How are you supposed to forgive your parents

[curryboy420]

I have lots of anger at my parents for their lax attitude towards investing in their children and how they expected me to pull myself up from absolute poverty to being a doctor or engineer with no problems. I have been really angry at my dad because he promised me a lot of help over the years and never delivered any of it, now he is old and slow and I feel like he is getting dementia already at 61. And I realise there's no point even being mad anymore because it's over now and he will never be able to help me now. But I still have a lot of anger automatically when I see him and I have no patience for him anymore. Which makes me sad because all of it is from me still wanting the help he claimed he was going to get me but I wanted that help so I could have made money and fixed my family. And we could have been happy by now.

What do I do. And on a second note how the fuck do I start from scratch at 27 and become rich fast enough to actually enjoy what's left of my youth. Or am I really cooked and I am never going to enjoy this attempt at life. Maybe I get another try after im dead.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

I have mixed feelings about my parents (who are now deceased). On the one hand certain decisions they made that still impact my life (and I don't just mean shitty genetics) still bother me.

I think ultimately though, my parents realized having children was a mistake. They were very clearly disappointed in how we turned out, especially me and my youngest brother, but really all 4 of us.

I wonder if they ever came to terms with the fact that we turned out the way we did due to genetic determinism. Surely they at least suspected it. I know my mother said on several occasions that she wished she "held us to higher standards". Like with your parents, our parents expected us to be successful despite growing up in poverty and having shitty genes.

I remember DBDR said his mother kept telling him "you're going to break the generational curse, you're going to be successful" (not realizing her son was already demonstrably an ugly loser). My mother had the same expectations, but much like DBDR, we never had a chance.

My older brother and other younger brother had a little more potential compared to me and my youngest brother. My older brother has a...maybe only slightly below average IQ? He has one gf in his life, many years ago. My other younger brother was better looking than the rest of us (ironically despite having the worst habits out of all of us growing up, genetic recombination be like that) and people even remarked how he didn't look like the rest of us or joked that he must have been adopted. If he ended up high IQ, I'd suspect he was only my half-brother, but his low IQ (like the rest of us) confirms he just lucked out with genetic recombination facially. He had some gfs when he was much younger, but then he got fat and norwood reaper'd. Now he's just as much of a loser as the rest of us.

If I could go back in time and give my mother advice, it would be to marry a high IQ nerd with a very compact midface, preferably a pretty boy, but at least an HTN. Also move to another state before giving birth, or at least go to a different hospital to give birth.

With my dad, i'd just tell him to get a vasectomy since I'm pretty sure he didn't want to have children.

But while I take issue with some of my parents decisions, I don't blame them for being naive and not understanding genetic determinism.

 

[Friezacel]

I have mixed feelings about my parents (who are now deceased). On the one hand certain decisions they made that still impact my life (and I don't just mean shitty genetics) still bother me.

I think ultimately though, my parents realized having children was a mistake. They were very clearly disappointed in how we turned out, especially me and my youngest brother, but really all 4 of us.

I wonder if they ever came to terms with the fact that we turned out the way we did due to genetic determinism. Surely they at least suspected it. I know my mother said on several occasions that she wished she "held us to higher standards". Like with your parents, our parents expected us to be successful despite growing up in poverty and having shitty genes.

I remember DBDR said his mother kept telling him "you're going to break the generational curse, you're going to be successful" (not realizing her son was already demonstrably an ugly loser). My mother had the same expectations, but much like DBDR, we never had a chance.

My older brother and other younger brother had a little more potential compared to me and my youngest brother. My older brother has a...maybe only slightly below average IQ? He has one gf in his life, many years ago. My other younger brother was better looking than the rest of us (ironically despite having the worst habits out of all of us growing up, genetic recombination be like that) and people even remarked how he didn't look like the rest of us or joked that he must have been adopted. If he ended up high IQ, I'd suspect he was only my half-brother, but his low IQ (like the rest of us) confirms he just lucked out with genetic recombination facially. He had some gfs when he was much younger, but then he got fat and norwood reaper'd. Now he's just as much of a loser as the rest of us.

If I could go back in time and give my mother advice, it would be to marry a high IQ nerd with a very compact midface, preferably a pretty boy, but at least an HTN. Also move to another state before giving birth, or at least go to a different hospital to give birth.

With my dad, i'd just tell him to get a vasectomy since I'm pretty sure he didn't want to have children.

But while I take issue with some of my parents decisions, I don't blame them for being naive and not understanding genetic determinism.

Are you a long midface cel ?

 

[AlexDelarge]

I dont blame them for anything they were normie in looks so realistically I should have been normie to but sadly genetic lottery fucked me

they died very early so they didnt participate in my upbringing also

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

you don't

but you're a jeet so you really shouldn't be thinking about this and instead just go and shit up some street no?

 

[zerozerozero]

i dont

 

[curryboy420]

you don't

but you're a jeet so you really shouldn't be thinking about this and instead just go and shit up some street no?

What is shitting on streets in the UK they don't allow anything like that here

 

[Clavicus Vile]

I can’t, every time I look at them I’m reminded of the fact that their dumb actions that they made as teenagers is why I am here today in this predicament.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Are you a long midface cel ?

Yes.

 

[JKlancecaster069]

I haven't and I don't intend on ever doing so.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

What is shitting on streets in the UK they don't allow anything like that here

pretty sure you can do anything in the uk as a brownoid, even gangrape

 

[curryboy420]

pretty sure you can do anything in the uk as a brownoid, even gangrape

I m not brown enough even though I'm shitskjn currry because the police and Jews always get me for everything small and never let membe free