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Unzöl

Unzöl

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My patents had a textbook romantic relationship in the 80s: They met in the university, studied in the same faculty, fell in love with each other and got married right after graduation. They've never dated anyone else.

That's why both of them are super bluepillers who believe that love will come when you meet the right one at the right time. I was also naive to take them as my ultimate relationship goal, only to realize that it's impossible to repeat such a romance in modern society.
 
They were both Chad and Stacy back in the day and yeah... then there's me
 
6'4" chad lite and becky who met in the army.
 
I don't exactly know how they got together. All I know is that I NEVER saw them being romantic with each other.
My mother slept in my bed and my father slept in the huge bed that was meant for both of them.
They were getting in a lot of fights.
It was not romantic at all.
My mother never wanted to get married. My father's mother pressured her to get married because of the kids.
The result was a one sided love relationship that was destined to break.
When I was 8, they got divorced. My mom has been meeting another guy secretly before she left forever.
My sister stayed at the father's house and I moved to my mother's house.
The family was divided from now on.
While my mother was openly crying for weeks because of the fact that my sister didn't want to stay in contact with her, my father secretly cried himself to sleep because of the fact that he will only see me twice in a month, that his love was gone (he appararently loved her) and that he lost a big amount of money.

I never really believed in eternal true love.
I will never get married.
I will never have to deal with this, also thanks to the blackpill.
Looking back at it I am surprised that I was so quiet about all of it. I never cried because of it. I never showed emotions.
Apparently solitude wouldn't bother me too much too, which is quite nice considering that I will eventually have to deal with it in a few years as I am ugly.
 
My parents had met in a small village in Turkey. My father was quite romantic and had always written her love letters. My mother still has these letters today. As it was usual in Turkey and still is today he had asked my mother's parents if he could marry her and they had accepted.

Then they got married and my father came up with the stupid idea to immigrate with her to Germany. They did that and here they gave birth to 4 children, including a 4/10 deathnic son like me who has to compete against same age white aryan men to get a GF...lol
 
By satan's decree
 
Don’t know that much. I know they met in high school.

Wish they never got together tbh or at the very least my dad got his balls kicked repeatedly at some point making him sterile.
 
Curious0 said:
I don't exactly know how they got together. All I know is that I NEVER saw them being romantic with each other.
My mother slept in my bed and my father slept in the huge bed that was meant for both of them.
They were getting in a lot of fights.
It was not romantic at all.
My mother never wanted to get married. My father's mother pressured her to get married because of the kids.
The result was a one sided love relationship that was destined to break.
When I was 8, they got divorced. My mom has been meeting another guy secretly before she left forever.
My sister stayed at the father's house and I moved to my mother's house.
The family was divided from now on.
While my mother was openly crying for weeks because of the fact that my sister didn't want to stay in contact with her, my father secretly cried himself to sleep because of the fact that he will only see me twice in a month, that his love was gone (he appararently loved her) and that he lost a big amount of money.

I never really believed in eternal true love.
I will never get married.
I will never have to deal with this, also thanks to the blackpill.
Looking back at it I am surprised that I was so quiet about all of it. I never cried because of it. I never showed emotions.
Apparently solitude wouldn't bother me too much too, which is quite nice considering that I will eventually have to deal with it in a few years as I am ugly.
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Gosh, quite the opposite of my parents' experience. But it's good of you to be blackpilled early, unlike me who remained stupidly bluepilled for so many years.

Looking back I'd say my parents' model was not sustainable for most couples even in the 80s. None of my uncles had such a happy marriage with their wives. But I just convinced myself so many times that true love existed and all I needed was to meet the right one, JFL.
 
Unzöl said:
My patents had a textbook romantic relationship in the 80s: They met in the university, studied in the same faculty, fell in love with each other and got married right after graduation. They've never dated anyone else.

That's why both of them are super bluepillers who believe that love will come when you meet the right one at the right time. I was also naive to take them as my ultimate relationship goal, only to realize that it's impossible to repeat such a romance in modern society.
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Same
 
SpringHeeledJack said:
My parents had met in a small village in Turkey. My father was quite romantic and had always written her love letters. My mother still has these letters today. As it was usual in Turkey and still is today he had asked my mother's parents if he could marry her and they had accepted.

Then they got married and my father came up with the stupid idea to immigrate with her to Germany. They did that and here they gave birth to 4 children, including a 4/10 deathnic son like me who has to compete against same age white aryan men to get a GF...lol
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If it makes you feel better: just think about 100% germanic, yet ugly guys like me growing up in a really good village. Everybody expecting you to do well in life later, to grow up to be a tall, good looking german guy. Everyone thinking you had all the opportunities in life because of the ideal initial circumstances but you still fail. Because of genes obviously, but nobody realizes that I suppose.
As a white fully germanic guy who gets mogged into oblivion by ethnics on a daily basis, I can say that this is even more suicidefuel. I go on here and what I read is "over for ethnics" while some of them are hard moggers who slay a lot of prime pussy.
If you do well career wise, everybody will say that you worked your way up and you'll get people's respect.
 
