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Pinkett Mouse

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As an oldcel (i'm 37) i noticed that often guys over 30 yo are asked how they didn't rope yet, or how they cope. The answer is contained in the blackpill itself. I'm an incel, i survived my teenage and youth without sex and i'm still alive. Dead on the inside but alive. Nothing can kill me more than this.

The fact is that sex and affection in its purest form happens in the teenage, and maybe in early 20ies. After you turn 25, sex is a pale imitation of what you should have experienced when you was younger.

I live in a small rural town. People of my age are mostly normies, some truecel and a very few of Chad/Chadlite. Of course Chad slayed from teenage to early 30ies, until they dedided to settle down. Normies had a couple of girlfriends in all their lives, and had very long periods of celibacy/sexual abstinence. And i noticed that most of them met the "special one" when they were more or less 35 years old, after aeons of solitude. Guys who didn't get a single pity fuck for years (and that excortcelled regularly) suddenly met their beloved one and got married in no time. Epidemically. Of course we are talking about roasties looking for betabuxxers and, more important, determinated to avoid the social stigma of spinsterhood. Blackpill confirmed.
Do you know how I accepted my inceldom? Because i realize the misery of a late marriage with an expired foid who is the rotten corpse of an exJB. And i see how pathetic is to shit a baby when both the members of the couple are over 30 yo (expecially the foid). I don't feel bad when i see my contemporaries with their new/old families. Better incel than cuck. Tbh i feel like the only one who got how things work and i admit that i'm expecting soon the first divorces.
It's more difficult to cope with the fact that i never experienced teen love, but what's done can't be changed. Apart the fact that i can't get it, i don't want a cheap imitation of those feelings in old age. Tbh i feel bad for youngcels who are missing it now.
 
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You need to have an ambition to cope. The ambition may be working towards an end to feminism & hypergamy or it may be trivial as moneymaxxing & escortcelling. Coping just for the sake of coping is meaningless.
 
You need to have an ambition to cope. The ambition may be working towards an end to feminism & hypergamy or it may be trivial as moneymaxxing & escortcelling. Coping just for the sake of coping is meaningless.
I'moneymaxxing indeed. I own my house and i care of it (buy furniture when i want to change style ecc), i travel often and i have more intellectual liveliness of most of my married contemporaries. That's why i disvovered the blackpill. And the implicit cope comes from the awareness that most of the normie marriages are pure cuckoldry.
 
You need to have an ambition to cope. The ambition may be working towards an end to feminism & hypergamy or it may be trivial as moneymaxxing & escortcelling. Coping just for the sake of coping is meaningless.
True.
 
I'moneymaxxing indeed. I own my house and i care of it (buy furniture when i want to change style ecc), i travel often and i have more intellectual liveliness of most of my married contemporaries. That's why i disvovered the blackpill. And the implicit cope comes from the awareness that most of the normie marriages are pure cuckoldry.
Agreed, better incel than cuck.
 
Fuck living to 30. Men with facial deformities should be offered euthanasia. A lot of incels I know have killed themselves lately and I don't want to be the loser who goes last. I want to make sure the vultures and maggots consume all my flesh so if a person finds my corpse they won't know how ugly and deformed my face was. Wilderness starvation is the best way to go. You can't trust your relatives with your corpse. I'd be so fucking pissed if I roped myself and my mom had an open casket funeral for me and people could see my vampire goblin wimp enopthalmos pedo face.
 
I got my degree in my 30s and live a good life. I would still like to get married but it isn't as much of a concern as it was last year.
 
After a while, you get numb. The desire and anger and longing is still there, but instead of sitting in my head and boiling and steaming, it feels like it's outside of my head across the room away from me. I can still see it and still approach and absorb it, but I easily let it sit over there most of the time. I barely even whack off anymore. I used to be a couple times a day, now around once or twice a month.
 
I'm 36, I felt a lot worse when I was younger. Probably because I know that it's too late for me, and my brain has adapted to the loneliness.
 
Think of all the suicides that could be prevented if life saving operations were covered by insurance. Nope, having part of your face look like it was fucking melted due to a fucking injury and looking like a creepy monster is "cosmetic"... it doesn't affect your health or quality of life at all. If a roastie get's acid splashed on her face, is reconstructive surgery just "cosmetic"? Just wagecuck and save up money so you'll be able to look in the mirror without wanting to kill yourself by the time you're forty, when it's way too fucking late... The media tries to make suicide look like a bad thing. Being trapped behind a face that is absolutely fucking repulsive and creepy with no realistic way to escape is a bad thing. America is not going to respect human rights like Brazil does, the suicide epidemic has just begun. Time to build the library of incel suicide notes. I'm buying lotto tickets until February and then I'm fucking ending it.
 
Well said, OP! :yes::yes::yes:
 
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I'moneymaxxing indeed. I own my house and i care of it (buy furniture when i want to change style ecc), i travel often and i have more intellectual liveliness of most of my married contemporaries. That's why i disvovered the blackpill. And the implicit cope comes from the awareness that most of the normie marriages are pure cuckoldry.

you're doing better than 95% of men your age

trust me, I've studied the financial stats of men in the west endlessly, I know exactly how fucked they are.

As for women, there's no way in hell a man in his late 30s is fucking young hot women without paying. So pretty much everyone is incel at that age.
 
I'm 56. Hopefully the women soon get desperate. I mean who the hell would want sex with a 60 year old?
 
If you're incel over 30 then your only cope should be the rope
 
Gymcel + Escortcel
Pray at the alter of the gods of looksmaxxing.
 
I'm 30 years old and I am thinking of maybe escortcelling soon. I still dream of having a family someday but I also realise that men get fucked over in divorce court regularly (especially genetic garbage like me).

I pretty much cope with video games, making money and other things. It's keeps me content.
 
i will face homeless life soon and i cant aford nothing i will cope like vagabond and hope die in my late 40s

i cope reading blackpill books

if you have money and supportive parents you can cope your 40s like NEET and then Rope
 

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