Discussion How do your parents and family rate your looks?

[Deleted member 20811]

What I mean is what does your family/parents say about your looks. Are they honest about it? Or are they hardcore copers that say stuff like "You're so handsome" or "You could get any girl", or "Your height and autism dont matter!!!!" or some BS like that. And then when you ask why, they get stuck in their tracks. My mom is a lot like this but my dad is a bit more based. He doesn't tell me I'm some gigachad but he also hasnt said anything about me being ugly.

What are you guys' experiences?

 

[TheSecondComing]

my mother tells me i am handsome but young females don't. weird huh?

 

[Deleted member 20811]

my mother tells me i am handsome but young females don't. weird huh?

EXACTLY. This is what I always tell her but similar. It just doesnt add up. "If I'm actually good looking, why have I never heard it from people in my own age group?" No answer. She doesnt know that kids at my school make fun of my looks at least on a weekly basis.

jfl at the hardcore coping.

 

[Ignas]

Bluepilled and redpilled at the same time. They say I'm not ugly yet at the same time I could only get a girl after I make money and have a good job, so girls would chase me cause I'd make a good husband and father. Specifically my dad is subtly a little bit blackpilled as he didn't say anything when I said I need hair transplant and looksmaxx. While my mom is bluepilled saying I'm a 10/10 gigachad

 

[KingOfRome]

Mothers of ugly kids don't want to admit their kids are ugly because it tells them their own genes suck, they failed their hypergamous feminine imperative to secure Chad genes for their offspring, or both.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Mothers of ugly kids don't want to admit their kids are ugly because it tells them their own genes suck, they failed their hypergamous feminine imperative to secure Chad genes for their offspring, or both.

Hmmm... Both my parent's younger selves mog me. Maybe I just got unlucky bad genes?

 

[starystulejarz]

my mother tells me i am handsome but young females don't. weird huh?

 

[KingOfRome]

Hmmm... Both my parent's younger selves mog me. Maybe I just got unlucky bad genes?

A person's genes don't always show up in their phenotype. It's possible, even probable, that you carry non-incel genes that were never expressed in your own phenotype, but might have been expressed in your children's if you were allowed to have them.

So basically, yeah, you lost the genetic lottery.

 

[Deleted member 19079]

moms are masters at virtue signalling

 

[Romello Gaghan 2]

Never talked to my parents about my looks why would i

 

[omnilet]

I called called ugly every other day, used to it already

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Mothers of ugly kids don't want to admit their kids are ugly because it tells them their own genes suck, they failed their hypergamous feminine imperative to secure Chad genes for their offspring, or both.

 

[truthpill]

Mothers of ugly kids don't want to admit their kids are ugly because it tells them their own genes suck, they failed their hypergamous feminine imperative to secure Chad genes for their offspring, or both.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

A person's genes don't always show up in their phenotype. It's possible, even probable, that you carry non-incel genes that were never expressed in your own phenotype, but might have been expressed in your children's if you were allowed to have them.

So basically, yeah, you lost the genetic lottery.

That shit is depressing. fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck just pass me the rope already.

Never talked to my parents about my looks why would i

Idk. In my case, usually they are the ones that bring it up.

moms are masters at virtue signalling

 

[Neggr]

my mom rates me a 8 which translates to 2 irl

 

[KingOfRome]

Idk. In my case, usually they are the ones that bring it up.

That's a death knell. Good-looking and even average-looking people don't have to have family validate them for their looks.

 

[Deleted member 19971]

The usual shit, "So handsome!" every time i get a haircut. I don't mind and care, as far as rating goes that has never happened to me before lol. Would be suicidefuel to have your loved ones rate you a 2/10.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

My parents are genetic trash, getting them to admit that I am a subhuman would mean getting them to admit that their genes are filth... Boomers are too dumb and proud for that shit.

 

[RollD20]

Nah my mom is actually pretty legit with me these days, she says I'm ugly and should eat more carrots like that would help lol.

 

[bignose]

the family never say the truth, the sad and painfull true...

 

[Aribaa]

Truth comes out in arguments

 

[NEETard]

Im ugly as fuck but hopefully surgery will improve

 

[Deleted member 4159]

On the one hand, they tell me I'm handsome. But whenever I asked out a decently attractive girl, they would say that she was out of my league.

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

They more of neutral, but once showed to father my crush and he said: "This one not for you". But overall he calls me old, not ugly, when I say about searching cute young waifu

 

[Excluded]

Mothers of ugly kids don't want to admit their kids are ugly because it tells them their own genes suck, they failed their hypergamous feminine imperative to secure Chad genes for their offspring, or both.