Curious0 said:
If it makes you feel better: just think about 100% germanic, yet ugly guys like me growing up in a really good village. Everybody expecting you to do well in life later, to grow up to be a tall, good looking german guy. Everyone thinking you had all the opportunities in life because of the ideal initial circumstances but you still fail. Because of genes obviously, but nobody realizes that I suppose.
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No bro that shit doesn't make me feel better :(
Curious0 said:
As a white fully germanic guy who gets mogged into oblivion by ethnics on a daily basis, I can say that this is even more suicidefuel. I go on here and what I read is "over for ethnics" while some of them are hard moggers who slay a lot of prime pussy.
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Are we talking about Chaddams (oriental/middle-eastern version of Chad)? Yes, there are many of those here in Germany. Sometimes I see some and I get very jealous of them. This country is just a nightmare for a sub 8 man :feelsbadman:
 
I do not talk to my family.
 
Ma was a sexually-repressed nutcase from an ultra-puritanical Christian family. We're talking her brothers would inspect under her bed in case she was sneaking guys into the house.

Dad was a pathetic, friendless christcuck himself who took the "good Christian girl" meme waaaaay too literally. These two christcucks needed a mail-order dating service to find each other even back when 99.95 percent of people met in person.
 
They met and got married after 3 months. Probably they were afraid of loneliness.
 
They met when they were 25...
That's all I know
 
My would-be-incel dad brought my mother over from a poor country using a mail order bride service.

They are both extreme loners with no friends and mental issues who have only tolerated each other's existence out of necessity.
 
arranged marriage, pretty sure theyre cousins. i would rate both a 6/10 in their prime
 
Construction site.
My mum approached him. He is not a chad though.
 
My parents ended up talking on the beach and here I am, how lucky.
 
ad in some magazine
:cage:
 
Chris_Jones said:
Unzöl said:
My patents had a textbook romantic relationship in the 80s: They met in the university, studied in the same faculty, fell in love with each other and got married right after graduation. They've never dated anyone else.

That's why both of them are super bluepillers who believe that love will come when you meet the right one at the right time. I was also naive to take them as my ultimate relationship goal, only to realize that it's impossible to repeat such a romance in modern society.
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Same
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Same.

Having giga bluepilled parents can fuck up your mind.
 
Dunno. Never asked them.
They never dated anyone else tho, expecially my mother who lived in a super-patriarchal family.
 
Arrianged marriage. I blame that for my ugliness. Arab world is backwards. Mom was forced to marry my Manlet dad who is 5’3. Just fuck my life man.
guerillahubris said:
arranged marriage, pretty sure theyre cousins. i would rate both a 6/10 in their prime
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Yes same lol, the cousin fucking part. My father is an ugly like me.
 
Mother fucked a guy behind her husband's back and here I am.
 
Dad saw my mom and tried to approach her by coming straight to her house like a true alpha and told my mom if she wants to be his secretary in a church organization
 
My dad was a Chad so he directly asked her
 
SpringHeeledJack said:
My parents had met in a small village in Turkey. My father was quite romantic and had always written her love letters. My mother still has these letters today. As it was usual in Turkey and still is today he had asked my mother's parents if he could marry her and they had accepted.

Then they got married and my father came up with the stupid idea to immigrate with her to Germany. They did that and here they gave birth to 4 children, including a 4/10 deathnic son like me who has to compete against same age white aryan men to get a GF...lol
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another turkishcel nice to meet you
 
They dated in high school and got married during college
 
mine met in HS
 
Mine met during a war. I don't know the exact details.
 
they lived in the same town
 
Dad was a Chadlite weed dealer. Mom was a legit Stacy
 
At a party on January 1st 1986, what a pathetic day
 
My parents were normies and got to know each other through friends and social circles back in the days, they met in the 80s and i was born 1990.
 
My dad met my mom at her house by mistake , they started dating after a short while my mom was 17 and my dad was 24 after 7 years they got married.
 
PectusManletScarCel said:
You are the result of a woman's hypergamic nature, how does it feel?
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Kinda sucks but I don’t really care that much honestly. I’ve always been kinda self-centered and ignorant that way. I just need to find a good career path so I can move out of my mum’s place and move on with my life.

Also, my mum and her husband were Asian and the dude she cheated with is black. Think of that as you will.
 
My stacy mother married genetic trash and produced the hellspawn which is me.

My mom still looks like 20 at 43.

Meanwhile my dad looks like he went through menopause. Not even sure how that works but he looks like a bloated sick pig with no hair left.
 
Unzöl said:
How? Was it innocent love or was your dad rich?
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My dad lied about being rich and successful and my mom was raised in a humble/conservative household.

So she just fell for the first man that showed interest because she wasn’t conditioned to be disproportionately hypergamous.
 
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