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How do I stop being so fucking bored?

Framecel222

Framecel222

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Now that I'm on winter break I'm realizing how much of a rotter I am. I've just been sitting at my computer for the entire day, with the only breaks being to get food or go to the bathroom. What the fuck do I do? I'M SO BORED AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

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Weed, drink?
 
Framecel222 said:
coldmachinery said:
Weed, drink?
I can't acquire them because I have no friends.
I get not being able to find a dealer, but just go to the liqour store lmao
 
coldmachinery said:
I get not being able to find a dealer, but just go to the liqour store lmao

I'm not old enough, you gotta be 21 in my country.
 
If you want friends to do stuff with to kill boredom, I really can't think of any alternative to Normie Advice 101 which is "just go outside bro." Look up what events are happening in your area and attend some and try to fight your inhib and talk to some looksmatch males. Maybe you will find someone of like mind, or someone you can blackpill.

If that's not what you're looking for, reading literature is a fantastic cope. Other alternative include learning a skill like programming, getting certifications online for various things, as well as supplementing your education by networking and looking at job/internship opportunities for people of your education level.

What I've gotten in the habit of recently is adultmaxing. What I mean by that is researching as much as possible on things like insurance, some of the things I mentioned above like certifications (completed two okay-ish ones in the past few months that boost my CV), credit cards, investing, etc. I'm not rich and I don't plan to betabux or live exorbitantly, but I do want to start saving up more money so I have an LDAR back-up fund if I ever break and quit living my stressful demanding life.
 
practice tying nooses.
 
Framecel222 said:
coldmachinery said:
I get not being able to find a dealer, but just go to the liqour store lmao
I'm not old enough, you gotta be 21 in my country.
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I'm 21 and barely feel old enough to be here lmao leave you probably still have time bro
 
blickpall said:
If you want friends to do stuff with to kill boredom, I really can't think of any alternative to Normie Advice 101 which is "just go outside bro." Look up what events are happening in your area and attend some and try to fight your inhib and talk to some looksmatch males. Maybe you will find someone of like mind, or someone you can blackpill.
If that's not what you're looking for, reading literature is a fantastic cope. Other alternative include learning a skill like programming, getting certifications online for various things, as well as supplementing your education by networking and looking at job/internship opportunities for people of your education level.
What I've gotten in the habit of recently is adultmaxing. What I mean by that is researching as much as possible on things like insurance, some of the things I mentioned above like certifications (completed two okay-ish ones in the past few months that boost my CV), credit cards, investing, etc. I'm not rich and I don't plan to betabux or live exorbitantly, but I do want to start saving up more money so I have an LDAR back-up fund if I ever break and quit living my stressful demanding life.

I can't go outside and talk to people, that's virtually impossible for me. Reading sounds like a good idea though. I used to read books when I was younger and I found it to be really enjoyable.

coldmachinery said:
I'm 21 and barely feel old enough to be here lmao leave you probably still have time

I'm a disgusting subhuman acnecel, there's no hope for me.
 
I don't know fuck all about acne feel free to ignore me but isn't it possible it will clear up as you get older as your hormones stabilize or some shit
 
Framecel222 said:
I can't go outside and talk to people

Even dudes?

I know it's winter, but some of the most fun I've had is going to meet-ups centered around a sport, like frisbee, soccer, snowboarding etc. and you build camaraderie without even really talking to anyone. You just be the quiet dude in the background but people rely on you and when you come through for them in a team setting, they begin to like you.
 
blickpall said:
Framecel222 said:
I can't go outside and talk to people
Even dudes?
I know it's winter, but some of the most fun I've had is going to meet-ups centered around a sport, like frisbee, soccer, snowboarding etc. and you build camaraderie without even really talking to anyone. You just be the quiet dude in the background but people rely on you and when you come through for them in a team setting, they begin to like you.
That sounds like some nickeloden tv movie shit
 
coldmachinery said:
I don't know fuck all about acne feel free to ignore me but isn't it possible it will clear up as you get older as your hormones stabilize or some shit

I'm gonna take Accutane for it but I already have a ton of red marks from acne that won't go away even years later. I'll never have healthy glowing skin like my JB-slaying brother.

