Venting How do you guys deal with family/co-workers asking you if you have a gf?

[Theodore Bagwell]

It’s so fuckin brutal man. Everyone is having kids and passing me up in life. I try my best to avoid family gatherings because I’m afraid to be asked about my non-existent dating life. And then people wonder if you’re gay, when you’re not, you’re just an incel. I’m NEET right now, but when I was working, I had the same dilemma. My heart literally skips a beat when I was at work and all the guys are talking about their weekend slays, and then it’s my turn to speak. How do u guys finesse these situations?

 

[Med Amine]

tell them to "fuck off" and "mind their own business".

 

[der_komische]

i dont talk to them and avoid them

 

[Incline]

At first I lied to them and told them I have a gf but it was obvious to them I didn't and the more I tried to keep the lie the more pathetic it became and more obvious it was... So then I switched my strategy and started telling people I had a gf before but it was a long distance relationship and it didn't work out but that was straining it...

Then eventually I reached the point where I am now where Idgf anymore and avoid socialization all together and if I have to I just say I don't have one and move on.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

I tell them "it's too expensive" if they ever ask that moronic question, my mom thinks i'm gay, strange how normies can refuse to see the truth staring right back at them she has seen how I was treated in school and all my life.

 

[PoodankMcGee]

They don't

 

[Theodore Bagwell]

At first I lied to them and told them I have a gf but it was obvious to them I didn't and the more I tried to keep the lie the more pathetic it became and more obvious it was... So then I switched my strategy and started telling people I had a gf before but it was a long distance relationship and it didn't work out but that was straining it...

Then eventually I reached the point where I am now where Idgf anymore and avoid socialization all together and if I have to I just say I don't have one and move on.

Yeah I’m heading towards that idgaf point

 

[Theodore Bagwell]

They don't

Lucky, but brutal at the same time

 

[Robb97]

T bag has dark triad halo. I was asking a cute underage girl which ones were her favorite characters and she said michael scofield (obviously because he's chad) and T-bag. T-bag is more than double her age, norwooding and short. But with a good skull and good facial bone structure. Still it's crazy how powerful dark triad can be

 

[turbosperg]

How do u guys finesse these situations?

Do you have a gf?
-- yeah. Several. *autistic grin*

Topic is never brought up ever again

 

[BoywithEarring]

tell them youre aseuxal or something

 

[xkcdCleftcel]

"im not ready for a girlfriend yet. its not my main priority"

 

[Rapist]

Fakecel if you get asked. @frmentalcel

 

[Tugacel]

My parents are deadbeats, never cared about my life, besides being annoying shits.

 

[ForevrAlone]

My family already realized that I'll be alone forever and have stopped bothering me about it years ago.

I don't have any coworkers, I'm a based and comfy NEET

 

[AnilBashir]

They don’t ask me, they can already guess by looking at me

 

[Justdone]

tell them youre aseuxal or something

Telling people you’re asexual might piss them off or make them try to interfere with your life ngl

 

[BoywithEarring]

Telling people you’re asexual might piss them off or make them try to interfere with your life ngl

troo

 

[NonNTsubhuman]

If ur truecel they know the answer, simple.
Ive legit never been asked that question my entire life and im Wizard next year

 

[Restart80]

It’s so fuckin brutal man. Everyone is having kids and passing me up in life. I try my best to avoid family gatherings because I’m afraid to be asked about my non-existent dating life. And then people wonder if you’re gay, when you’re not, you’re just an incel. I’m NEET right now, but when I was working, I had the same dilemma. My heart literally skips a beat when I was at work and all the guys are talking about their weekend slays, and then it’s my turn to speak. How do u guys finesse these situations?

Can relate.

Family suspected me of being gay awhile ago, until that passed. Funnily enough, during family gatherings, nobody has dared ask me about dating life.

 

[Restart80]

I don't have any coworkers, I'm a based and comfy NEET

 

[FUCK FAGGOT LINK]

Fakecel if you get asked. @frmentalcel

truth. nobody has ever asked me because they know the answer

 

[Kinosuke]

I try not to have conversations with them about personal life. Sometimes there's nothing you can do about it. My first wageslave job was with a bunch of zoomers who bragged about their sex lives so it was hard to avoid conversations about it.

 

[prajeet88]

Fakecel if you get asked. @frmentalcel

This. I am never asked about this by anyone ever.

 

[Nigerlozi]

my Psychiatrist asks me every appointment if i have a gf or not, it's fucking annoying and brutal. she says "your at that age now where you should have a girlfriend" she doesn't understand how hard it is, hell no woman understands how hard it is.

 

[Theodore Bagwell]

my Psychiatrist asks me every appointment if i have a gf or not, it's fucking annoying and brutal. she says "your at that age now where you should have a girlfriend" she doesn't understand how hard it is, hell no woman understands how hard it is.

Yeah bro, if only they can understand

 

[NonNTsubhuman]

my Psychiatrist asks me every appointment if i have a gf or not, it's fucking annoying and brutal. she says "your at that age now where you should have a girlfriend" she doesn't understand how hard it is, hell no woman understands how hard it is.

How do u have first world problems? Psychiatrist?
Ur fellow abo boyos dont even know what that is probably.
Biggest problem for them is probably running out of drinking water or not finding any kangoroos weak enough to hunt down

 

[RicaGames]

For me they don't ask why I don't have a gf, they tell me to find a gf just to remember me I don't have one, brutal.

