Discussion How do people even get into a relationship?

[RemoveNormalfags]

Like seriously, how does this shit work.
First step is obviously to be attractive enough (which we aren't, so it's over for us).

Dating, having social contacts and stuff like this feels so surreal for me. It's like from a different universe.
How do they meet, what do they talk about?
What are the different steps from meeting until someone calls himself in a relationship?

 

[ihaveno1]

no idea man, last friend i actually made from scratch in real life was in 6th grade and it was because we had the same exact schedule and assigned seats next to each other in computer class

 

[sub8male]

They have looks that are good enough if they are a male or they just exist if they are a foid. Dumb question tbh.

 

[Deleted member 22904]

I can't even comprehend what is must be like to have a social circle. Imagine opening your phone and seeing messages from people that like you. Imagine them wanting to spend time with you. But no, I rot here in the early hours of a Saturday morning while normies are out partying. FML

 

[metabuxx]

Its called the natural flow of life. It just happens for high tier normies and Chads. They see a girl at a bar or at a park or someplace like that where it is acceptable for ask foids out. They go over, ask them out and end up liking and fucking each other.
It will never happen for us because the moment we approach foids she will start screaming "HE IS EYE RAPING ME!!"

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

I can't even comprehend what is must be like to have a social circle. Imagine opening your phone and seeing messages from people that like you. Imagine them wanting to spend time with you. But no, I rot here in the early hours of a Saturday morning while normies are out partying. FML

It's probably better than getting .co alerts

 

[Personalityinkwell]

they go to parties and hook up, then they fuck for a little while and then call each other boyfriend and girlfriend

 

[Deleted member 24256]

how do people even make friends?

 

[Deleted member 22904]

It's probably better than getting .co alerts

i'm not quite so sure

 

[Koruga]

It's probably better than getting .co alerts

Those alerts are the best.

 

[Carotel]

I'd say it just happens for normies tbh

 

[FidelCashflow]

Its called the natural flow of life. It just happens for high tier normies and Chads. They see a girl at a bar or at a park or someplace like that where it is acceptable for ask foids out. They go over, ask them out and end up liking and fucking each other.
It will never happen for us because the moment we approach foids she will start screaming "HE IS EYE RAPING ME!!"

This is the most brutal pill of all. Ugly guys are out here coping with gym, fashion, and years of pua counseling in Hope's of getting girls. While for Chad it just happens naturally, for him it's a part of life like when he learned to walk as a baby.

 

[Angry_runt]

It's easy when both people in said relationship are genetically hardwired to seek each other out. It's like magnets clicking together.

 

[LitVirgin]

Most normies use whats called a warm approach they have friend groups that allow them to have female associates or a friend puts in a good word alot of guys arent that brave to get a gf on their own so they rely on friends. I dont really have to many friends and the ones I do dont hang out with or associate with women so Im kinda fucked either way they wouldnt want me to begin with

 

[ionlycopenow]

Normies meet through social circles. They then post about their relationship on social media, while the dude orbits the girl 24/7 for a few months paying for everything before they break up because the girl cheated.
Chad meets through tinder and just fucks

It's easy when both people in said relationship are genetically hardwired to seek each other out. It's like magnets clicking together.

Also this

Only genetic trash has issues or finds it difficult.

 

[Uglyme]

By being attractive or cucks. No other way

 

[Sad_Eunuch]

I can't even comprehend what is must be like to have a social circle. Imagine opening your phone and seeing messages from people that like you. Imagine them wanting to spend time with you. But no, I rot here in the early hours of a Saturday morning while normies are out partying. FML

Haha it's so true. Sometimes I wonder why I even have a phone. Not like there's anybody texting or calling me.

 

[N-Digger]

It will naturally happen to someone who has decent facial attractiveness if they spend most of their time around other people and participate in group gatherings (festivals,university, etc). They don't have to try or even think about what they are doing because it is ingrained into their brains from being neurotypical and from having postive social reinforcement which makes them have good social skills.

 

[Deleted member 24048]

It doesn't require much effort for anyone except incels/betabuxxers, it just happens naturally at a party, a club, online, wherever.

For example Chad said 'Hi', Stacy 'Lol, Hi, your funny', Chad 'You wanna get outta here', Stacy 'Lol, your so forward, I like that' and with that Chad slayed his 5th devout Christian virgin that week.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Once again, the truth is SuicideFuel

 

[Deleted member 19546]

It just happens, for normal people, they just socialize and make friends, and they slowly gravitate together with a girl, and then they suddenly end up kissing or fucking and realize they are in a relationship. It's not something they consciously think about, only mentally ill spergs develop fully fledged unreciprocated feelings for someone and chase them despite never having a chance after countless rejections because they can't understand people and signals. And instead they make that progression of feelings based of a fantasy in their mind.

