Venting How do incels have the motivation to do anything?

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I went to the gym today. I picked up some dumbbells and I was about to start doing some curls. Before I did that I decided to look around the gym. I saw genetically gifted Chads who were probably not much more experienced than me but looked better than I ever could. I saw normie men on the treadmill and obviously the foids with tight yoga pants doing their slutty stretches. These same whores made me give up on the gym many times in the past.
Then I looked at myself in the mirror. I saw my average height and subpar frame and just thought to myself "why bother" so I put the dumbbells down and walked out.

On my way home I got pizza and I have been LDARing here and watching movies ever since. I've heard that there is a user here who goes to an Ivy League school.
My only question is fucking how. How can a man work this hard if he has to go to bed all alone at the end of the day? Seeing all the Chads spitroasting prime breeding material while you studycell at home.


I already knew back in highschool that life ends for the average man after college so I gave up all the way back then. I stopped studying at all because I just couldn't see the point. I would sit at home and look up the normies and Chads in my school on Facebook and Instagram and I would see pictures of them going out to clubs and house parties, getting drunk and having sex... basically making the most of their limited youth. Meanwhile I was sitting there in my dark room right after fapping, looking at a shitty school book that would only make it easier for me to betabuxx if I studied it. The wife I would eventually get would have gotten spitroasted numerous times back in highschool and college while I was rotting.

It all seems so pointless.
 
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yeah i relate a lot man,there is no motivation to do anything nowdays
 
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They avoid the black pill and cope that things will all work out one day. At some point they'll break. I was fully functioning till around 24.
 
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AloneInDarkness said:
They avoid the black pill and cope that things will all work out one day. At some point they'll break. I was fully functioning till around 24.

I was already broken by 17 at the latest. Tbh I think I have been since my mid teens but back then I thought it was just laziness, even though I was getting bullied by my 'friends' daily and unlike them, no foid had ever showed any interest in me.
 
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I'm currently at the gym.

I've seen 4 DYEL kids with girlfriends.

White weak chadlites with girlfriends.

Foids literally getting wet over the high tier normie personal trainer.

A foid was literally stretching whilst a white tall guy was doing OHP with like 30kg.

At the end of the day I've stopped caring.
I can lift more than all of them and will lift until I bleed from my nose. I will lift until I die and I emasculate all these twinks by out lifting them.
 
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Hate_my_life said:
I'm currently at the gym.

I've seen 4 DYEL kids with girlfriends.

White weak chadlites with girlfriends.

Foids literally getting wet over the high tier normie personal trainer.

A foid was literally stretching whilst a white tall guy was doing OHP with like 30kg.

At the end of the day I've stopped caring.
I can lift more than all of them and will lift until I bleed from my nose. I will lift until I die and I emasculate all these twinks by out lifting them.

I figured this out in like 2008. I just do the bare minimum to stay in respectable shape.
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I was already broken by 17 at the latest. Tbh I think I have been since my mid teens but back then I thought it was just laziness, even though I was getting bullied by my 'friends' daily and unlike them, no foid had ever showed any interest in me.
I was still in the dark and my main flaw are skin problems so I thought I'd grow out of it. All my friends were dating the hottest chicks in class that I jerked off too, lucky fucks.
 
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religion is what pushing to do things only tbh ngl . you know that after life with 72 virgins is worth it . while all these fuckboys and sluts rot in hell for eternity , to me it's fair enough .
 
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It's hard to be motivated to do things when you know it is already over for you.
Hate_my_life said:
I'm currently at the gym.

I've seen 4 DYEL kids with girlfriends.

White weak chadlites with girlfriends.

Foids literally getting wet over the high tier normie personal trainer.

A foid was literally stretching whilst a white tall guy was doing OHP with like 30kg.

At the end of the day I've stopped caring.
I can lift more than all of them and will lift until I bleed from my nose. I will lift until I die and I emasculate all these twinks by out lifting them.

Great cope ngl
 
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Hate_my_life said:
I'm currently at the gym.

I've seen 4 DYEL kids with girlfriends.

White weak chadlites with girlfriends.

Foids literally getting wet over the high tier normie personal trainer.

A foid was literally stretching whilst a white tall guy was doing OHP with like 30kg.

