Discussion How do you feel when you go out with family?

[Eternal Observer]

I have to go out to a restaurant with some family on Saturday and it feels like a massive hassle. I dont have any way to even pay for my own food, and will have to rely on my mother for that. Im 21 btw. I can already predict the cookie cutter questions they'll ask that will expose me for the NEET i still am. I have no job, no car, no license and am currently not in school. Very tempted to just say im not going.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I don’t go out with them

 

[Deleted member 22907]

I feel embarrassed whenever I'm with my mom or dad

 

[Eternal Observer]

I don’t go out with them

Do you get invited and say no or do they not even bother to invite you?

I feel embarrassed whenever I'm with my mom or dad

What about with other family members?

 

[universallyabhorred]

Disgusted and embarrassed because of my shitty parents, we were never a real family, seeing all the happy families outside who have a genuine relationship is just depressing.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Wait you don't live with them?

 

[Eternal Observer]

Disgusted and embarrassed because of my shitty parents, we were never a real family, seeing all the happy families outside who have a genuine relationship is just depressing.

I feel you, it sucks seeing families indulge in conversations where everybody can pitch in because everyone is doing something with their lives.

Wait you don't live with them?

I live with my mom

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I hate it tbh. Going out in public is suifuel

 

[Eternal Observer]

I hate it tbh. Going out in public is suifuel

It sure is, especially when you can't pay for anything

 

[Words2_live_bye]

I have social anxiety. So i have problems eating or even GOING in public.
Doesn't help that my mom is a bitch

 

[Deleted member 21768]

I don’t go out with them

Do you get invited and say no or do they not even bother to invite you?

Invited to what? What the hell would family invite you to to "go out" with?

 

[It'sAConspiracy]

Suifuel tbh, I feel like i'm still 10yo kid

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

Pretty good tbh

 

[Deleted member 6470]

I'm grateful they spared me doing that kind of shit.

 

[JohnDcel]

every time I have to go outside I get hit by a massive wave of anxiety, depression, sadness and anger, with or without parents

 

[Deleted member 19858]

I don’t go out with them

 

[Czes]

I mostly don't go anywhere with them so they try to make me feel guilty, but it's better than a stressful waste of my time.

 

[Eternal Observer]

Invited to what? What the hell would family invite you to to "go out" with?

Birthdays, get togethers, etc. My family's pretty close

I mostly don't go anywhere with them so they try to make me feel guilty, but it's better than a stressful waste of my time.

Thats what i hate. I go out, dont have anything to talk about, and then get criticized for it. But if i dont go, im looked at as selfish. Like wtf.

every time I have to go outside I get hit by a massive wave of anxiety, depression, sadness and anger, with or without parents

Yeah its pretty rough being exposed to normalcy when youre not normal

I'm grateful they spared me doing that kind of shit.

Lucky you, i have one of those "we have to get together to show that we still give a shit about each other" kinda families

 

[wasted12years]

Like an incel/lonely guy.

 

[Eternal Observer]

Suifuel tbh, I feel like i'm still 10yo kid

Tell me about it. Imagine a 20+ year old with facial hair having to have his mom pay for his food. FML

Like an incel/lonely guy.

Don't we all

 

[OwlGod]

Patrick Bateman, my family mogs me to death.

 

[PoodankMcGee]

Fortunately i dont have any family besides parents, and they pay for all my shit and accept my hopeless situation so its chill.

Just kinda sucks feeling like a man child whenever we go out to dinner

 

[ionlycopenow]

Like trash.

 

[Eternal Observer]

Fortunately i dont have any family besides parents, and they pay for all my shit and accept my hopeless situation so its chill.

Just kinda sucks feeling like a man child whenever we go out to dinner

At least youre only in front of them instead of aunts, uncles and cousins m8. Might as well be auditioning to be the family let down

Like trash.

I feel it bro

 

[Yvan]

Last time i went out with family was back in middle school...so...

 

[Eternal Observer]

Last time i went out with family was back in middle school...so...

Lucky

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Don't go until you have your shit together, I learned this the hard way. It's better for people to wonder what you're struggling with than to actually see it.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

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Disgusted and embarrassed because of my shitty parents, we were never a real family, seeing all the happy families outside who have a genuine relationship is just depressing.

brutal, same with me. Whenever I go outside to fine di!Ning, 95%+ of the families are far happier looking and cohesive. it's truly unfair