 

[Slav_weebcel]

When I started trying to chat and meet with girls in my city in my late teens,it just got worse and worse with age,to the point that no one even goes out with me for a single time.And they ignore me,make barriers in our chatting,talk shitty excuses,but its all because of my looks,height and foids wanting 8/10 with a car,his own flat and stable job even before they turn 18.

 

[Deleted member 17419]

the truth is SuicideFuel

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

Most normies use whats called a warm approach they have friend groups that allow them to have female associates or a friend puts in a good word alot of guys arent that brave to get a gf on their own so they rely on friends. I dont really have to many friends and the ones I do dont hang out with or associate with women so Im kinda fucked either way they wouldnt want me to begin with

if that's warm approach and cold approach is out of the blue on the street then what is eye contact for 10min into casual convo?

Haha it's so true. Sometimes I wonder why I even have a phone. Not like there's anybody texting or calling me.

I just cancelled my subscription I calculate I'll save around 6eur a month like this

 

[Yerberito]

Idk tbh

 

[LitVirgin]

if that's warm approach and cold approach is out of the blue on the street then what is eye contact for 10min into casual convo?

I just cancelled my subscription I calculate I'll save around 6eur a month like this

Idk bro foids are random

 

[kikecel]

I dont know buddy, I am an incel

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

I think the main difference is that normies and chads get signs of attraction from women.

Some foids have mentioned reddit that they will try to stand closer or try to be in the vicinity of the guy they are attracted to which makes approaching a lot easier. Add to that the fact that they will actually make an effort in the conversation.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

I guess it sort of just happens? Like two people get talking and the conversation flows naturally and they end up in a relationship. Im autistic so it’ll never happen to me.

 

[MountainGorilla]

*Hits Pipe*
There's literally nothing more cringe than some genetic dead end loser trying to "self improve" or go "mgtow" to fit into society. It's like they're so far off the mark I don't even know where to begin with them. The average person, and even the above average, just exist and the things that you consider "normal" just happen to them. No high schooler ever had to "self improve" to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they gravitated towards each other. There's no thought out into any of this, these things just happened through the natural flow of life, no "self improvement" necessary. That's what happens when you're not a genetic dead end or a mentally ill freak, you don't ever find yourself one night lying in bed alone wondering why you don't have a single friend or you've never kissed a girl at 23 years old. You don't devise a plan to stop touching your cock for six months in order to look a girl in the eye. You just exist, you go with the societal flow, and you end up with a wife, a nice job, a house, and some kids. If you missed out on this flow, it's probably because you're complete genetic shit.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

If you're a male, you have to be over 6' tall and have impact resistant facial bone structure.

If you're a female, you have to exist.

 

[universallyabhorred]

Your mirror will tell you whether others would consider you worthy of a relationship or not. Then you must determine if you are NT. If you are not NT, you must be chad tier. Once these conditions are fulfilled just shower and go outside, it will happen.

 

[FlamingCel]

i dont know onichan

 

[TheSecondComing]

onichan

onichan

 

[HappilySingle]

Two ways:
- Foid fake real love for chad. Chad falls for it and stops fucking other girls. Foid then cucks chad.
- Foid sees normie with cash. Normie spends cash on foid. Foid give normie pitty starfish sex. They get married. Foid take all his shit.

 

[To_Live_is to_Serve]

The answer is mutual love. It has a higher chance of appearing if you are attractive but one night stands like those of tinder can also spark it. Most people are also quite conformist. Chads and women have their urges too which they satisfy which can spark relationships.

 

[Tyrny]

I can't even comprehend what is must be like to have a social circle. Imagine opening your phone and seeing messages from people that like you. Imagine them wanting to spend time with you. But no, I rot here in the early hours of a Saturday morning while normies are out partying. FML

Even being included in the circles sucks because you're still at the bottom of the pecking order.
I don't talk to anyone anymore.

 

[Vorbei]

It just happens, hence "just be yourself".

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Like seriously, how does this shit work.
First step is obviously to be attractive enough (which we aren't, so it's over for us).

Dating, having social contacts and stuff like this feels so surreal for me. It's like from a different universe.