At the end of the day I've stopped caring.
I can lift more than all of them and will lift until I bleed from my nose. I will lift until I die and I emasculate all these twinks by out lifting them.

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If you're autistic, you can become absorbed in your special interests, and these give you a dopaminergic release similar to orgasm.
 
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this is pretty much me aswell, wake up at 4am go to work, finish then spend the day at pc rotting, repeat for 2011- 2020.

i have no motivation to do anything, every time i try with woman i get rejected, just why bother
 
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I think its one of two
Its either not caring - the post blackpill whitepilling
or
Hyper-cope which sometimes breaks
 
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Same, I lose motivation and become depressed when I see good looking foids with their 6'4 chads.

No matter what I do I'll never reach this level of fulfillment in my life.
 
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bait____ said:
Great cope ngl
It works for me tbh.

I'm ugly.
I'm ethnic.

Nothing I'll do can change that (to yield positive results), so I'm going to mog these phaggots in whatever way I can.
 
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Big yikerinos Cuz dere is more to life den sex sweetie get a good job and contribute to soyciety u evil hitler Nazi inkwell u not entitled to muh pooosy!
 
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Idk how people here do it.
 
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I'm kinda whitepilled so I see copes as my true purpose as there is nothing else to do idk it just feels great to feel my dopamine release everytime I coom or gymceil.
 
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I procrastinate and do everything last second. I’m barely passing college and I quit multiple jobs because I don’t have the motivation. Once the day comes I finish school and have to look for a full time job is the day I might rope
 
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Hate_my_life said:
It works for me tbh.

I'm ugly.
I'm ethnic.

Nothing I'll do can change that (to yield positive results), so I'm going to mog these phaggots in whatever way I can.

I train calisthenics/street workout in parks and when i see some normies doing push ups/pull ups i start doing one arm push ups/muscle ups jfl.Imagine what they feel when a sub-human mogs them at something.
 
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bait____ said:
I train calisthenics/street workout in parks and when i see some normies doing push ups/pull ups i start doing one arm push ups/muscle ups jfl.Imagine what they feel when a sub-human mogs them at something.
 
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Reinforcement. If you don't feel rewarded for doing something you won't do it. Gymcels feel stronger after working out so they keep doing it. Or they do it sometimes to avoid something bad things (becoming weaker due to muscle loss). The reason most of us aren't very motivated is due to the pathetic levels of positive reinforcement we experience. Brad works out a few times and foids notice it while he fucks them, which makes him associate his muscles with sex ("I got rewarded for working out bro!"). Incels do the same and get nothing, so why keep gymceling? To be able to beat up Chad? Sure, but you'll never do it. Although the thought of being able to might make it feel rewarding, it won't in the long run. To feel healthy? Sure, but you might as well just eat healthily and barely work out.

Ivy League school as an incel? The incel associates it with more money in the future and keeps at it. If he's lucky enough to enjoy what he studies it'll benefit him, since he'll need it in the future when his better looking fellow graduates get rewarded with superior jobs.
 
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I wonder the same. Especially for ones who call themselves truecels or ricecels. They have no chance in the west. Maybe in America they feel they need to work (no neetbux) so they may as well get a better job/pay and afford escorts, but I still don't get how they do it.

I dropped out already and have planned my next few years for living minimalist (but with copes and maybe travel). Welfare + part time + cheap rent.
 
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OverBeforeItBegan said:
I went to the gym today. I picked up some dumbbells and I was about to start doing some curls. Before I did that I decided to look around the gym. I saw genetically gifted Chads who were probably not much more experienced than me but looked better than I ever could. I saw normie men on the treadmill and obviously the foids with tight yoga pants doing their slutty stretches. These same whores made me give up on the gym many times in the past.
Then I looked at myself in the mirror. I saw my average height and subpar frame and just thought to myself "why bother" so I put the dumbbells down and walked out.

On my way home I got pizza and I have been LDARing here and watching movies ever since. I've heard that there is a user here who goes to an Ivy League school.
My only question is fucking how. How can a man work this hard if he has to go to bed all alone at the end of the day? Seeing all the Chads spitroasting prime breeding material while you studycell at home.


