We say "Better incel than cuck." We don't say "Better volcel than cuck." Implying that you can see avenues where you might have sex, choose not to pursue them because they're cucked, and still call yourself incel. Not volcel.
Contrast that with the normie definition of "incel," where unless you've tried everything, literally EVERYTHING (give or take surgery, because some normies are like "Incels are getting surgery? That's too far.") to get laid, you're volcel. Entitled, you just aren't willing to put in the work. You need to understand that if you don't get thin in all the right places, swole in all the other right places, hold plates, spin frame, be in the top 1% earning bracket in your state while also earning capital gains on the side and a merchandise line on Instagram, run a weekly op-ed column about how all men are a disease on society, especially you, drop to your knees in thanks when an empty nester on her third ban request from FetLife lets you hit ONCE because she needs to feel like she's still got it, and then be willing to do all that over again if you wanna have sex a second time... you are lazy and you expect everything handed to you. And you probably have mommy issues. You're a child in a man's body and you wish you could be mothered, that's why you hate women.
I think the fight here isn't about how we've done everything, but aren't getting laid. I think the fight is about we've done everything we should, but aren't getting laid. A fight about what's fair to ask of someone. And how some people accuse us of asking for too much and putting up too little. But how much is enough trying before you can say you're definitely incel? I was talking to that one professor, John Horgan? Who got that grant to study incels? And he was like "Are incels upset that they aren't Hollywood supermodels? Because most men aren't." And I almost said "No, none of us are angry about that." But I realized I didn't actually know where the line is where things become intolerable. Where things become worth making a forum and gathering blackpills.
Where is that for you? What is it you ask of society? There are incels here who, for instance, have never approached. Or haven't approached in years. We don't expect women to pursue us, do we? Personally, I wish they would. But I understand that most men aren't pursued, and oftentimes a woman waits for the man she likes to pursue her instead. It's only the really exceptionally attractive men who get pursued. But I'm not protesting just because I don't have it as good as the top 1% of men, am I?
Contrast that with the normie definition of "incel," where unless you've tried everything, literally EVERYTHING (give or take surgery, because some normies are like "Incels are getting surgery? That's too far.") to get laid, you're volcel. Entitled, you just aren't willing to put in the work. You need to understand that if you don't get thin in all the right places, swole in all the other right places, hold plates, spin frame, be in the top 1% earning bracket in your state while also earning capital gains on the side and a merchandise line on Instagram, run a weekly op-ed column about how all men are a disease on society, especially you, drop to your knees in thanks when an empty nester on her third ban request from FetLife lets you hit ONCE because she needs to feel like she's still got it, and then be willing to do all that over again if you wanna have sex a second time... you are lazy and you expect everything handed to you. And you probably have mommy issues. You're a child in a man's body and you wish you could be mothered, that's why you hate women.
I think the fight here isn't about how we've done everything, but aren't getting laid. I think the fight is about we've done everything we should, but aren't getting laid. A fight about what's fair to ask of someone. And how some people accuse us of asking for too much and putting up too little. But how much is enough trying before you can say you're definitely incel? I was talking to that one professor, John Horgan? Who got that grant to study incels? And he was like "Are incels upset that they aren't Hollywood supermodels? Because most men aren't." And I almost said "No, none of us are angry about that." But I realized I didn't actually know where the line is where things become intolerable. Where things become worth making a forum and gathering blackpills.
Where is that for you? What is it you ask of society? There are incels here who, for instance, have never approached. Or haven't approached in years. We don't expect women to pursue us, do we? Personally, I wish they would. But I understand that most men aren't pursued, and oftentimes a woman waits for the man she likes to pursue her instead. It's only the really exceptionally attractive men who get pursued. But I'm not protesting just because I don't have it as good as the top 1% of men, am I?
