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I think youd genuinely have to be insanely delusional, stupid, or just outright insane to stay motivated after you just keep losing

There's a reason losers are losers. Nobody sits here and says "you know what, I'm gonna be a loser and strive to just stay losing at everything". Genetic determinism IS a thing no matter what clueless normtrash tries to tell you (their ego won't let them admit they didn't actually earn most things they did, it would shut them down).

You constantly get negative feedback loops everywhere you go, you just cannot ever catch a break, let alone the fact you have never even had a date or any girl, and sex is probably the #1 motivator for both genders.

People don't become depressed and unmotivated in one day. It is a slow, painful, gradual process that corrodes you over time. Some it happens to earlier than others. I know already through mid high school I was a "defeatist" because every single one of my attempts to get a girlfriend or just friends failed miserably. It only got worse as the years went on even out of high school.

It's a completely rational response. That's why I can't hate on neets, they're just admitting what they are while also fucking the government out of money in the process.

Seriously don't know what the fuck is wrong with Normies. I have to assume they're all about positive vibes :soy: based off the scraps they get from time to time.

I am so sick and tired of seeing them with epic soy grins in every single god damn piece of media. It is so fake and full of shit unless they're Chad or a cum dumpsters, both win as soon as they're born.
 
the fact that we were told in high school to “keep trying! You’ll make it one day!” Or “the future is bright!” Doesnt help at all. Most bluepillers wont realize that failure in life isnt a choice, but rather a destination.
 
the fact that we were told in high school to “keep trying! You’ll make it one day!” Or “the future is bright!” Doesnt help at all. Most bluepillers wont realize that failure in life isnt a choice, but rather a destination.
They only said that to keep you from killing yourself or other students, that's all they cared about

I remember they gave me a $50 mall gift card one Christmas because I was on the "potential school shooter" list and they handed out a bunch of them to all of the kids basically saying "please don't shoot up the school "
 
You don't. life will keep shitting on you and eventually you'll have no motivation to do anything but LDAR.
 
I felt that. For what would I keep my motivation up when I am doomed to a lonely, miserable single life anyway? When you're a really ugly Incel it's not just your dating life that sucks, even in everyday life you face huge disadvantages such as rejection and mistreatment by normies. That's why I don't even bother 'going outside' anymore.
 
People don't become depressed and unmotivated in one day. It is a slow, painful, gradual process that corrodes you over time. Some it happens to earlier than others.
It's a completely rational response. That's why I can't hate on neets, they're just admitting what they are while also fucking the government out of money in the process.
Talked to a 40 something virgin truecel firefighter the other night. It's one thing to go that long without surgery or sui before 30, it's another thing to wagecuck instead of NEETmax, but fuck... a job where you might have to risk your life for human faces and their children? CUCKED.
 
Lose the ego and keep trying bro! No matter if you've been shit on your whole life & there's no evidence to the contrary things will get better!
 
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By deluding yourself that one day it'll get better.
 
They only said that to keep you from killing yourself or other students, that's all they cared about

I remember they gave me a $50 mall gift card one Christmas because I was on the "potential school shooter" list and they handed out a bunch of them to all of the kids basically saying "please don't shoot up the school "
:feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
r u srs
 
oh such a sad joke the only thing we are good at winning at is losing :feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman:
 
the fact that we were told in high school to “keep trying! You’ll make it one day!” Or “the future is bright!” Doesnt help at all. Most bluepillers wont realize that failure in life isnt a choice, but rather a destination.
They've had it hardwired into their brains to believe that life is unironically rainbows and all things nice, blissfully ignorant
 
take zinc supplements
 
you're not supposed to. nature has designed you to give up
 
oh such a sad joke the only thing we are good at winning at is losing :feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman::feelsbadman:

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Getting constant negative reinforcement after following normie advice of "just put yourself out there bro" is demoralizing and enough to destroy a person's hopes. Normie logic is to keep repeating a flawed strategy which has resulted in nothing but failure. Normies have no sympathy for low-tier men, they intentionally give useless advice because they enjoy watching us try over and over and achieve nothing but pain and suffering, they are sadistic.
 
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Yep. It's so fucking difficult for me to study and actually put effort into education.

What am I working towards? Getting a shitty wageslave job? And even if im able to afford a house I'll just be alone. And on my way on that journey I get nothing.

No rewards at the end or during the journey.

You should be able to claim benefits if Ur an incel.
 
People don't become depressed and unmotivated in one day. It is a slow, painful, gradual process that corrodes you over time.
THIS!

Seriously don't know what the fuck is wrong with Normies. I have to assume they're all about positive vibes
..AND THIS!!!


It took me 10+ years to become depressed, I was constantly swallowing the bluepill and keeping myself very motivated, it was a very stupid-naive mindset!

