Lots of normies love to claim that getting a gf would do not solve all of our problems, I disagree. To understand how a loyal real life gf would turn my life around we must understand what are my problems
My Problems, Their causes and how a gf would solve them
Depression - My depression is caused by a complete and total rejection from society, I am alone all day with nobody but myself, the only person i have to talk to is my mom but she's an entire 2 generations away from me, I cannot really relate to her and she cannot really relate to me. Another root cause of my depression is not having someone that loves me in non family way. having a gf who truly loves me would make my depression literally disappear as i would have someone in my life who could relate me and that hole in my heart created by a lack of non family love would be patched up
OCD - I often have OCD related thoughts that make it hard for me to focus on anything, i'm often stuck thinking about things that in the long run do not matter but my brain is basically hardwired to force myself to think, I find that in the few moments i am happy the OCD becomes very manageable, If have a gf that truly loves me then i will likely be very happy to a point where my OCD is very manageable
Lack of self worth - I have very little self worth because of how much i feel rejected by society, It's like the only people that care about me care about me because i'm family if I wasn't that wouldn't care about me but if i had loyal loving gf, i would feel self worth for the first time since i was young child.
Joblessness - I have struggled for several months trying to find a job, i'm a point where i'm even trying anymore i have no motivation to try to find work and i worry that if i were to work my depression would get worse, my OCD would get worse and might do something stupid and put myself into harms way, whether that be trouble or physical harm. With a gf my problem hear won't be directedly solved but with her by my side i'd likely have the motivation to land myself a job that I lack at the moment, after all a good gf wants her man to succeed.
Hatred - all of my hatred for society stems from the fact that I feel rejected by it and i feel that no matter i do i will always be rejected by it, I have an entice dislike for women of my generation because the way the have treated me poorly, From pretending to be in love with as a sick prank to general bullying and harassment that started in elementary and never stopped, women of my age have never treated me right the best I've ever gotten was apathy which isn't good either. While I never forgive these people for what they have done to me, Just one women showing a genuine interest in me would heal those wounds they have done to me and prove to me that women my age aren't all similar in how the treat conventual unattractive males
Autism - The world becomes much harder to navigate when you have autism, i know this from experience things that just come to normal people never clicked for me, I'm very particular in how i like things done. It's not exactly the autism it's self but the way normal people treat you when you have it. if one person treated me right like a gf then all problems associated with being autistic wouldn't be problems for me.
My Body - Even though I am a relatively healthy guy, I'm still sort of skinny fat despite the fact I go to the gym quite often. The problem is that I'm picky eater and to gain any muscle i need to eat a lot more protein then what picky eater who poor can do. If get a gf I'll likely also get a job which will help me fund a better diet, not only that but recently i've been on a streak of avoiding the gym i just haven't had the motivation to go as much as i used to but with a gf who cares about me to motivate me i wouldn't miss a day, she could even come along and we could push each other to our limits. something that is not so easy alone.
Lack of Motivation - I often lack motivation to literally do anything, It's a struggle to get up out of bed because my life sucks. "Why put in the work at the gym when it's not gonna matter?" "Why get a job when it's not gonna matter?" these are thoughts that haunt my mind everyday they are hard to push through but with a loving gf it is gonna matter, I'm not just doing it for myself anymore but for her too
So yea a gf WOULD literally solve all my problems, shut the fuck up normalfag
My Problems, Their causes and how a gf would solve them
Depression - My depression is caused by a complete and total rejection from society, I am alone all day with nobody but myself, the only person i have to talk to is my mom but she's an entire 2 generations away from me, I cannot really relate to her and she cannot really relate to me. Another root cause of my depression is not having someone that loves me in non family way. having a gf who truly loves me would make my depression literally disappear as i would have someone in my life who could relate me and that hole in my heart created by a lack of non family love would be patched up
OCD - I often have OCD related thoughts that make it hard for me to focus on anything, i'm often stuck thinking about things that in the long run do not matter but my brain is basically hardwired to force myself to think, I find that in the few moments i am happy the OCD becomes very manageable, If have a gf that truly loves me then i will likely be very happy to a point where my OCD is very manageable
Lack of self worth - I have very little self worth because of how much i feel rejected by society, It's like the only people that care about me care about me because i'm family if I wasn't that wouldn't care about me but if i had loyal loving gf, i would feel self worth for the first time since i was young child.
Joblessness - I have struggled for several months trying to find a job, i'm a point where i'm even trying anymore i have no motivation to try to find work and i worry that if i were to work my depression would get worse, my OCD would get worse and might do something stupid and put myself into harms way, whether that be trouble or physical harm. With a gf my problem hear won't be directedly solved but with her by my side i'd likely have the motivation to land myself a job that I lack at the moment, after all a good gf wants her man to succeed.
Hatred - all of my hatred for society stems from the fact that I feel rejected by it and i feel that no matter i do i will always be rejected by it, I have an entice dislike for women of my generation because the way the have treated me poorly, From pretending to be in love with as a sick prank to general bullying and harassment that started in elementary and never stopped, women of my age have never treated me right the best I've ever gotten was apathy which isn't good either. While I never forgive these people for what they have done to me, Just one women showing a genuine interest in me would heal those wounds they have done to me and prove to me that women my age aren't all similar in how the treat conventual unattractive males
Autism - The world becomes much harder to navigate when you have autism, i know this from experience things that just come to normal people never clicked for me, I'm very particular in how i like things done. It's not exactly the autism it's self but the way normal people treat you when you have it. if one person treated me right like a gf then all problems associated with being autistic wouldn't be problems for me.
My Body - Even though I am a relatively healthy guy, I'm still sort of skinny fat despite the fact I go to the gym quite often. The problem is that I'm picky eater and to gain any muscle i need to eat a lot more protein then what picky eater who poor can do. If get a gf I'll likely also get a job which will help me fund a better diet, not only that but recently i've been on a streak of avoiding the gym i just haven't had the motivation to go as much as i used to but with a gf who cares about me to motivate me i wouldn't miss a day, she could even come along and we could push each other to our limits. something that is not so easy alone.
Lack of Motivation - I often lack motivation to literally do anything, It's a struggle to get up out of bed because my life sucks. "Why put in the work at the gym when it's not gonna matter?" "Why get a job when it's not gonna matter?" these are thoughts that haunt my mind everyday they are hard to push through but with a loving gf it is gonna matter, I'm not just doing it for myself anymore but for her too
So yea a gf WOULD literally solve all my problems, shut the fuck up normalfag
