How are you supposed to have time to "get hobbies", a social circle, and go on dates as a normie

[mylifeistrash]

Lets pretend normies can get dates easily despite working 40 hours a week and not being in school.

How the fuck do they have time after getting off work at 5 or 6, commuting 30 to 60 minutes, going to the gym, eating, showering, etc. On top of that, how the fuck do they have enough money to live alone or with a roommate, have a decent car, and spend $100+ per date entertaining a woman and acting like a dancing monkey?

Seems like the only way to have time for this shit is have professional athlete levels of energy and motivation to do all this shit, be born rich and not work, or be in college with easy classes. ON TOP OF THAT, most women will reject the normie and he has to go on dates with a few before one will have sex with him, and even then it doesn't guarantee a relationship.

In other words, even if you can get dates as normies and are expected to beta bucks / be a jester, it still seems very fucking impossible.

Most men are barely making enough money to survive, that's a US government fact.

 

[FrothySolutions]

That's what I'm trying to figure out. When all these people are finding time to have fun. It's not a matter of motivation, there's just literally no time.

 

[Rassimov]

There seems to be a trend of inceldom dominating in IT spheres of profession. Sometimes I think of becoming a yoga instructor would be a better choice at reaching ascension.

 

[Deleted member 17811]

there is no point participating in modern society.

 

[ShellZ]

there is no point participating in modern society.

Amen

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Seems like the only way to have time for this shit is have professional athlete levels of energy and motivation to do all this shit, be born rich and not work, or be in college with easy classes.

The way i see it done here is getting a government job where you just have to show up and fill the day wandering around the building talking to bored foids or on Tinder. You might have to lick some asses in order to get such jobbut then you're settled. In the evening you'll still have energy to date.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Well for me “hobbies” is the only way I can enjoy life. Working any job is so repetitive and fucking boring. I like college a lot though.

Truth is most normal people don’t have any hobbies unless it’s something they’ve been doing since childhood. There is motivation for them to do anything besides work because they already have families and have no problems meeting partners.

But for many people like me, this is off the table. No one wants to be with us unless we are interesting, smart, can solve differential equations off the top of our head, can play 3 different instruments, be funny, can juggle, etc. I’m not chad or even a normal looking guy, so if I don’t have any of these things I am useless. Then again I am already

 

[fohandfoh]

I go to sleep at 8pm and wake up at 3-4 am and work. I guess in theory I could have tons of time in the afternoons, however I just work till 5 then go home, eat, and go to sleep

 

[Joelossus]

I have been asking myself the very same question for years, and was never able to find an answer. I also don't get how they manage to watch nearly every semi popular show on netflix, although one episode usually lasts 40 minutes, and the average netflix show consists out of 8 seasons.

there is no point participating in modern society.

This, tbh. Don't see the fucking appeal in it. Being a normie must be an awful faith.

 

[TheGambler2]

a lot of normies don't care too much about sleep.they get 4-5 hours of sleep and then drink multiple coffees in the morning

 

[Deleted member 18214]

As an incel its even more impossible.

 

[fohandfoh]

I have found a lot of joy and energy from feng shui in my house and office. Personally enjoyable for me and I work more and faster and have more energy.

I have a pm software that I put all my tasks in and each day just take a few out and write on a clean piece of paper.

My desk is clear it’s a standing / sitting electric desk so I stand most of the day. I have a futon in my office so I can take a nap when I get tired.

I keep my inbox 100% clear for work emails.

I take melatonin to fall asleep at 8. Nothing good or useful happens after 8.

This isn’t blue pill advice this is just advice for enjoying your own life more, foids aside.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

The only way is to start young and build a circle. As you accumulate you don't need to invest much energy to sustain everything as you've already done the grunt of the work when you were young. Problem is, it's all cumulative. If you are ugly and/or were in poor economic and/or in an abusive environment when you were young, then you are perpetually playing a futile game of catch up.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Lets pretend normies can get dates easily despite working 40 hours a week and not being in school.

How the fuck do they have time after getting off work at 5 or 6, commuting 30 to 60 minutes, going to the gym, eating, showering, etc. On top of that, how the fuck do they have enough money to live alone or with a roommate, have a decent car, and spend $100+ per date entertaining a woman and acting like a dancing monkey?

Seems like the only way to have time for this shit is have professional athlete levels of energy and motivation to do all this shit, be born rich and not work, or be in college with easy classes. ON TOP OF THAT, most women will reject the normie and he has to go on dates with a few before one will have sex with him, and even then it doesn't guarantee a relationship.

In other words, even if you can get dates as normies and are expected to beta bucks / be a jester, it still seems very fucking impossible.

Most men are barely making enough money to survive, that's a US government fact.

We're all subsistence wage cuck slave labourers.

 

[fohandfoh]

The only way is to start young and build a circle. As you accumulate you don't need to invest much energy to sustain everything as you've already done the grunt of the work when you were young. Problem is, it's all cumulative. If you are ugly and/or were in poor economic and/or in an abusive environment when you were young, then you are perpetually playing a futile game of catch up.

I have had friends in multiple stages of my life and I cut them all off because I moved away to a lot of places. Now I just don’t give a fuck about friends, All i care about is making money and have fun doing it and challenging myself. Business is one of the ultimate challenges frankly. It’s too the degree to where I have lost interest in most other hobbies or prospects of hobbies.

I don’t do it for the money, I spend about 250/month for gas and food and keep a tight budget. I only eat off the dollar menu at McDonald’s for a lot of my meals and pbj at work. I do it for myself because I enjoy crushing others

Some guy at work always tries to ask me to hang out with him and it took me 6 months of telling him I don’t give a fuck how nice of a guy he is to his fiancée at home, if my time isn’t making money it’s a waste in my eyes.

