How fantasies just grow stale

[WornOutHopecel]

Foids and chads can pick and choose their experiences. When a foid looks at porn, she sees things that make sense to her in that she knows herself to be an object of desire and it's sort of like watching an actress live out her life giving her new ideas. Kind of similar with chads with more simping.

For years and years incels and LTN's cope with fantasies that are based on nothing and for stimulation watch chads and foid on film and in webcameras which further desensitizes them. Meanwhile foids and chads are reflecting on their hand picked experiences of real sex and validation building a portfolio of pleasant experiences and sexual growth starting in their teens.

Having to dream of something year after year while it keeps slipping farther away from you may lead to ambiguous feelings. Imagine your dream was to spend time on an island you imagined you could reach by swimming. You throw yourself in the water and start swimming but somehow the island keeps drifting further into the horizon as you painstakingly propel your body towards it. OK finally you end up crawling on dry land feeling an awkward mixture of accomplishment and rage wondering if the island is going to disappear like an illusion in the desert. You visualized the goal so many times you burned out your brain and now that you are there you are a broken hull of a person drawing his fatigued breath for what may be the last time. You don't have the privilege of a naive mind and a young energetic body to enjoy the island. As you allow the sand on the beach to slip through your fingers you liken the sand to your dreams that ultimately came there to die.

 

[Moroccancel]

All this was well known by ancient Tiberian civilizations and religion became the best tool found to provide order and social peace. Now, we are back to a natural state, which means less civilization: the antithesis of civilization in fact.

 

[malabalajong]

We didn't choose this existence. You can only retain your naivety and positive outlook on life when your circumstances allow you to. Once you fully understand reality you live in everything seems pointless. Dreams, desires, goals - all fall trough like they were never there. And just as you said in rare cases, where you get lucky enough to accomplish something you are so burnt out it looses all its sence. Perhaps just going with the flow is the anwser. Or coping to ones end. I don't know, I trully have not a dimmest of idea what I should do, or rather what I can do. Like normal people we aren't given a chance in life, experiences don't come to us naturally. I know, how you feel - every cope fades over time, every dream is being crushed, luck wasn't even there in the first place to run out. You feel guilt by doing nothing, and you feel nothing by doing anything, it is the bane of our lives, and it is here to stay, perhaps in the future we will find a way to live, but now I am just feeling lost.