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Serious how do you improve personality?

youngswedecel

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Yeah no fucking "watch movies with female lead" meming. Seriously how do I become low inhib, I am fucking unable to hold a conversation since I was alone during most of my time growing up.
 
Seriously how do I become low inhib, I am fucking unable to hold a conversation since I was alone during most of my time growing up.
it's over. just accept it. if you were good looking all these things would have come to you naturally.
 
Have better genetics, honestly.
 
it's over. just accept it. if you were good looking all these things would have come to you naturally.
Nah I can surgery away most of my shit like NCT, jawline (a girl at hs once came over and told me that my jawline was worse than hers), frame and facial hair. Must be a way to fix personality though since I dont believe that is genetics based
 
MDMA is a good drug to become a normie temporarily, so I've heard.
As you use it you can see what works and what doesn't and try and implement it to your "sober" state.
 
You can't. Personality is genetic.
 
MDMA is a good drug to become a normie temporarily, so I've heard.
As you use it you can see what works and what doesn't and try and implement it to your "sober" state.
how do i even get hold of mdma, i know no dealers / thugs
 
improving personality is nekst to impossible, MUCH harder than looks. thats why i dont understand why every normie or cucktearcel acts as if femoids liking personality should be some win for incels because why dont you just decide to be low inhib dominant aggressive ekstroverted high energy alpha when you wake up tomorrow?

Seriously tho, imo the only long term solution is some kind of meds/substances. Personality is FULLY dependent on physiology and you cant improve your personality just by deciding to do it any more than you can lift a car just by deciding to. Me personally im gonna get tested for low t and if the tests confirm im low t cuck im gonna do trt.
 
before i dropped out i heard some bum professor in college say personality is basically solidified by elementary school. you can lower inhibs by drinking but you're never going to be able to change your actual personality.
 
just accept that any social handicap you have is probably caused from being ugly. okay? i know that the normie cunts will fucking tell you the complete opposite but the sooner you accept that every failure you have in your life is due to the way you look the happier you'll be. :D
 
You got to have some decent personality and hold conversation if your normie to get date, If you chad it doesn't matter you can be complete piece of shit and women will love you and incel no matter how much self improvement and confidence you got it doesn't matter your complete piece shit in women eyes.
 
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depends. what is better personality trait for you? if becoming industrious then you pick up a work ethic, find something you're relatively good at and work at it everyday for a certain period of time and increase it by time.
if you want a personality that attracts women then you should immediately get to having showers everyday, get a fresh haircut and try just going out there. be next to females and it will happen more than likely bro.
 
before i dropped out i heard some bum professor in college say personality is basically solidified by elementary school. you can lower inhibs by drinking but you're never going to be able to change your actual personality.

yeah thats bs that sort of thing is subjective. i remember in elementary school i wasnt autistic but then in secondary when people made fun of my underbite i became a real fucking freak
 
depends. what is better personality trait for you? if becoming industrious then you pick up a work ethic, find something you're relatively good at and work at it everyday for a certain period of time and increase it by time.
if you want a personality that attracts women then you should immediately get to having showers everyday, get a fresh haircut and try just going out there. be next to females and it will happen more than likely bro.
already shower everyday haha, have done my entire life
got hair cut a week ago got that stereotypical chad haircut but that just shows my long midface and nct way more so i better get a new one
 
I wouldnt recommend MDMA, you'll have a night of feeling better than you've ever felt in your life but you'll feel shitter than you've ever felt in your life for the next week or two.
Not worth it
 
I don't think it is possible, maybe only slightly but you can't change it completely. I think being ugly does have an effect on your personality, if you were a 13 year old who was being fawned over by girls then you would have developed a healthy and happier personality I think.
 
so i cant even ascend to low tier normie even with surgeries

fuck
 
If you can't hold a basic conversation it can be learned by practice. HOWEVER, a basic conversation is miles behind what a normie can hold. I'm not sure how much is genetic vs learned but what I do know is that it's over in terms of success in all aspects of life (excluding foids) if your brain is finished developing and you can't hold a decent conversation.

Now let's talk about foids. Well shit you're probably gonna need some surgeries for that.
 
already shower everyday haha, have done my entire life
got hair cut a week ago got that stereotypical chad haircut but that just shows my long midface and nct way more so i better get a new one
damn bro and you still don't have a girlfriend? that is uncommon. well I suggest that you become really good looking and 6'3" then. it did wonders on my personality.
 
damn bro and you still don't have a girlfriend? that is uncommon. well I suggest that you become really good looking and 6'3" then. it did wonders on my personality.
length isnt a problem, that is the only thing i really have going for me, i am 6"2. still doesnt help being a framecel making me look like an alien. apparently there is no surgery for negative canthal tilt so i am screwed
 
Be good looking and enter into a positive-feedback loop where people treat you nicely because you're attractive. Over time, peoples' kindness will rub off onto you and voila: you've got a great personality.
 
you can't change your personality lol. You can change your attitude and maybe adjust your social image a bit around some people so you fit but thats about it
 
imma make a thread about social skills if you want, but its too much to write at the moment
i mean seriously, i have a shitload of stuff i learned from normie interactions
 
imma make a thread about social skills if you want, but its too much to write at the moment
i mean seriously, i have a shitload of stuff i learned from normie interactions
do it man please
 
Yeah no fucking "watch movies with female lead" meming. Seriously how do I become low inhib, I am fucking unable to hold a conversation since I was alone during most of my time growing up.

Inject test
 
just be urself brah it warks for me :lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul::lul:
 
Yeah no fucking "watch movies with female lead" meming. Seriously how do I become low inhib, I am fucking unable to hold a conversation since I was alone during most of my time growing up.
Just interact with a ton of people and treat women as if they were men. Read about things you might find interesting online, that'll keep a conversation going. People like to talk about themselves, you can always steer any conversation into that direction if you feel like there is nothing to talk about. I've found that even though women look at me with disgust within a social setting, they treat me like a normal human in places like work or when I'm doing something at my local hackerspace, men treat you for who you are most of the time in my experience, we don't seem to really give a fuck about looks when it comes to other men.
 

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