Serious How has joining this site/community and accepting inceldom affected your life?

[Charley]

I'm still pretty new here so I probably won't be getting the full picture for a while. For me personally I feel a lot more at ease (and less depressed/lonely) from seeing that there are a lot more people in this world who have the same feelings as I and I think that this has been a good addition to my fairly miserable life.

 

[VinnyVan]

I have been around incel places for years. It's nice to have a place where you can vent and have someone agree with you.

 

[HarvesterOfInceldom]

I like it here since I can finally relate to others. All around me in school were chads, chad-lites, and wannabe chad-lites that never understood my hate for women. Now I can talk to like-minded people who are blackpilled on women.

 

[Evildoer]

Well, i was just lurking there, and prepared myself for one more try. I wanted to try with one girl, and i've promised myself, if i fail - it's over. I go register here then.
Today i wrote her and you know what? I failed. She just ignored me. My prophecy fulfilled.
And so, here i am.

 

[Gremlincel]

Well, i was just lurking there, and prepared myself for one more try. I wanted to try with one girl, and i've promised myself, if i fail - it's over. I go register here then.
Today i wrote her and you know what? I failed. She just ignored me. My prophecy fulfilled.
And so, here i am.

What happened?

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

I knew I was too ugly to have somebody romantically interested in me ever since I was a teenager. This site has made me feel a bit less alone in this, as 10% of the userbase is also perceived as ugly, but still better looking than me.

 

[patheticmanletcel]

Taking the heightpill made me depressed and suicidal

 

[Deleted member 1983]

feel like i actually have people who can i relate to in terms of inceldom and im not the only one who is crippling lonely.

doesnt help that much with reducing my want for a girls touch/affection.

 

[Deleted member 7438]

I was on /r9k/ for years, then I got out of prison to find it was garbage these days. This place is depressing on whole other level, but it's good shit

 

[Kokoro]

I was on /r9k/ for years, then I got out of prison to find it was garbage these days. This place is depressing on whole other level, but it's good shit

what for

 

[InebriatedIrish]

Incels.me has brought me emotions nothing else (other than pugs and nationalism) could make me feel. In other words, I’ve become less sociopathic.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I spend my time here instead on other websites.

And I met lots of cool people.

 

[Deleted member 6599]

It's incredible

 

[NeverSubmit]

This site doesn't make any difference its just a bunch of subhumans who have given up on life

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

I was blackpilled at a young age just looking at my aunts behavior, I knew from then on it was gonna be rough one.

 

[Evildoer]

What happened?

Well, i found her on VK (russian analogue for facebook) and decided to write her. I was planning this from end of april. I have some common interests with her, also she used to like "slim with beard" type of guys, while i am one, lol.
Today i send her "gift" (animated pic of flower, everyone on VK uses shit like that, when they flirt) and she just deleted my gift, without even saying anything.

 

[Deleted member 7438]

what for

"What for" what?

 

[Gremlincel]

Well, i found her on VK (russian analogue for facebook) and decided to write her. I was planning this from end of april. I have some common interests with her, also she used to like "slim with beard" type of guys, while i am one, lol.
Today i send her "gift" (animated pic of flower, everyone on VK uses shit like that, when they flirt) and she just deleted my gift, without even saying anything.

Damn. Never fails to surprise me, just how heartless they can be.

 

[Deleted member 7081]

This site has helped me cope and find it nice that I can relate to others. I visit and post on this forum very often now.

 

[Evildoer]

Damn. Never fails to surprise me, just how heartless they can be.

As i said, i stalked her page from april, and her profile pic was first some 2d girl and guy together, which means she got some relationships or something. Then, one day she suddenly deleted that pic and wrote on her page something like this "if you want to go, then go, leave me, i won't beg you to stay." Obviously, her chad left her, at that moment.
I came to think like it's my chance. Before she found someone new. Time to take action. So i uploaded some of my fresh pictures and send her that gift.
What did i get? Well...

 

[deadman123]

You will hate women if you join this site it's part of life bro

 

[Robinxyz]

Less hopeful and more misanthropic. I hate people with a passion.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

lots of commonality / funny edgy shit / its a good place to talk to other ugly people who are also fellow losers... / i dislike the good looking people / but all in all its my only social interaction

 

[NeoRedPill]

I actually get to talk with sane people.

 

[Kokoro]

"What for" what?

hmm idk maybe prison

 

[Vainglorious]

No, other than relieving boredom. Knowing I'm an incel and talking to other incels online doesn't change that I'm an incel. Maybe if somehow there was an incel group irl to join that would change things b/c maybe I could have more than one friend and some sort of social, albeit womanless, life, but online is not real life.

 

[Deleted member 7438]

hmm idk maybe prison

Arson. I did 2 years out of 6 & got out for overcrowding/good behavior.

