a connection with.
 
Just find a Chad friend bro


Dating apps don’t count. I mean IRL asking a girl out from your social circle, school, or job who you already have a connection with.
Why don't you count dating apps? With your profile and your like you're communicating with a woman you want to date.
 

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