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It is a fundamental truth, considering that being in a couple compared to being alone, having kids, experiencing love, raising a family is said by some (including myself) to be the closest thing we have to the meaning of life.
Looking at all the problems Ive had in my life that has been damaging to me, pretty much ALL would have not happend if it wasnt for women not having enough interest in me. And then I dont just mean sexual but any other type of relationship except very formal ones are considered «unsafe» by them and thereby obselete.
I think its a taboo and a norm in mixed society (that are all predominantly white) that it is something we dont tall about, and dont care to admit. Race > looks > money - thats what it is.
I always felt like there was no one like me. Even though Ive considered it my own fault, if I were to bring up and example I would say I was too afraid to try in certain situations and that is my own fault. BUT… would I have been too afraid if it wasnt for the traumatizing experiences and rejections from women I had before that? Ofcourse not.
Ive been too sad, just being lonely at home, crying on the street etc. and as a result dropped out of school. Or in other words just chose not to take my example. That changed my life for the worse, would that have happened if I hadnt always been single up until that point? I think not.
Ive stopped trusting others, stopped looking up to others and I generally dont speak to anyone unless I have to. Would I have felt this way if people innately liked me, or loved me? I think not.
Ive gotten so frustrated and angry after being rejected by girls or being sabotaged by their friends (or any other secondary person) that Ive attacked women, destroyed half my apartment, attacked cars, broken windows, threathened people etc. and I would say NONE, not even one of those things would have happened if it wasnt for that lonelyness. That emtpyness.
And people trying to act like its not a big deal that you never had a girlfriend, its not a big deal you never came in to a woman. Its not a big deal that you will spend the rest of your life alone stuck in agonizing painful emotions because you will never exerience love and never have children.
People dont seem to understand the magnitude of it. Thats why I hide it, and lie. And I dont want to live it and I hate the ones that let me think I was like everyone else and that this wasnt inevitable to happen or that I was not always destined to fail. Why bring a kid in to this life if he will feel nothing but pain? I dont understand it.
Looking at all the problems Ive had in my life that has been damaging to me, pretty much ALL would have not happend if it wasnt for women not having enough interest in me. And then I dont just mean sexual but any other type of relationship except very formal ones are considered «unsafe» by them and thereby obselete.
I think its a taboo and a norm in mixed society (that are all predominantly white) that it is something we dont tall about, and dont care to admit. Race > looks > money - thats what it is.
I always felt like there was no one like me. Even though Ive considered it my own fault, if I were to bring up and example I would say I was too afraid to try in certain situations and that is my own fault. BUT… would I have been too afraid if it wasnt for the traumatizing experiences and rejections from women I had before that? Ofcourse not.
Ive been too sad, just being lonely at home, crying on the street etc. and as a result dropped out of school. Or in other words just chose not to take my example. That changed my life for the worse, would that have happened if I hadnt always been single up until that point? I think not.
Ive stopped trusting others, stopped looking up to others and I generally dont speak to anyone unless I have to. Would I have felt this way if people innately liked me, or loved me? I think not.
Ive gotten so frustrated and angry after being rejected by girls or being sabotaged by their friends (or any other secondary person) that Ive attacked women, destroyed half my apartment, attacked cars, broken windows, threathened people etc. and I would say NONE, not even one of those things would have happened if it wasnt for that lonelyness. That emtpyness.
And people trying to act like its not a big deal that you never had a girlfriend, its not a big deal you never came in to a woman. Its not a big deal that you will spend the rest of your life alone stuck in agonizing painful emotions because you will never exerience love and never have children.
People dont seem to understand the magnitude of it. Thats why I hide it, and lie. And I dont want to live it and I hate the ones that let me think I was like everyone else and that this wasnt inevitable to happen or that I was not always destined to fail. Why bring a kid in to this life if he will feel nothing but pain? I dont understand it.
