I’m sorry you experienced all that rejection. You seem like a nice guy. You never used the word “obese” or “fat” so you don’t seem like a shallow jerk like the user whose comment I just read in another thread.
I’m a girl. Had to delete my profile on Coffee Meets Bagel because it was making me feel similar. Guys who had ALREADY liked my profile wouldn’t answer my messages. On that app guys get tons of matches and just hit like on anyone who looks mildly attractive, and don’t read the profile until they get a message from the girl. But girls get fewer matches because they actually read the profiles; maybe one of them a day would be someone who met my criteria intellectually/emotionally, and there would be seemingly great matches in my discovery tab which costs money to use, essentially. I went on one date with someone who I thought was great. We (mostly he) talked at a restaurant for hours and were already taking about what to do on a second date. We texted a lot, good mornings and stuff like that. He postponed date 2 a few times because of work (I think he was being honest), and finally I was about to leave for Europe for 2 weeks. He said we should touch base again when I got back. I said ok, but I left the ball in his court. I figured since he was the one who kept postponing, if he really wanted to date me it was up to him, so I didn’t text him when I got back. We were Facebook and Instagram friends. He liked my posts here and there, and knew when I got home, but never messaged me.
This was last August and September. A couple weeks ago I messsged him and told him that his lack of action was really hurtful and that I wished he had been honest if he really didn’t want to date me. He said “Thanks for your feedback, best of luck.” When I had gone to look him up he had apparently unfriended me.
I just don’t know how not-insanely-attractive people have luck with online dating. It’s so discouraging! You should be able to rate users so you can warn others that they ghosted you. Then no one would get dates
