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LDAR How do you get back on having a social life as an incel

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I lost most my friends from high school and now have only a few left. How do you get back to partying and having a social life if you're an incel?
 
What do you mean get back to partying?
 
i don't know because pretty much everyone hates male strangers and losers (no friends = loser)
 
Why would you want to party as an incel? It's pretty much the worse situation for us. Seeing all chad friends get attention from females while you're just ignored or straight up laughed at makes you even more depressed than before. Alcohol and drugs help but not much.
 
Party is over time to wagecuck.
 
Last party I was at was 2011
 
just "take drugs and pretend to be happy and functional,then wake up alone the next day covered in your vomit and feeling like shit" theory
 
by having money
 
Hello fellow incels.
 
i don't know because pretty much everyone hates male strangers and losers (no friends = loser)
Oddly I met a guy who just went around approaching random people at bars and clubs and becoming friends with them (even got a gf from this). He is normie in looks and very friendly / beta. I guess a normie guy that comes off beta is not seen as a threat or as ugly to men or women so people are welcoming to him. This is what he told me he did. You can't be ugly, you can't size or looks mog other guys you approach, you can't come off as some incel looking for pussy and friends.
 
How did you do it in the first place?
 
Tenor
 
What do you mean get back?
 
Go to college and meet people.

Try not to hang out with ugly nerds nor Chads, talk only to normies

pro tip: try to compliment everyone in their back like "this dude is smart" "yo John is a cool mf" etc. it works everytime, ppl will want to be your friend bcause they know you won't talk shit about them.

Looks don't matters to make friends, just don't dress pathetically and don't act weird.
 
Looks don't matters to make friends
Unless you're so unattractive that foids don't want to be around you and your potential guy friends want to socialize with foids as well.
 
Surgerymaxx so you can look like Chad and then create a Tinder.
Once I’m done with school and get a good job, I’m gonna surgerymaxx.
 
Unless you're so unattractive that foids don't want to be around you and your potential guy friends want to socialize with foids as well.

Don't be friend with this kind of ppl.
 
JFL men, you dont. Incels were never meant to enjoy life
 
Oddly I met a guy who just went around approaching random people at bars and clubs and becoming friends with them (even got a gf from this). He is normie in looks and very friendly / beta. I guess a normie guy that comes off beta is not seen as a threat or as ugly to men or women so people are welcoming to him. This is what he told me he did. You can't be ugly, you can't size or looks mog other guys you approach, you can't come off as some incel looking for pussy and friends.
that's what my cousin did

he's a gl 6'3 guy with above average social skills
 
Come on guys when you're studying a degree even the ugliests shut ins are invited to parties.
 
Come on guys when you're studying a degree even the ugliests shut ins are invited to parties.
Switched my degree so I know no one there and am in between years basically. I knew the risks though.
 
i don't know because pretty much everyone hates male strangers and losers (no friends = loser)

Seriously, there is no chance to come back from this. We grow older and older at this point. We have no connections whatsoever.
 
I admit i rarely went to any parties, but it sucks that my social skills are so low that it makes me look autistic. I can't just cold approach people in bars to make friends, I don't have the looks or the social skills to make it happen.
 
normie faggot fakecel graycel
 
Seriously, there is no chance to come back from this. We grow older and older at this point. We have no connections whatsoever.
tbh, even single moms are having a good time with government cash, lol
 
I’ve never been invited to a party and I haven’t had a friend since 11th grade. I’m almost 23 btw.
 
Low inhib maxx and go to bars solo. I'd start with quiet divey neighborhood bars. Bring your laptop(Make sure the place has wifi). If people ask why are you by yourself just say you were with some friends earlier, but they left; you had some work you needed to get done away from home and you'd like to enjoy a drink. Code or do some shit that looks impressive on your laptop and you have a conversation point when/if the drunk normies start talking to you. Do you smoke (Weed or Cigs)? Bring them it's a conversation starter for normies.

It gets fucking hard to make friends after high school and university. People just aren't trying to add new people to their social circle as full grown adults(Unless you just intrinsically click with someone which is super rare).
 
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I think if you mog a group of men in some obvious way they won't let you into their circle. Also if you're too subhuman or awkward. They don't want a guy that career or height mogs them in their group and they don't want a guy that drives girls away either. Normies are very controlling on who gets into their social circle. People (usually one guy in a group) tell you to fuck off if you approach them in a bar. Happened once when I tried to approach my friend that was sitting with some other people. I had to explain that I knew the guy.
 
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