Discussion How do you cope with loneliness?

[Stupid Clown]

I've never been able to form close friendships or talk to people well. I can usually only make friends through jestermaxxing. Even online anymore bc of social anxiety, and lack of proper social development plus BPD I can't keep friends well. Any advice on how to cope? Video games, movies, books. I've tried it all. Thinking of just pumping myself full of sleeping pills and sleeping it off.

 

[EnterTheVoid]

I cope by knowing other men, even normies, are miserable. If normies aren't miserable, I can't breathe. Thank god nature loves to punish humans.

 

[Stupid Clown]

I cope by knowing other men, even normies, are miserable. If normies aren't miserable, I can't breathe. Thank god nature loves to punish humans.

True, most normies become miserable and wage slaving eventually.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

I cope with copes and cooming.

 

[Stupid Clown]

I cope with copes and cooming.

What do you coom to?

 

[Betrayed]

How do you cope with loneliness?

I don't.
That's the problem

 

[Ci Jey]

Vidya, gymcelling, movies, nightwalks, gore and porn.
The common copes

 

[Stupid Clown]

Vidya, gymcelling, movies, nightwalks, gore and porn.
The common copes

Based

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

What do you coom to?

Porn.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Friendships nowadays are just an appearance

I have seen friends shit talk each other when they aren't around and they never protect each other when shit really hits the fan

Tbf I've had a few really close and loyal friends and I have a few it's just I can't communicate well with them. There's a few good people, but the brutal truth is most people are shit.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Porn.

I may sound a bit mentally ill but can I ask what kind?

 

[Stupid Clown]

Wym you cant communicate well with them?

Could you explain a bit

I mean I get worried over if what I'm saying is appropriate or not and then I get obsessed over what their reaction to what I say maybe and I overanalyze it so usually I don't talk to them much out of fear of losing them.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Dont ever cope with porn EVER

you will be so much more depressed

I got bored of it.

 

[Izayacel]

I cope by knowing other men, even normies, are miserable. If normies aren't miserable, I can't breathe. Thank god nature loves to punish ( some ) humans.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Bro its all in your head

If they truly like you they you can be comfortable around them

If your not comfortable with your friends then whats the point?

Also OP alot of us have a hard time finding genuine good friends and it seems you have the opportunity to be with them so you should really take advantage of that

Well, I'm scared if I interact with them more they'll stop liking me so it's better to just talk to them occasionally and do them favors.

 

[NiggerMan]

I built a basement gym and cope by lifting weights 3 hours a day. Once the serotonin is released from a hard workout watching movies and browsing internet becomes more enjoyable. I also keep track of my lifts and try to hit new PRs every week, this makes the entire process more rewarding.

 

[Stupid Clown]

I built a basement gym and cope by lifting weights 3 hours a day. Once the serotonin is released from a hard workout watching movies and browsing internet becomes more enjoyable. I also keep track of my lifts and try to hit new PRs every week, this makes the entire process more rewarding.

Based

 

[The Enforcer]

I just get wasted as fuck

 

[timmy]

I've never been able to form close friendships or talk to people well. I can usually only make friends through jestermaxxing. Even online anymore bc of social anxiety, and lack of proper social development plus BPD I can't keep friends well. Any advice on how to cope? Video games, movies, books. I've tried it all. Thinking of just pumping myself full of sleeping pills and sleeping it off.

by talking to you buddy boy

 

[Stupid Clown]

by talking to you buddy boy

 

[Subhuman100]

I've never been able to form close friendships or talk to people well. I can usually only make friends through jestermaxxing. Even online anymore bc of social anxiety, and lack of proper social development plus BPD I can't keep friends well. Any advice on how to cope? Video games, movies, books. I've tried it all. Thinking of just pumping myself full of sleeping pills and sleeping it off.

same. i studycell and play vidya mostly...but even vidya is getting boring these days. will try anime as a new cope

 

[Stupid Clown]

same. i studycell and play vidya mostly...but even vidya is getting boring these days. will try anime as a new cope

Hard to find good anime tbh but I wish you luck.

 

[nohope.]

I cope by knowing other men, even normies, are miserable. If normies aren't miserable, I can't breathe. Thank god nature loves to punish humans.

I like this cope idea but how do u know for a fact they are miserable?

 

[nohope.]

I'd need to actually see them suffering for that to work

 

[UnknownR]

I cope with cooming.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

I may sound a bit mentally ill but can I ask what kind?

Homemade amatuer stuff mostly aka the stuff I should be doing IRL.

 

[Stupid Clown]

Homemade amatuer stuff mostly aka the stuff I should be doing IRL.

Oh, nice. Any examples?

 

[Subhuman100]

Hard to find good anime tbh but I wish you luck.

Yeah I tried to get into anime earlier too but lost interest

 

[Subhuman100]

I mean I get worried over if what I'm saying is appropriate or not and then I get obsessed over what their reaction to what I say maybe and I overanalyze it so usually I don't talk to them much out of fear of losing them.

It's called Aspergers

 

[Stupid Clown]

Yeah I tried to get into anime earlier too but lost interest

It gets boring especially if it's a long series.

 

[Stupid Clown]

It's called Aspergers

I don't really show any other signs of it tbh. The reason I'm worried about being abandoned is a condition called BPD. Borderline personality disorder. I'm constantly paranoid people will leave me.

 

[Subhuman100]

I don't really show any other signs of it tbh. The reason I'm worried about being abandoned is a condition called BPD. Borderline personality disorder. I'm constantly paranoid people will leave me.

atleast you have some friends. Try not to lose them.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

Oh, nice. Any examples?

Too many to count, mostly I'll just go on xhamster and look at stuff that's been filmed on a phone in the heat of the moment as they have the most down to earth realism feel to them (in my virgin opinion). Sometimes /gif/ on 4chan is good for this too if you filter out all the gay tranny shit on there these days.

 

[Stupid Clown]

atleast you have some friends. Try not to lose them.

K, thx.

 

[Michael W. Ford]

I've never been able to form close friendships or talk to people well. I can usually only make friends through jestermaxxing. Even online anymore bc of social anxiety, and lack of proper social development plus BPD I can't keep friends well. Any advice on how to cope? Video games, movies, books. I've tried it all. Thinking of just pumping myself full of sleeping pills and sleeping it off.

Smoke weed

 

[Stupid Clown]

Too many to count, mostly I'll just go on xhamster and look at stuff that's been filmed on a phone in the heat of the moment as they have the most down to earth realism feel to them (in my virgin opinion). Sometimes /gif/ on 4chan is good for this too if you filter out all the gay tranny shit on there these days.

Good taste. Good taste.

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[Stupid Clown]

Smoke weed

No.

 

[bigantennaemay1]

I cope by escaping into video games, either games I played for escapism when I was young out of nostalgia, or games where I can escape completely and let my mind leave the real world, i.e. like Morrowind. I also drink alcohol, typically quality German beers, and when I can afford it, top shelf whiskey. I eat edibles to let my mind drift, and help me let go, evenif only temporarily, of my anxiety and stress. And then I also have a ritualistic Friday evening: every Friday, I get my fish fry (fish and chips for those across the pond), some good beer, and I have an enjoyable dinner to look forward to at the end of each week, and used to motivate myself to get through each week, just so I have something to look forward to.

It's all a fat load of cope, but it's the copes I have.

 

[cripplecel]

Coom at 1am, play VIDYA game, go to Gym and buy transformers. And also FOODmax

 

[RollD20]

Dont ever cope with porn EVER

you will be so much more depressed

This so much this
It fucks with your brain
Now I’m more depressed than ever