ADHD_cel
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Oh noez! Le poor womminz don't feel safe!and contributed to a society where women don’t feel safe. I feel very ashamed of this .
Not completely wrong, but you have to be neurotypical and not ugly as fuck to be able to pull something like this off. It's literally how normies get laid after all.Don't go out to look for women. Do fun, interesting stuff. Then you'll meet people, including women, who share your interests and relationships will happen organically.
Why are you here then?Don't go out to look for women. Do fun, interesting stuff. Then you'll meet people, including women, who share your interests and relationships will happen organically.
"no man theres like 8 billion people in the world so at least 2 billion of them are women, you've only approached thousands of women, theres still billions of women left"-nigga talked to a thousand girls and couldn't get a single one. at that point you have to realize it never began jfl
Virgin but not incel, lolI was just trying to solve my loneliness proactively rather than wallowing in it like an incel, but I went about it in such a creepy way.
He legit has subhuman IQ to not realize that his autistic cold approach attempts were never going to work after the first couple attempts let alone the first 100 or 1000nigga talked to a thousand girls and couldn't get a single one. at that point you have to realize it never began jfl
Pretty much.nigga talked to a thousand girls and couldn't get a single one. at that point you have to realize it never began jfl
r/socialskillsPosted by u/Pure_Negotiation_452 7 days ago
How do you reform from being a creep?
Long story short, this past year, I followed a lot of bad advice on improving from dating life from pickup artist forums and books. I never crossed the legal line into assault, stalking, catcalling threatening, etc... just started a lot of innocent conversations, but I was a major nuisance to the women I interacted with (I'd often 'hover' in their area for a minute trying to work up confidence before approaching which was by far the creepiest part). I'd spend whole afternoons walking around malls, campuses, coffee shops looking for women to talk to and "pickup." Talked to a lot of girls way too young for me (not illegal young, just 18/19 when I'm in my mid-20s). Did it so often (probably 500-1000 times this year) that it's likely I have a bit of a negative in reputation in certain areas of my city (honestly don't know what I'd do if what I did got back to my friends). I was just trying to solve my loneliness proactively rather than wallowing in it like an incel, but I went about it in such a creepy way.
While I know I never crossed a line into directly harming someone, I’m sure my actions made a lot of women uncomfortable, and contributed to a society where women don’t feel safe. I feel very ashamed of this . So my question is, how do I reform? How can I manage the shame I feel for making so many women uncomfortable? How can I deal with knowing that I might have a majorly negative reputation in my city from my actions? How can I one day learn to meet women in a way that isn’t so socially out of line?
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So my question is, how do I reform? How can I manage the shame I feel for making so many women uncomfortable? How can I deal with knowing that I might have a majorly negative reputation in my city from my actions? How can I one day learn to meet women in a way that isn’t so socially out of line?
I'm gonna tell you buddy boyo:
Since you're not Chad, you're gonna pay for sex and company.
You either pay by becoming a betabuxx and getting divorce-raped by an ungrateful wife, losing all your assets to her, and getting saddled with alimony and child-support for kids that aren't even yours... or you pay by finding a "sugar baby" or an escort and paying for the experiences you'd like to have with women.
Sorry you weren't born good-looking. Those are your options. Have a good life.
be chad
That subreddit is pure blackpill.
Most of the times, bad social skills just come from being ugly and/or shit parenting. But soyciety tells you that they’re something you can “learn” naturally as an adult, and as a result you’re giving out money to (((them))), kekThat subreddit is pure blackpill.
The dudes there... some have never had a good interaction with anyone...
Others haven't left the house in years. Truly, being subhuman is being in a genetic prison, like Saint Hamudi says...
In fact, foids and normies have zero social skills. People acquire social skills by working in customer service (like waiters) or in occupations like sales rep or police officer.Most of the times, bad social skills just come from being ugly and/or shit parenting. But soyciety tells you that they’re something you can “learn” naturally as an adult, and as a result you’re giving out money to (((them))), kek
cope, this only works if you’re very NT and in the right social groups. Every girl I’ve met was either taken, a lesbian, or a landwhale that I had no interest in. Single, skinny foids barely do anything these daysDon't go out to look for women. Do fun, interesting stuff. Then you'll meet people, including women, who share your interests and relationships will happen organically.
BasedI actually work on making myself more creepy to make womyn more afraid of me