I already knew back in highschool that life ends for the average man after college so I gave up all the way back then. I stopped studying at all because I just couldn't see the point. I would sit at home and look up the normies and Chads in my school on Facebook and Instagram and I would see pictures of them going out to clubs and house parties, getting drunk and having sex... basically making the most of their limited youth. Meanwhile I was sitting there in my dark room right after fapping, looking at a shitty school book that would only make it easier for me to betabuxx if I studied it. The wife I would eventually get would have gotten spitroasted numerous times back in highschool and college while I was rotting.

It all seems so pointless.

I agree with you. I had motivation to do things despite understanding my place because my youth deluded me into thinking anything was still possible. When you're in your teens or early 20's, despite your intellect, you can simply not have endured hell long enough to understand without doubt it won't change. Worse, society is always telling us to have hope--despite the published evidence that we're already TOO HOPEFUL (we hope for positive outcomes even when the objective evidence is very strongly against it).

Have you read any of the articles recently about how we're most likely to become life-dissatisfied around age 47? I don't trust those results because I think they don't account for how older people, at least as life-dissatisfied, can merely accept their fate and so seem more satisfied. But even despite the studies finding greater loneliness among young people, after living with life's sh*t for decades, it's the middle aged who seem to fall most audibly into a slump. I think something similar happens with incels (though it doesn't take as long for many of us to hit our lowest point). Good luck...
 
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We don't . If ur truly blackpilled u know it's over there's no way to have motivation to do anything
 
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I don't have any motivation to do anything.

I just LDAR atm, now I'm searing a job for survive, that's it.
 
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Any motivation I once had is now gone thanks to women. I'm all set to quit my job and join the NEET ranks again.

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! I'M BECOMING NEET AGAIN! LIFEFUEL MOTHERFUCKERS!
 
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Any motivation I once had is now gone thanks to women. I'm all set to quit my job and join the NEET ranks again.

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! I'M BECOMING NEET AGAIN! LIFEFUEL MOTHERFUCKERS!
My congratulations!
 
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AloneInDarkness said:
They avoid the black pill and cope that things will all work out one day. At some point they'll break. I was fully functioning till around 24.
22 for me :feelsUnreal:
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Any motivation I once had is now gone thanks to women. I'm all set to quit my job and join the NEET ranks again.

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! I'M BECOMING NEET AGAIN! LIFEFUEL MOTHERFUCKERS!
based :feelsokman: I hope we can reach 80% neetcels on this site one day :feelsautistic:
 
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AloneInDarkness said:
They avoid the black pill and cope that things will all work out one day. At some point they'll break. I was fully functioning till around 24.
I think I'm following your footsteps as 24 year old. Getting really difficult to cope.

Desire to backpack across Russia as a bum with savings increases every day
 
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I don't have motivation for anything besides gymceling
 
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bait____ said:
It's hard to be motivated to do things when you know it is already over for you.
 
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I can’t bring myself to gymcel. When you can’t get laid there’s no fucking point of doing anything consistently
 
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I don't know but i'm posting like crazy. Fuck i'm lonely, time to smoke some weed and go to bed. Important day tomorrow, gotta do laundry and get some groceries or i'll run out. Also, going to an old friends to watch the McgregorvsCerrone fight, may back out not sure yet. Massive suicidefuel interacting with any non strangers.

May pick up some mouse traps although the mouse here's kinda like my best friend so not sure yet.
 
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AloneInDarkness said:
going to an old friends
Brag tbh, god I hate NT friendhavers.
 
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universallyabhorred said:
Brag tbh, god I hate NT friendhavers.
Eh, he still invites me sometimes out of pity. The anxiety to enjoyment ratio is all off, it's not good.
 
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fuck knows anymore I have lost all motivation and the depression is getting worse and all I feel is resentment towards society, I fucking hate the way they have a life while us incels just rot, society tells us we are not accepted and the world laughs at our misery and now I fully understand why people snap and go on rampages.
 
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CursedCel said:
yeah i relate a lot man,there is no motivation to do anything nowdays
Same
 
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fuck knows anymore I have lost all motivation and the depression is getting worse and all I feel is resentment towards society, I fucking hate the way they have a life while us incels just rot, society tells us we are not accepted and the world laughs at our misery and now I fully understand why people snap and go on rampages.
That sig made me laugh, on point.
 
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I don't really. I can barely drag myself out of bed in the morning, it takes all my willpower to propel myself to work every day.