You are making a very classic error like incels, and it is to believe that "we have nothing to talk about, and that is why the conversations do not arise"
That is only partly true. Experience has shown me that for a conversation to flow, all people must be interested, EVERYONE.
With "EVERYONE", I am remarking that the reason why we cannot have fluent conversations with others is not because we do not have anything to talk about, it is because THE OTHER PERSON HAS NO INTEREST BECAUSE WE ARE UGLY, SO, BY NOT SUPPORTING OUR CONVERSATION, IT ENDS.
I have seen this doing Chadfishing. I am a person who, in general, does not have much to talk about. I'm shy. Always, when I try talk to another people, conversation ends on one minute. Always.
But, what a coincidence!, doing Chadfishing, I could talking for hours with a femoid!
Reviewing the conversations in Tinder, I realized that when I kept quiet, she immediately put fuel to the conversation, allowing me to enter
another topic and go on.