 

[Restart80]

How do u have first world problems? Psychiatrist?
Ur fellow abo boyos dont even know what that is probably.
Biggest problem for them is probably running out of drinking water or not finding any kangoroos weak enough to hunt down

And yet they are probably less incel than him

Over for civilizationcels

 

[adharmi]

Just lie but don't make it obvious

 

[Nigerlozi]

Yeah bro, if only they can understand

Even if they did, They would still lie to themselves and delude themselves. They will still be disgusted with us.

Psychiatrist?

I have a mental illness brocel

And yet they are probably less incel than him

Over for civilizationcels

This, out in the country or communites it's easy to get an abo Gf. If your a citycel and don't act like Tyrone and instead act "white" (according to them) then it's OVER

 

[Suicide Sheep]

Knowing how NA I am, they gave up on that long ago.

 

[Theodore Bagwell]

Even if they did, They would still lie to themselves and delude themselves. They will still be disgusted with us.


I have a mental illness brocel

This, out in the country or communites it's easy to get an abo Gf. If your a citycel and don't act like Tyrone and instead act "white" (according to them) then it's OVER

Yeah, so me.

 

[proudweeb]

They don't ask me. All they have to do is look at my face, and they already know

 

[Ahriman]

It’s so fuckin brutal man. Everyone is having kids and passing me up in life. I try my best to avoid family gatherings because I’m afraid to be asked about my non-existent dating life. And then people wonder if you’re gay, when you’re not, you’re just an incel. I’m NEET right now, but when I was working, I had the same dilemma. My heart literally skips a beat when I was at work and all the guys are talking about their weekend slays, and then it’s my turn to speak. How do u guys finesse these situations?

I tell them I can't stand women, and that I rather be single (JFL). Of course they just laugh and say; Ohhh you say that now, but when you find a nice girl you will change your mind ". I just scoff and say maybe. FUCKING NORMIES KILL THEM ALL!!! BETA CUCKS ALL OF THEM

 

[meta-cel(celcel)]

I just laugh and deflect until they stop.

I fucking hate this question though.

 

[FrothySolutions]

They don't

How has school been?

 

[The Abyss]

Starting to think a cheap wedding ring might be the answer to deal with shit like that, at least at a job.

 

[Qadr]

It’s so fuckin brutal man. Everyone is having kids and passing me up in life. I try my best to avoid family gatherings because I’m afraid to be asked about my non-existent dating life. And then people wonder if you’re gay, when you’re not, you’re just an incel. I’m NEET right now, but when I was working, I had the same dilemma. My heart literally skips a beat when I was at work and all the guys are talking about their weekend slays, and then it’s my turn to speak. How do u guys finesse these situations?

Just lie about it, for example: i had one once, but iam focusing on career or other thing just lie, a Lot of ppl are lying so u will not be only one

 

[PoodankMcGee]

How has school been?

I graduated with my bachelors in psychology. I didnt want to pursue education further yet since i was so sick of uni and academia so i ended up getting hired as an HR specialist in the government kek. I didnt really make any friends or gfs in college. Never really tried tbh, and my campuses were really liberal, i guess they all kinda are.

Pretty chill desk work i guess. 60k with promotions guaranteed, work from home most days. Living with my parents saving up for a house. Could be worse.

 

[Mortis]

I don't interact with people

 

[Mango]

Change subject or feed them some bluepilled bs about "focusing on my career and myself"

They probably know the truth already tbh

 

[FrothySolutions]

I graduated with my bachelors in psychology. I didnt want to pursue education further yet since i was so sick of uni and academia so i ended up getting hired as an HR specialist in the government kek. I didnt really make any friends or gfs in college. Never really tried tbh, and my campuses were really liberal, i guess they all kinda are.

Pretty chill desk work i guess. 60k with promotions guaranteed, work from home most days. Living with my parents saving up for a house. Could be worse.

Is this what you want to do with your life? I think I already asked you this.

 

[PoodankMcGee]

Is this what you want to do with your life? I think I already asked you this.

Yeah i was rather aspirational when i first answered that. I wanted to research psychedelics and mystical exoeriences from a psychological perspective. But since then i got more blackpilled and disillusioned by academia and generally more misanthropic and less interested in helping people or contributing to research.

What i want in life now is to be balls deep in some barely legal poontang and play video games and smoke weed all day. Im not fucking bitches obviously, so might as well work up the ladder in some decently easy job that fell into lap after an internship. Save up now so if i eventually quit i can neet a while

 

[FrothySolutions]

Yeah i was rather aspirational when i first answered that. I wanted to research psychedelics and mystical exoeriences from a psychological perspective. But since then i got more blackpilled and disillusioned by academia and generally more misanthropic and less interested in helping people or contributing to research.

What i want in life now is to be balls deep in some barely legal poontang and play video games and smoke weed all day. Im not fucking bitches obviously, so might as well work up the ladder in some decently easy job that fell into lap after an internship. Save up now so if i eventually quit i can neet a while

How high does the ladder go? At what position will you finally be living?

 

[NirvanaFan1988]

Just don't interact with them.
Avoid the normoloid disease for your own sanity.

 

[OGcel1983]

If ur truecel they know the answer, simple.
Ive legit never been asked that question my entire life and im Wizard next year

This is why I hate being an ltn. I'm still expected by faggots that make fun of me to still be "confident" and have a gf.

 

[Ellsworth]

Family never asks, and coworkers don’t know me well enough on a personal level so I can lie.

 

[Logic55]

Just say that you are not interested in being in a relationship or you have no desire to pursue a relationship at the moment whenever they ask you that question

 

[Theodore Bagwell]

I try not to have conversations with them about personal life. Sometimes there's nothing you can do about it. My first wageslave job was with a bunch of zoomers who bragged about their sex lives so it was hard to avoid conversations about it.

what ended up happening?