 

[Wombcel98]

What I mean is what does your family/parents say about your looks. Are they honest about it? Or are they hardcore copers that say stuff like "You're so handsome" or "You could get any girl", or "Your height and autism dont matter!!!!" or some BS like that. And then when you ask why, they get stuck in their tracks. My mom is a lot like this but my dad is a bit more based. He doesn't tell me I'm some gigachad but he also hasnt said anything about me being ugly.

What are you guys' experiences?

Hardcore cope. My aunt once said I was a "pretty boy", but the way my father told me that I knew he was lying, she probably said "tell him he's a pretty boy so he'll get some confidence" cause I was broken beyond repair at age 15. My father said I could literally get any girl, but I just don't have the face for it. It's ovER.

 

[boringcel]

Male model tier

 

[andinocel]

my mother tells me i am handsome but young females don't. weird huh?

Same

 

[mcfroggy]

Whenever I used to bring up looks my mom would say 'nooo ur handsome' but her cringing face told me she didn't believe it at all. She also bought me way too loose clothing, maybe trying to hide fact that I'm fat? My chad lite dad though told me multiple times I'm ugly, and should also lose weight and 'stop putting so much shit on your face that's why you have acne' (coming from a man who drinks beer every day and is still slim, and used to put straight up alcohol on his acne and has genetically perfect skin after puberty).

They didn't want to spend any money on me growing up though, I was just expected to have straight white wide palate teeth, clear skin, and get all my nutrients from the photosynthesis.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

That's a death knell. Good-looking and even average-looking people don't have to have family validate them for their looks.

Its over

 

[sub8male]

my mother tells me i am handsome but young females don't. weird huh?

 

[Deleted member 9229]

They call me ugly all the time

 

[FinnCel]

My relatives say I am handsome and that the only reason I am single is that I don't respect women

 

[JackBurton]

Complete idiots, they think it does not matter so they don't even make comments about it, just that there are men uglier than me who are married...

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

My parents refuse to say anything nice about me, even when asked explicitally.
So I'd say 0/10

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Complete idiots, they think it does not matter so they don't even make comments about it, just that there are men uglier than me who are married...

 

[Nothingness]

My mom is blackpilled. She told me that i would never make handsom man but " look at those who do look as bad as you". She is not mean, she is naively sincer woman.
When i was 13 my aunt told me " omg look at him he will grow as ugly as his dad", i did, but not so ugly as my das wich doesnt make a huge difference.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

My mom is blackpilled. She told me that i would never make handsom man but " look at those who do look as bad as you". She is not mean, she is naively sincer woman.
When i was 13 my aunt told me " omg look at him he will grow as ugly as his dad", i did, but not so ugly as my das wich doesnt make a huge difference.

Damn, thats brutal. At least they are honest and not gigacopers like some of my other family members.

 

[Nothingness]

Damn, thats brutal. At least they are honest and not gigacopers like some of my other family members.

My family is blackpilled as hell. We are all cruel but honest.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

My mother tells me I am not good looking, only my grandparents think I look good.

 

[TheMinimalist]

What I mean is what does your family/parents say about your looks. Are they honest about it? Or are they hardcore copers that say stuff like "You're so handsome" or "You could get any girl", or "Your height and autism dont matter!!!!" or some BS like that. And then when you ask why, they get stuck in their tracks. My mom is a lot like this but my dad is a bit more based. He doesn't tell me I'm some gigachad but he also hasnt said anything about me being ugly.

What are you guys' experiences?

My mother says I have nice features, but my dad and brother have told me I'm ugly without me asking

 

[Deleted member 20811]

My family is blackpilled as hell. We are all cruel but honest.

I wish my family was like that. They also fed me the "Santa" lie until I was 9. More bluepilled bs

 

[real truecel]

When I mention that I don't have a girlfriend because of my looks she says dumb shit like "what are you talking about, you have all limbs, why wouldn't you have a gf".
That's like saying "yeah you are not 1/10 but 2/10 so you will find someone".

 

[Deleted member 301]

My dad used to call me a pasty-faced Presbyterian, an Abbo due to my nose.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

moms are masters at virtue signalling

 

[Carotel]

For a mentally healthy mother, you are always handsome.

 

[StaroRavager]

At one point they claimed I was an 8 but that it didn’t really matter because personality and drive are everything. If nothing else they provided me with a good laugh

 

[needsolution]

in my family im called as gay and they dont like my looks tbh