 

[Todeswunsch]

I can't figure it out. Just imagine coming home after work and being completely exhausted. After work you feel completely drained, you feel like a complete zombie. And then you have to go to the club. If you are a normie, you will be mogged by chads/chadlites. To make up for your lack of looks, you have to focus again, you have to raise the energy to entertain a foid. You have to make her laugh. Most of the time you will get absolutely no response or she will laugh, call you nice and go away with chad anyways.

Most of the time that energy is wasted, you made yourself feel exhausted for nothing. After repeating that procedure for countless loups, you will maybe get a girl, if you have normie-tier looks and above average social skills. You got her, but that doesn't mean, that you will keep her. She will constantly look for better options. She will keep an eye open for chad. It looks/feels so exhausting to constantly be the best version of yourself. Afterwards you can't even cope in peace, because you have to entertain her, cook for her, because she is a kweeeeen, who was absolutely no need for cooking skills etc. And these are the better time, because your relationship will have downs, too. That's when she throws her tantrums. Imagine coming home from work and being attacked by your girlfriend.

I can't get the normie life: After going home from work I am so exhausted, that I could drop dead at any given minute, I wouldn't even have the energy to fuck a girl, even if I had the opportunity - just because I feel extremely burnt out, I have no energy left in me. Sometimes I don't even fap/watch TV. In my holidays I don't have the energy to do something, either. I only listen to music and fap until I fall asleep. I just need that time to recharge my mana, so that I can return to infernal hellscape that is my worklife. I am overstrained, when I am doing my work, I couldn't even consider having a relationship and a job at the same time. How can normies get relationships and a normal job life at the same time?

 

[fohandfoh]

I can't figure it out. Just imagine coming home after work and being completely exhausted. After work you feel completely drained, you feel like a complete zombie. And then you have to go to the club. If you are a normie, you will be mogged by chads/chadlites. To make up for your lack of looks, you have to focus again, you have to raise the energy to entertain a foid. You have to make her laugh. Most of the time you will get absolutely no response or she will laugh, call you nice and go away with chad anyways.

Most of the time that energy is wasted, you made yourself feel exhausted for nothing. After repeating that procedure for countless loups, you will maybe get a girl, if you have normie-tier looks and above average social skills. You got her, but that doesn't mean, that you will keep her. She will constantly look for better options. She will keep an eye open for chad. It looks/feels so exhausting to constantly be the best version of yourself. Afterwards you can't even cope in peace, because you have to entertain her, cook for her, because she is a kweeeeen, who was absolutely no need for cooking skills etc. And these are the better time, because your relationship will have downs, too. That's when she throws her tantrums. Imagine coming home from work and being attacked by your girlfriend.

I can't get the normie life: After going home from work I am so exhausted, that I could drop dead at any given minute, I wouldn't even have the energy to fuck a girl, even if I had the opportunity - just because I feel extremely burnt out, I have no energy left in me. Sometimes I don't even fap/watch TV. In my holidays I don't have the energy to do something, either. I only listen to music and fap until I fall asleep. I just need that time to recharge my mana, so that I can return to infernal hellscape that is my worklife. I am overstrained, when I am doing my work, I couldn't even consider having a relationship and a job at the same time. How can normies get relationships and a normal job life at the same time?

TV, alcohol, and fapping are energy vampires. I still end up fapping 2-3 times a week though lol. Rip

 

[bonk123]

I barely have the energy to leave my chair let alone work full time, go to school, hang out with friends, and go on dates

 

[Sparrow's Song]

Most men are barely making enough money to survive, that's a US government fact.

IT'S TIME FOR THE HOLY KINGDOM OF INCEL TO RISE AND SHINE A BEACON OF MERCY TO ALL MANKIND!

 

[Deleted member 18435]

there is no point participating in modern society.

Not as an incel.

 

[changeiscoming]

I can't figure it out. Just imagine coming home after work and being completely exhausted. After work you feel completely drained, you feel like a complete zombie. And then you have to go to the club. If you are a normie, you will be mogged by chads/chadlites. To make up for your lack of looks, you have to focus again, you have to raise the energy to entertain a foid. You have to make her laugh. Most of the time you will get absolutely no response or she will laugh, call you nice and go away with chad anyways.

Most of the time that energy is wasted, you made yourself feel exhausted for nothing. After repeating that procedure for countless loups, you will maybe get a girl, if you have normie-tier looks and above average social skills. You got her, but that doesn't mean, that you will keep her. She will constantly look for better options. She will keep an eye open for chad. It looks/feels so exhausting to constantly be the best version of yourself. Afterwards you can't even cope in peace, because you have to entertain her, cook for her, because she is a kweeeeen, who was absolutely no need for cooking skills etc. And these are the better time, because your relationship will have downs, too. That's when she throws her tantrums. Imagine coming home from work and being attacked by your girlfriend.

I can't get the normie life: After going home from work I am so exhausted, that I could drop dead at any given minute, I wouldn't even have the energy to fuck a girl, even if I had the opportunity - just because I feel extremely burnt out, I have no energy left in me. Sometimes I don't even fap/watch TV. In my holidays I don't have the energy to do something, either. I only listen to music and fap until I fall asleep. I just need that time to recharge my mana, so that I can return to infernal hellscape that is my worklife. I am overstrained, when I am doing my work, I couldn't even consider having a relationship and a job at the same time. How can normies get relationships and a normal job life at the same time?

just have western quality of life bro


funny thing is, lots of third world ethnics dream of coming to america to only end up working as a fuel dispenser at a gas station