Your mind just knows how poorly you've being treated and how many significant interactions you've been missing. IMO it was even worse trying to keep myself motivated and hopeful despite all the shit I had to endure from society and women, because once all those years of failure hit me, it hit me even harder. Now i can barely cope/keep myself motivated to gymcelling and eating healthy, my sleep cycle is completely fucked up, I just sleep when I'm about to faint and even videogames demand some commitment which a I have ZERO since no pleasure comes from anything.
 
social isolation, drugs and video games, thats the life boyos everything else is a distraction
 
They only said that to keep you from killing yourself or other students, that's all they cared about

I remember they gave me a $50 mall gift card one Christmas because I was on the "potential school shooter" list and they handed out a bunch of them to all of the kids basically saying "please don't shoot up the school "
Logged in just to say LMFAAOOOOOOO
 
I think youd genuinely have to be insanely delusional, stupid, or just outright insane to stay motivated after you just keep losing

There's a reason losers are losers. Nobody sits here and says "you know what, I'm gonna be a loser and strive to just stay losing at everything". Genetic determinism IS a thing no matter what clueless normtrash tries to tell you (their ego won't let them admit they didn't actually earn most things they did, it would shut them down).

You constantly get negative feedback loops everywhere you go, you just cannot ever catch a break, let alone the fact you have never even had a date or any girl, and sex is probably the #1 motivator for both genders.

People don't become depressed and unmotivated in one day. It is a slow, painful, gradual process that corrodes you over time. Some it happens to earlier than others. I know already through mid high school I was a "defeatist" because every single one of my attempts to get a girlfriend or just friends failed miserably. It only got worse as the years went on even out of high school.

It's a completely rational response. That's why I can't hate on neets, they're just admitting what they are while also fucking the government out of money in the process.

Seriously don't know what the fuck is wrong with Normies. I have to assume they're all about positive vibes :soy: based off the scraps they get from time to time.

I am so sick and tired of seeing them with epic soy grins in every single god damn piece of media. It is so fake and full of shit unless they're Chad or a cum dumpsters, both win as soon as they're born.
I will only agree with this if you can survive in the wilderness for a whole week. This sort of post wouldn't be something that would be a result of being alone in the wild, unless you can't survive in the wild that is, which is why I stated that I would agree with this if you can survive. A caveman hearing this would honestly be disgusted with how weak we've become, almost like a giant insult.
 
I will only agree with this if you can survive in the wilderness for a whole week. This sort of post wouldn't be something that would be a result of being alone in the wild, unless you can't survive in the wild that is, which is why I stated that I would agree with this if you can survive. A caveman hearing this would honestly be disgusted with how weak we've become, almost like a giant insult.
Nice, you gonna tell me to do nofap next?
 
Yep. It's so fucking difficult for me to study and actually put effort into education.

What am I working towards? Getting a shitty wageslave job? And even if im able to afford a house I'll just be alone. And on my way on that journey I get nothing.

No rewards at the end or during the journey.

You should be able to claim benefits if Ur an incel.
I could not possibly say this better
 
I will only agree with this if you can survive in the wilderness for a whole week. This sort of post wouldn't be something that would be a result of being alone in the wild, unless you can't survive in the wild that is, which is why I stated that I would agree with this if you can survive. A caveman hearing this would honestly be disgusted with how weak we've become, almost like a giant insult.
But noone has to live in the wild anymore in 21 century
 
Nice, you gonna tell me to do nofap next?
well being a porn addict is a control mechanism but I don't care. It's your choice I'm only telling what I want to say
 
Your mind just knows how poorly you've being treated and how many significant interactions you've been missing. IMO it was even worse trying to keep myself motivated and hopeful despite all the shit I had to endure from society and women, because once all those years of failure hit me, it hit me even harder. Now i can barely cope/keep myself motivated to gymcelling and eating healthy, my sleep cycle is completely fucked up, I just sleep when I'm about to faint and even videogames demand some commitment which a I have ZERO since no pleasure comes from anything.
Can relate 100%
 
You need to raise your vibrations to attract women, hold frame.
 
But noone has to live in the wild anymore in 21 century
because we are coddled and see this is more easier to live than having to fend off animals and such, which is where the problem lies in the coddling part, as there still is more to do for ourselves
 
I felt that. For what would I keep my motivation up when I am doomed to a lonely, miserable single life anyway? When you're a really ugly Incel it's not just your dating life that sucks, even in everyday life you face huge disadvantages such as rejection and mistreatment by normies. That's why I don't even bother 'going outside' anymore.
Ugly is one thing, but if i was 6 ft 2 265 lbs bodybuilder i wouldn t mind an under average face. With a 5 ft 8 small thin bones frame my average face doesn't cut it
 
Ugly is one thing, but if i was 6 ft 2 265 lbs bodybuilder i wouldn t mind an under average face. With a 5 ft 8 small thin bones frame my average face doesn't cut it
Tallfag theory. If you're a 6'2 ogre you still mog 99% of chinaland to hell and back ergo u can easily ascend with a noodle.
 

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