Basically what I'm saying is that I can already tell it's over for me even though I'm only 19.

blickpall said:
Even dudes? 

I know it's winter, but some of the most fun I've had is going to meet-ups centered around a sport, like frisbee, soccer, snowboarding etc. and you build camaraderie without even really talking to anyone. You just be the quiet dude in the background but people rely on you and when you come through for them in a team setting, they begin to like you.

That won't work for me, I was in a competitive basketball class because I needed a PE credit and I was the least liked person in the class. Halo effect permeates to interactions with dudes as well. Also I suck at every sport because of subhuman genetics. 

I'm glad it's working for you though.
 
coldmachinery said:
That sounds like some nickeloden tv movie shit

You don't turn into bestestfriendsever.com or the Mighty Ducks or anything. You just do an activity together and that creates a bond without you having to open your aspie mouth for more than a few words every so often. It's a way to meet people without relying on social skills. Not trying to false advertise or overhype; this is just from my experience.
 
Framecel222 said:
coldmachinery said:
I don't know fuck all about acne feel free to ignore me but isn't it possible it will clear up as you get older as your hormones stabilize or some shit
I'm gonna take Accutane for it but I already have a ton of red marks from acne that won't go away even years later. I'll never have healthy glowing skin like my JB-slaying brother.
Basically what I'm saying is that I can already tell it's over for me even though I'm only 19.
Armchair psychology shit here but do you say I'll never have glowing skin like my brother in a jealous way or are you cool with your brother being a chad
 
coldmachinery said:
Armchair psychology shit here but do you say I'll never have glowing skin like my brother in a jealous way or are you cool with your brother being a chad

I'm happy for him. Being an incel is hell and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
 
coldmachinery said:
That sounds like some nickeloden tv movie shit

lmao! 

I tried meetups and hated it. Lots of bluepill/SJW types IME. I actually find it easier to deal with people at my school than those weirdos. But to each their own.
 
Framecel222 said:
coldmachinery said:
Armchair psychology shit here but do you say I'll never have glowing skin like my brother in a jealous way or are you cool with your brother being a chad
I'm happy for him. Being an incel is hell and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Does he or you ever acknowledge the fact that one is an incel and one is chad
 
coldmachinery said:
Does he or you ever acknowledge the fact that one is an incel and one is chad

Lol no, he definitely knows but thankfully he's nice enough to never bring it up.
 
Framecel222 said:
That won't work for me, I was in a competitive basketball class because I needed a PE credit and I was the least liked person in the class. Halo effect permeates to interactions with dudes as well. Also I suck at every sport because of subhuman genetics.

I'm glad it's working for you though.

Sorry to hear, brother. It doesn't get better without practice but to go to a meet-up and be simultaneously the ugliest AND least skilled AND high inhib would probably be a death sentence anywhere. I feel for you. Go with the reading, then. I do suggest doing something more interactive too, though, like learning a skill/instrument/learning something. GIve it some thought if you get insanely bored again.
 
Honestly, join a youth wing of a political party. Usually there aren't that many chads there and you might find common ground.
 
fukmylyf said:
coldmachinery said:
That sounds like some nickeloden tv movie shit
lmao!
I tried meetups and hated it. Lots of bluepill/SJW types IME. I actually find it easier to deal with people at my school than those weirdos. But to each their own.
Reddit meetups? I don't like the concept tbh

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Framecel222 said:
coldmachinery said:
Does he or you ever acknowledge the fact that one is an incel and one is chad
Lol no, he definitely knows but thankfully he's nice enough to never bring it up.
I'm thinking too much into this shit but part of me thinks if I had Chad as a brother I'd want him to reach out to me and try to pull me out of the shit abyss
 
VLÖ said:
Honestly, join a youth wing of a political party. Usually there aren't that many chads there and you might find common ground.

