Blackpill How are most men supposed to be "confident" if women are permitted to be hypergamous?

[Personalityinkwell]

This is something I always found flawed. As we all know, genetics are the main determinant of success, but self improvement can (to a lesser degree), make a difference. However, that only works for men in the middle ground anyway, some men are just automatic chads or truecels.

Nevertheless, the point I wanna make is, that because women only gravitate to the top 20% (less in 2020), most men can't be "confident". Confidence comes from others validating you, not from within. Elliot Rodger was confident, and people called him a narcissist. Why? well, because he was a loser. If Elliot Rodger looked like Chico, he wouldn't be looked down upon in the same way, since his looks backed him up. People get angry at ER because he was nowhere near Chad and thus his arrogance was a turn off for most viewers. But that only happened since he was an ugly HAPA in the first place.

I've been told to "be confident", but how can I when I've been shat on for my ugly face my whole life?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Confidence is a meme. Shy timid Chad has women throwing their pussy at him.

 

[Incellectual]

Confidence is a meme. Shy timid Chad has women throwing their pussy at him.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Useless advice

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

Women think they are attracted to confident men because the only men they are attracted to are confident. The truth is those men are confident because they are good looking and know that women like them whatever stupid shit they do.

 

[Babica Yaga]

I agree that confidence comes from validation. But how can you say that ER was confident? No shot. He was compensating for his lack of confidence by buying expensive goods like his BMW, sunglasses and clothing.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I agree that confidence comes from validation. But how can you say that ER was confident? No shot. He was compensating for his lack of confidence by buying expensive goods like his BMW, sunglasses and clothing.

that was my point jfl

you can't "fake confidence"