Serious How do some of you people still have oneitis?

[Zielony4]

I don't. And I never will. I only had one femail friend in my entire life but we met online. It was a funny story. They didn't see my face though. Truly ugly men can't even get into the friend zone. I'm not gatekeeping by saying that. They choose average guys for friends.

A woman asked me a question yesterday in college and I gave a low effort answer but it could see that I was looking at it with disgust. Why do men actually roll over just to impress a woman they know doesn't care? I never did it. I never had a crush and no one ever had a crush on me. Where do you people even find oneitis from?

 

[TheRealChincel]

I’ll never understand it but I’m admittedly wired differently than 99.9% of guys.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I think oneitises are still a thing because it is default state of relationships. What I mean by that is: having no knowledge of the blue, red, and black pills, this is how people naturally pursue relationships. If you're just your average Joe looking to find a woman, this is how you think. Before I, and most of us, were blackpilled, this is how we thought as well.

Our modern (((society))) has convinced men that they have to impress women throught actions/beliefs to attract them. This is promoted by the left to inflate female value, who then reciprocate by putting these people in power. The truth of the matter is that women are REALLY attracted to LOOKS (with a hint of NT abilities), but that doesn't let leftists stay in charge, so they convince people otherwise. The convincing works because it presents a happier reality... that anyone can succeed with women if they put in enough effort.

I haven't had one in nearly two years, and it took me a long ass time to get over my last one. I have a fear that it will happen again should I get another chance, but since I'm past college-age now, the number of women I meet is virtually 0. Hopefully I'll never have to relive the oneitis curse again.

 

[qwepmi]

I have gone without female interaction for so long, that the next girl who even looks at me will be my oneitis

 

[Deleted member 10124]

What's Oneitis? Serious question.

 

[Uglyman]

I don't have an oneitis. I just happen to have known a girl good enough in order to make several posts about her and her ideas

 

[MilkingTheEel]

What's Oneitis? Serious question.

The new way of saying crush I guess

 

[Deleted member 10124]

The new way of saying crush I guess

Nah. Can't be doing with that shit.

 

[MilkingTheEel]

The reason why I have a oneitis comes from the fact that I have a friend since we were like 6 and we are "best friends" for a long time and she's pretty much the only girl texting me. It's all because she's the only one giving me attention. I don't even want to try anything with her because I know I'd fail and lose even that. IDK if it can even be called friendzone because I given up on the idea a long time ago.

 

[Total Imbecile]

Truly ugly men can't even get into the friend zone.

Very legit, this is why I find it weird that so many people here claim to be ugly yet have female friends and regularly sleep over their houses. I bet most are just oblivious that their friends want to actually fuck them

 

[Darthmat]

Never had a oneitis but I'll admit when I was a teen and younger I had waifus.

 

[deepthroat]

Have you seen the movie Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind? Where Jim Carrey says, that he loved every single women that paid attention to him?

Let's say u meet a girl, and u think she's sexy, you would definitely fuck her, maybe even consider LTR. Now this girl will give you some cues that can be interpreted any way, but your hormone driven brain keeps telling you "what if she likes me, maybe she really do, maybe she could''
Then u go sleep, but last thoughts are about her because it was most significant thing of the day.. It's a trap. I've been reading alot about this. Having an oneitis is a mental state called limerence. It's indistinguishable from OCD. Basically unrequited infatuation. I have now controlled OCD and I can tell, it's not easy not to succumb. Especially for virgins, because oneitis is actually first possible love and your brain is trying to imprint her in your mind really hard. Only total avoidance of oneitis and time can help you out.

 

[Curious0]

Having a crush as an ugly guy is extremely dumb and we all know that. It will only cause emotional pain since knowing that you are genetically not good enough for her is disheartening.
Fortunately, I only had a crush on one girl so far. I don't develop crushes that easily I guess. I don't know how it could happen. Maybe I picked up her pheromones that signalled my brain that her genes are perfect.
Maybe I thought her smile was genuine and this experience was so out of the ordinary that my brain wanted to keep getting these hormone releases by seeing her smile and hence I developped a crush on her.
Maybe she is the best looking girl I've seen and my stupid brain thought she would be a great partner and simply ignored the fact that I'm genetically inferior.

 

[DarkLizardLuck]

Have you seen the movie Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind? Where Jim Carrey says, that he loved every single women that paid attention to him?

Let's say u meet a girl, and u think she's sexy, you would definitely fuck her, maybe even consider LTR. Now this girl will give you some cues that can be interpreted any way, but your hormone driven brain keeps telling you "what if she likes me, maybe she really do, maybe she could''
Then u go sleep, but last thoughts are about her because it was most significant thing of the day.. It's a trap. I've been reading alot about this. Having an oneitis is a mental state called limerence. It's indistinguishable from OCD. Basically unrequited infatuation. I have now controlled OCD and I can tell, it's not easy not to succumb. Especially for virgins, because oneitis is actually first possible love and your brain is trying to imprint her in your mind really hard. Only total avoidance of oneitis and time can help you out.

Interesting angle. Never thought about of oneitis that way before but it’s certainly closer to OCD than a normal person’s crush in my experience.

 

[deepthroat]

Maybe I thought her smile was genuine and this experience was so out of the ordinary that my brain wanted to keep getting these hormone releases by seeing her smile and hence I developped a crush on her.
Maybe she is the best looking girl I've seen and my stupid brain thought she would be a great partner and simply ignored the fact that I'm genetically inferior.

That's perfect reasoning and I think it pretty much describes how you get oneitis in the loop.

 

[Loooooser]

I have outgrown that phase, no longer think of my oneitis anymoar.