I know this post will seem weird as a gray, but I genuinely don't understand how incels who leave the forum find any solace in non-incels. This place is legitimately the only good hang out place for a truecel that you will ever find online. All other forums and social media communities that claim incel are filled with fakecels and normies and you can't say what you really want on them.
like seriously where do they go? Are they too busy engaging in copes or trying to escape the blackpill?
I "left", and I'll answer your question.
I had a post saying I am leaving and might come back. Then I had another post detailing my experience on what it was like trying to apply myself in the real world. I go to clubs, try to chat up women, however the blackpill stares you in the face everywhere you go.
I am not an active poster, but occassionally lurk. Here's why I "left".
I suppose it was mostly intellectual curiosity on my part and being preoccupied with my own state of being. That intellectual curiousity was exhausted and there really is nothing left to explore.
I am still not Chad, the dating pool has become a dating mud puddle. The demographics are a complete joke. Any half decent looking woman is shaking her ass on instagram. I am nearing 30 and not any closer to being with a non fat woman that has anything going for her physically. What else is there to think about at this point? I've been a part of these communities since 2014. At some point you have to move on with your life and focus on making it at least interesting (not necessarily happy) in other ways. A romance in my prime has simply not happened even if I were to get one tomorrow. It's over, I am a defeated man.
Yet I discover in my journey to the bottomless pit, that things apparently can just get worse. Things get worse in your romantic options (if I can call them that) and the women lose their youthful glow, even if that glow is on a fatty. They get wrinkly, and start looking premenopausal. Agepill keeps punching me in the face.
A little anecdote that shook me to my core. My acquaintance started dating this basically post wall looking woman. He is nothing special himself, and in terms of the male wall he is past it too. However, this woman simply looks menopausal. She doesn't have an ounce of feminity, she looks like a hag. She blends in with the pavement. That is my future in 10 years, if I get desparate enough. He earns good money, just like me too.
I don't want that. However this is mid life crisis. Whereas in the past men grieved that they aren't what they used to be. I grieve what I never got to be and stare dwindling options down. I am now confronted with women so unattractive I legitimately wouldn't be able to get it up. Why would I want to get it up for one, when I wanted a 19 year old girl with at least nice waist when I was 19 myself?
Things always get worse, but verbalizing it on this forum has become useless for me mostly.
