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I think being high-inhib/sheltered is the most underrated talking point in all incel discussions. I think that being high-inhib can disqualify even good looking men from being able to get laid because they lack masculinity. In simpler terms being a fucking square basically.
Examples:
1. Were you very well behaved in school? I used to always try and be on my best behaviour because thats what my parents and teachers rewarded, when I saw other boys misbehaving and causing mischief I thought I was better than them but as I grew older they were the ones getting the most girls. Any behaviour that was remotely masculine would either lead to being teased or shunned by my mom and sometimes dad.
Whenever I hear about some Chad/Celebrity/Rapper whoever one common thing that always gets mentioned again is that they always acted up and misbehaved in school but somehow they ended up with the best most normal social lives and have no issues maintaining many relationships with women even before they blew up in the cases of celebrities.
Before communities like this existed I didn’t even know how much sex was going on and other girls my age sending nudes and doing all kinds of shit JFC if your parents raised you to be a giganerd.
I genuinely think its impossible to ascend if you were raised to be high-inhib, you can go to a gym and get plastic surgery and all this shit but trying to change your fundamental behaviour (without alcohol or drugs) is extremely difficult and a huge obstacle for a lot of mentalcels if you have been high-inhib your entire life you probably don’t have any confidence or self-esteem even if you DO look normal and then your failures with women will only confirm your own beliefs about yourself and its a vicious cycle to escape because another subsequent failure with a woman will demoralize you.
This is something sex havers dont understand because they’ve all already made it - they dont know what its like to still never make it over that final hurdle
Examples:
1. Were you very well behaved in school? I used to always try and be on my best behaviour because thats what my parents and teachers rewarded, when I saw other boys misbehaving and causing mischief I thought I was better than them but as I grew older they were the ones getting the most girls. Any behaviour that was remotely masculine would either lead to being teased or shunned by my mom and sometimes dad.
Whenever I hear about some Chad/Celebrity/Rapper whoever one common thing that always gets mentioned again is that they always acted up and misbehaved in school but somehow they ended up with the best most normal social lives and have no issues maintaining many relationships with women even before they blew up in the cases of celebrities.
Before communities like this existed I didn’t even know how much sex was going on and other girls my age sending nudes and doing all kinds of shit JFC if your parents raised you to be a giganerd.
I genuinely think its impossible to ascend if you were raised to be high-inhib, you can go to a gym and get plastic surgery and all this shit but trying to change your fundamental behaviour (without alcohol or drugs) is extremely difficult and a huge obstacle for a lot of mentalcels if you have been high-inhib your entire life you probably don’t have any confidence or self-esteem even if you DO look normal and then your failures with women will only confirm your own beliefs about yourself and its a vicious cycle to escape because another subsequent failure with a woman will demoralize you.
This is something sex havers dont understand because they’ve all already made it - they dont know what its like to still never make it over that final hurdle
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