Oh god, I'd be surrounded by obnoxious SJWs. It could be funny to do it once and just see what kind of absurd shit they say lol.

coldmachinery said:
I'm thinking too much into this shit but part of me thinks if I had Chad as a brother I'd want him to reach out to me and try to pull me out of the shit abyss

How would he be able to help you though? There's nothing my brother can say that will cure my ugliness.
 
Framecel222 said:
Oh god, I'd be surrounded by obnoxious SJWs. It could be funny to do it once and just see what kind of absurd shit they say lol.

You in the US? Well here there are a lot more conservative parties. Maybe the GOP?
 
VLÖ said:
You in the US? Well here there are a lot more conservative parties. Maybe the GOP?

I'm liberal though so I wouldn't join them. And yeah I'm in the US.
 
coldmachinery said:
Reddit meetups? I don't like the concept tbh

FUCK NO. I would never go to a reddit meetup. Doesn't get more pathetic than that, lol.

George Costanza is relatable af though.
 
Framecel222 said:
I'm liberal though so I wouldn't join them. And yeah I'm in the US.
Idk much about US politics, but maybe the Libertarian party?
 
fukmylyf said:
coldmachinery said:
Reddit meetups? I don't like the concept tbh
FUCK NO. I would never go to a reddit meetup. Doesn't get more pathetic than that, lol.
George Costanza is relatable af though.
We're all not Penske material

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VLÖ said:
Idk much about US politics, but maybe the Libertarian party?

Liberals are generally Independents/Democrats/Socialists here.

My friend was in a young democrats organization, and got me to follow their facebook and vote on some shit for him to get some low level office or something. As a result I would sometimes get notifications from them, and holy fuck are they a bunch of bleeding heart cucks. I literally couldn't take it anymore. It pushed me even further towards the political and economical center, where I reside today.
 
You don't have any hobbies or interests? 

Get a mountain bike and go for comfy bike rides bro. Learn how to cook.

If I get time off I can comfortably burn through days with ease. 

You need to find something you like and learn more about it.
 
Currycel4Life said:
You don't have any hobbies or interests? 

Correct, I have zero hobbies and my only interest is pussy. Nothing is fun anymore.
 
Sparky said:
It’s hard to motivate yourself as an incel though

Absolutely, the average normie only stays motivated because he gets laid at the end of the day.
 
Framecel222 said:
Correct, I have zero hobbies and my only interest is pussy. Nothing is fun anymore.

Then it's your own fault you're bored.

You're bored because you are a boring person.

Make a list of 10 things you sorta like or are interested in. Then go to google and for each interest, find one way to get involved in it or get better at it. 

Very quickly you'll stop being bored.
 
Framecel222 said:
What the fuck do I do?

Go to the gym, install Tinder and do some swiping to escape inceldom.
 
If you only care about wasting time, not about how productive it is: Find a videogame with a ranking system.
 
Immerse yourself in something. Pick a topic that interests in you and then get a book, an audiobook, youtube lectures, a video game and related food. For instance, I once played Assassin's Creed: Blackflag. Set in the golde age of piracy. So I was playing this game, listening to audio books and dramatized audio plays such as "Treasure Islands", listening to lectures about the historical age of piracy, eating coconuts, daydreaming about being a pirate with magical powers and his own Carribean cave with sexy girls etc. Or, once I read a lot of Sherlock Holmes novels and then bought English Breakfast tea, got some audio version of it, went to Second Life and just enjoyed looking at some Victorian-ish environment while listening to Sherlock Holmes novels and drinking tea, then reading a bit about the British Empire, etc. Or you pick an artist you like and immerse yourself in his work. Last artists I did that with was Richard Wagner, then you read his writings, the librettos, listen to different recordings of his operas, watch documentaries about him, etc. Just pick something you like and that could interest you, no matter if it's challenging or low-brow.
 
