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How do people have so much to talk about

FlamingCel

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I never understood it.People work or go to class and see each other often,but it seems they never run out of things to talk about.My mom calls her relatives often and they always have plenty to talk about.They have hour long talks
 
Normie topics and experience from years of social interactions and small talk.
I can only talk about 2 things = history and war.
 
Normie topics and experience from years of social interactions and small talk.
I can only talk about 2 things = history and war.
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Incel trait. It's over
 
Normies like to talk about dumb shit mostly. Weather, traveling, how much alcohol they drank during the weekends etc. Oh and they love gossiping behind people's backs.
 
They go on and on about the most boring, mundane shit. They don't actually say anything of substance, they just like hearing themselves talk.
 
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I don't know. I also wonder what they talk about it. I wonder what it's like to be friends with a pretty girl and be close with her and talk to her a lot. That's something I've never experienced and probably never will. I remember seeing my oneitis in study hall sitting with 3 other guys talking and laughing and I always wondered what they talked about.
 
Normie topics and experience from years of social interactions and small talk.
I can only talk about 2 things = history and war.
For me it's lolis, jews, jihad, and whores
 
I don't know how to casually talk, I can only speak about topics I know a decent bit about.
 
Ive asked myself this same question all my life
 
They go on and on about the most boring, mundane shit. They don't actually say anything of substance, they just like hearing themselves talk.
 
Women just ramble tbh, men talk about shared interests (most of the time)
 
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I never understood it.People work or go to class and see each other often,but it seems they never run out of things to talk about.My mom calls her relatives often and they always have plenty to talk about.They have hour long talks
They gossip about other people lives
 
Normies like to talk about dumb shit mostly. Weather, traveling, how much alcohol they drank during the weekends etc. Oh and they love gossiping behind people's backs.
 
my mom can talk on the telephone for fucking 3 hours straight. She doesn't even get to see her female friends all that often, yet somehow finds new things to talk about.
 
Incel trait: having subject matter nobody wants to talk about
 
I have no idea, man. They just really like talking to each other.
 
Most of their conversations are utterly banal and devoid of any thought. I wouldn't worry too much about how much they're talking. The quality and content of their talks is usually expected to be bottom tier, so you're not missing out on anything.
 
Normies like to talk about dumb shit mostly. Weather, traveling, how much alcohol they drank during the weekends etc. Oh and they love gossiping behind people's backs.
Ahh yes.. I made a fool of myself by giving a glimpse of my misserable life to an old highschool girl I dated once. She will probably tell all her older friends from school that knew me and show them the texts. 1. This gives them something to laugh about. 2. They now know to be aware of me if I ever were to meet them. That's the "function" of normie talk. Luckily I'll prob never see them again.
 
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You are making a very classic error like incels, and it is to believe that "we have nothing to talk about, and that is why the conversations do not arise"

That is only partly true. Experience has shown me that for a conversation to flow, all people must be interested, EVERYONE.

With "EVERYONE", I am remarking that the reason why we cannot have fluent conversations with others is not because we do not have anything to talk about, it is because THE OTHER PERSON HAS NO INTEREST BECAUSE WE ARE UGLY, SO, BY NOT SUPPORTING OUR CONVERSATION, IT ENDS.

I have seen this doing Chadfishing. I am a person who, in general, does not have much to talk about. I'm shy. Always, when I try talk to another people, conversation ends on one minute. Always.

But, what a coincidence!, doing Chadfishing, I could talking for hours with a femoid!

Reviewing the conversations in Tinder, I realized that when I kept quiet, she immediately put fuel to the conversation, allowing me to enter
another topic and go on.
 
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It comes naturally for NT extroverted people. I can only be like that with a handful of people I'm very close to and have tons in common with. But some people can pull it off with anyone.

Also, good-looking people have nothing but positive social reinforcement behind them, so they set the bar really low for what they say. While us who went through bullying select what we say more carefully.
 

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