It was an insurance scheme

 

[Sendthil]

Its great to have a community.
But it feels more like this is just one big pity party.
Im incel but I still have a desire in me to ascend. There seems to be an opposition to desires of ascending on this forum which i dont unserstand.
Pity parties dont help people ascend. Its like masturbation without ejaculation. Serves no real purpose.
This community needs leadership and apt representation. The trouble is that many leaders looked up to here are already dead. The incel paradigm of effectivly needing a "chad" type to take on the reigns on leadership seems apparent here because tje typical incel would never posess the confidence to do such.
People like ER are seen as matyrs. I genuinly believe a large portion of this community dont want to be mass murderers. They would trade their positions of resentment and bitterness for a meaningful relationship in a heartbeat. The mass murderers are those that failed repeatedly on attempting to ascend. Had they had any real relationships at all, platonic, mentoring, parental, sibling, friend, their actions would have been very different. So i do strongly feel that the incel ideology should refocus from being centered around romantic rejection to include social rejection. One is usually romantically rejected because theyre percieved as being socially rejected.
I may have had some family that loved me but were ill equipped as family to guide me oit of social rejection. I suspect this is the case for many others on this forum.
Males should not fall into the traps of compartmentalized camps like on the left. MRAs, mgtows, trp, and now incels do indeed have common problems that need addressing. Philosophies prescriped by trp will atleast guide us in steps to ascend. We need to stop popping pills. No one is going to help us but us. Otherwise were just like far leftists with feminst ideologies, trans ideologies, lgbtqrxyz123abc ideologies all intersecting and clashing at the same time with zero productivity whatsoever.

If we dont unanimously detail a formalised manifesto/doctrine for our own community we will only allow the chads and stacys to assume it for us and present it to the mainstream media, further worsening our case.

 

[Curious0]

I personally feel that it had an positive impact on my mental health. Of course, getting blackpilled and accepting that I am an ugly undesirable man to woman hurts a little. But now I don't have expectations, therefore I cannot be dissatisfied and hurt. When I was bluepilled, I had hopes that maybe some girls find me somehow attractive, that they are different. This of course would not happen so it would make me feel bad.
I actually have more sympathy for people on this forum than to people I know in reallife so I honestly kind of feel less alone and actually connected to people.
This ER stuff is of course bullshit as well as good looking people claiming they are ugly...

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

I'm less depressed.

 

[whogivesafucc]

i used to think it was rigged that i was quite literally the only incel in my area (i only have one incel friend but he's only a virgin, not KHHV like me, and the other is a complete high-tier normie, fucks girls)

but now at least i know there's people like me, even though most here are larp'ers, i'm convinced im one of the only people here who is even an incel i feel like at least 80% of this place is just normies larp'ing.

so basically i went from thinking the universe was LITERALLY rigged against me to thinking maybe there are a few others with this particular affliction. felt liberating.

 

[Ghost]

It has increased my faith in God seeing what happens when a society drifts so far away from God and His laws that it turns to chaos.
This society has no hope. Even if I was to be Chad tomorrow until the end of my life having sex with the most beautiful women this world has to offer it still empty in comparison to the Kingdom of God

 

[Deleted member 4159]

At first, it made me very angry and depressed. Became overweight, NEET, and a recluse. But now, I realize it's not my fault, and am working to improve (regardless of girls)

 

[KyloRen]

Joining this site: Negatively. So many bragging fucks.

Accepting inceldom: Just fine. I'm OK being alone. I'm used to it.

 

[whogivesafucc]

Joining this site: Negatively. So many bragging fucks.

Accepting inceldom: Just fine. I'm OK being alone. I'm used to it.

!!!!!!

 

[Newbite]

Its good to know other weirdos exist

 

[KyloRen]

!!!!!!

It's good we both feel the same.

 

[whogivesafucc]

Its good to know other weirdos exist

we're weirdos? kys cuck

 

[Newbite]

we're weirdos? kys cuck

Kys faggot bitch hoe

 

[L Lawliet]

I already learned this truths when I was 10-11.I thought I was alone but when I learn "incels",I understand I am not alone in this situation

 

[whogivesafucc]

Kys faggot bitch hoe

normie faggot.

 

[ItsOverBuddyBoyos]

Taking the heightpill made me depressed and suicidal

5'2 AND balding? You must've been Hitler in your past life.

 

[superighteous]

Because of this site and other communities like it, my outlook on life has become much more realistic, but realistic is dark. At the risk of sounding melodramatic, I wish I wasn’t so curious. You aren’t supposed to see life for what it really is, you just conform and don’t ask questions.

Other than that, I’m happy I found this site, it makes me feel like I belong.

 

[zrdm1234]

At first, it made me very angry and depressed. Became overweight, NEET, and a recluse. But now, I realize it's not my fault, and am working to improve (regardless of girls)

Good man, exercise(the free kind in parks) running, tea tree oil on face, focus on professional growth. Let the roasties and Chads breed; and just remind ourselves there will only be 3-4 more generations before this society imposes a extinction event on our species.

 

[Newbite]

normie faggot.

Your mom is