That has been my schedule for nearly 2 years now. FeelsGoodMan
 
Chill with me brocel
 
Red Shambhala said:
Immerse yourself in something. Pick a topic that interests in you and then get a book, an audiobook, youtube lectures, a video game and related food. For instance, I once played Assassin's Creed: Blackflag. Set in the golde age of piracy. So I was playing this game, listening to audio books and dramatized audio plays such as "Treasure Islands", listening to lectures about the historical age of piracy, eating coconuts, daydreaming about being a pirate with magical powers and his own Carribean cave with sexy girls etc. Or, once I read a lot of Sherlock Holmes novels and then bought English Breakfast tea, got some audio version of it, went to Second Life and just enjoyed looking at some Victorian-ish environment while listening to Sherlock Holmes novels and drinking tea, then reading a bit about the British Empire, etc. Or you pick an artist you like and immerse yourself in his work. Last artists I did that with was Richard Wagner, then you read his writings, the librettos, listen to different recordings of his operas, watch documentaries about him, etc. Just pick something you like and that could interest you, no matter if it's challenging or low-brow.

These are solid ideas, I'll give them a shot.

alsalsk said:
Chill with me brocel

Okay how? lol
 
Framecel222 said:
These are solid ideas, I'll give them a shot.

I did the same with Red Dead Redemption. This was when I was still smoking. So I bought Whiskey, tobacco, bacon, beans, ate bacon and beans, smoked tobacco, got drunk on Whiskey, was listening to early American folk music and Ennio Morricone and then listened to lectures about the historical Old West and the American Civil War, the role of the railroad and machinery in the change of society and economy etc etc  Lots of fun! 

Sadly, I haven't found a video game for a while that interested me enough to do that again. I tried it with ASsassin's Creed Origins recently, but no matter how hard I tried, Ancient Egypt just doesn't interest me.
 
Red Shambhala said:
I did the same with Red Dead Redemption. This was when I was still smoking. So I bought Whiskey, tobacco, bacon, beans, ate bacon and beans, smoked tobacco, got drunk on Whiskey, was listening to early American folk music and Ennio Morricone and then listened to lectures about the historical Old West and the American Civil War, the role of the railroad and machinery in the change of society and economy etc etc  Lots of fun! 

Sadly, I haven't found a video game for a while that interested me enough to do that again. I tried it with ASsassin's Creed Origins recently, but no matter how hard I tried, Ancient Egypt just doesn't interest me.

Lmao that's next level immersion. Have you played any of the Fallout games? I get totally sucked into those, I've played for 10 hours straight before.
 
Framecel222 said:
These are solid ideas, I'll give them a shot.


Okay how? lol

Come holiday in aus, I'll show you all the chicks and we'll slay some pussy together, lol
 
Framecel222 said:
Lmao that's next level immersion. Have you played any of the Fallout games? I get totally sucked into those, I've played for 10 hours straight before.

I don't like first person games. Immersion or not, I just don't like this perspective, which is also why I didn't play Skyrim, although I've been told that (now?) you can also switch to third-person view. I want third person view, aim assistant and the game is supposed to be easy. If I have to think too much about the difficult mechanics that kills the immersion. This is why I love Rockstar Games: tehy are SO easy. Sometimes they are almsot TOO easy lol. Assassin's Creed is also super easy.
 
alsalsk said:
Come holiday in aus, I'll show you all the chicks and we'll slay some pussy together, lol

I would if I wasn't a poorcel haha.

Red Shambhala said:
I don't like first person games. Immersion or not, I just don't like this perspective, which is also why I didn't play Skyrim, although I've been told that (now?) you can also switch to third-person view. I want third person view, aim assistant and the game is supposed to be easy. If I have to think too much about the difficult mechanics that kills the immersion. This is why I love Rockstar Games: tehy are SO easy. Sometimes they are almsot TOO easy lol. Assassin's Creed is also super easy.

You can play exclusively in 3rd-person and if you turn the difficulty down it's super easy. That being said, you probably wouldn't like it if you don't like complex game mechanics.
 

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