Venting how can people just "make friends"?

[Deleted member 6753]

is this something only chad can do?

starting from primary school i never successfully made a single friend, got remorselessly beaten and verbally abused until i left school, then at uni after 3 years i still dont have one friend and when i tried to join groups/societies they refused me and i get bullied by random people calling me ugly etc every day.

how do u make a "friend"?

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

how do u make a "friend"?

You just have to be normal looking and NT, friends come to you

 

[0hope1rope]

Idk but I imagine it goes something like this
Person 1: "Hello good sir, would you like to be my friend?"
Person 2: "Why yes indeed, that sounds lovely"

 

[Deleted member 6470]

If you're not repulsive, they come to you.
There is no secret.

 

[Deleted member 19079]

dont be autistic

 

[Dregster]

Idk but I imagine it goes something like this
Person 1: "Hello good sir, would you like to be my friend?"
Person 2: "Why yes indeed, that sounds lovely"

No man it doesn't happen that way at all

 

[Deleted member 20434]

I really don’t know

 

[Deleted member 23820]

how do u make a "friend"?

I have got no idea.

 

[TheReaper]

you must have something valuable and exchange it with people's attentions.
If you're ugly,boring,poor and lonely nobody will be your friend.

 

[0hope1rope]

No man it doesn't happen that way at all

Lol really? Well I'm out of ideas

 

[Dregster]

you must have something valuable and exchange it with people's attentions.
If you're ugly,boring,poor and lonely nobody will be your friend.

@0hope1rope

This, you have to bring something to the table. Shared interests and relatable experiences to earn other peoples's trust.

 

[Deleted member 24160]

It just kind of happens. Sharing interests and just clicking together helps.

 

[Dregster]

Lol really? Well I'm out of ideas

Thats some grade school tier approach bro.

It's over for you if you have to ask. It's akin to asking a foid for sex out of the blue as a sub8male.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Genetics

 

[0hope1rope]

Thats some grade school tier approach bro.

It's over for you if you have to ask. It's akin to asking a foid for sex out of the blue as a sub8male.

Lol I was being sarcastic bro

 

[Yerberito]

No idea man

 

[FlamingCel]

Idk but I imagine it goes something like this
Person 1: "Hello good sir, would you like to be my friend?"
Person 2: "Why yes indeed, that sounds lovely"

No man it doesn't happen that way at all

Hello good sirs, would you like to be my friend?"

 

[Dregster]

Lol I was being sarcastic bro

How can I believe that

Hello good sirs, would you like to be my friend?"

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

You have to be fun to be around. Be able to crack some jokes.

 

[Deleted member 21821]

You have to be fun to be around. Be able to crack some jokes.

this
but they only laugh at you if you are good looking...
Halo Effect

 

[0hope1rope]

Hello good sirs, would you like to be my friend?"

Why yes indeed, that sounds lovely!

See OP it's that easy

 

[Deleted member 18214]

People at school made friends on day 1 and I never had "friends" even after 5 or so years. Friends are made like females get Chads ,within .1 seconds.

 

[Lone-Star]

No idea man

 

[Deleted member 6753]

from replies i can tell its all about how u look, like everything in life

 

[Deleted member 22685]

Making friends is easy, keeping them however is a different story.

 

[Deleted member 24048]

I had a lot of friends growing up, it just happened naturally, we all liked sports, games etc.

As I started to lose my attractiveness and status as I got older, I slowly stopped making new friends and started to lose the ones I already had. No close friends anymore at all, only people I used to know.