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How did I become an incel?

Dneum912

Dneum912

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I can't believe this is my fate.
 
it started when you were born
 
You were born with the wrong genes, environment, there are a lot of factors tbh...
 
environment, there are a lot of factors tbh...
Environment made me incel ? How ? Exposure to a lot of foids at an early age or something ? Elaborate
 
probably picked bad parents unless you are a trucel then it probably wouldn't have mattered
 
Environment made me incel ? How ? Exposure to a lot of foids at an early age or something ? Elaborate
It can contribute to bad looks in a way, if you for example lived in poverty and didn't have access to high quality nutritious foods as a kid then that might have caused some problems with development or if you got molested by your parents that could have caused heavy mental problems etc.
Overall your genetics still play the most important role but environment is also not to be underestimated
 
Environment made me incel ? How ? Exposure to a lot of foids at an early age or something ? Elaborate
I am also a huge Environmentcel, if you live your entire life in a shit town with little opportunities and low amounts of third places, it you grew up surrounded by hateful or ignorant people, if you live a lifestyle thats less "common" you are guided by your Environment.

Environment has a huge influence over the human psyche, which can also turn people misantrophic, which can in return lead to Social anxiety and thus less chances of finding a partner.

Environment is also guided by trends. For example "Digital Space" is a form of environment you experience pretty much every single day that you use the internet. If you follow certain people you WANT to be like these people, thats why coorporations spent so much money on Influencers. You want to be like XYZ - the coorporate makes XYZ own ABC - now you also want ABC. This kinda social structure can not only be controlled by capitalistic mechanisms but biological ones as well. Sex is a biological need and if you follow a lot of people who want it but cant have it you also become that person.

The "Digital Space" you could say are all social media plattforms and internet forums also is the melting pot of all forms of sexual activities, even beyond just pornographic consumption, something you wouldnt find in the regular environment anyway, can drift you towards a more depressive state of being, but overall Gen Z finds itself in this environment up to 60% to form relationships.

So if you dont control the Digital Space and have a lot of influence yourself, chances that you have a relationship is low, but if the environment you live in also is negative, then your real life experiences are just as worse.

Not leaving that Environment on the other hand is a habit.

Atomic Habits is a great read for that

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sou...QQFnoECBUQAQ&usg=AOvVaw15T_PbdvUXnSonerhCYtmv
 
Environment has a huge influence over the human psyche, which can also turn people misantrophic, which can in return lead to Social anxiety and thus less chances of finding a partner.
You're right here but imo if you have good genes, it's easy to overcome the neagtive effects of your bad environemnt. The chances of you developing social anxiety is quite slim since the postive reinforcements you'll receive will outweigh the negative reinforcements. Regardless of where you're, soyciety will remind you of your inherent value if you've got good genes. Well, that's my hypothesis tbh.
but if the environment you live in also is negative, then your real life experiences are just as worse.
I agree with that.
 
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you’ve been posting stuff like this the past week, are you having some sort of existential crisis?
 
I know how I became one:

1. Neglected child who always felt his parents didn't pay enough attention to him, which developed a feeling of feeling inferior to others and feeling others deserve more attention

2. Extremely high sex drive since puberty

3. Dreaming about sex and romance everyday and slowly realizing that what is only a dream for me, is a frequent reality for others, realizing other people my age could frequently satiate their desires with one or multiple consenting women, which made me feel inferior to them and traumatized me

4. Discovering the redpill community and discovering women are disgusting whores and men are lied to by society

5. Learning that the redpill is BS

6. Discovering the incel community and feeling identified with incels and their beliefs

7. Identifying as a rejected virgin and accepting I might be uglier than I wanted to admit.
 

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