Chick Hicks
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Okay so I'm 18+ M and I don't understand why care about relationships, passing genes etc.
I mean when we die, let's assume there's no afterlife, then when you die, you die.
I have never been in relationship and I don't understand why I should try. I heard many answers why, one is to pass genes, but if so, why should I care about my genes, it's just a lump of many ancestors genes stitched together, why should we care about future generations, why care what they think, if we die then the future is meaningless to us, they won't talk about some rando that did almost nothing of value, and was gray nobody, future generations will forget about your existence in like a centry, and you'll be for them, just like those ambiguous ancestors you know nothing about, other than genes you share with them, you don't know who they were. Another thing that comes to mind when talking about relationships is that some do that to feel less lonely, I don't understand how can you can't be alone in long periods of time in current age, I mean we have internet where you can post stuff, interact with people and all. Some say that you should be with someone to have help when you get old, in my opinion if you are under 80+ you can manage, but after that you have lived through life, your body is weak and you should accept living with it, or should I say dying with it, Some say relationship is just for sex, just to feel good, in my opinion just going for chemical rush from your brain when you ejaculate is like feeling thirsty and going to bar to just order water, plain old, know even by animals water, instead of something more interesting. If we just go for easy way out and just want rush of dopamine why not do drugs or smt. I think that when looking for happiness dopamine is not the best way, better way to find happiness is to achieve something. What I mean by something is little, and bigger goals, making it through the day, buying a new car, repairing old car, losing weight, making art etc. I just think that short rush of happiness is less worth than constant form time to time happiness that you achieved that by yourself. Humanity is filled with hatred, agony, envy and above all greed, why endure that, why care about it, caring about yourself is in my opinion better be someone rather than be part of a group. Why care what happens when we leave leave humanity, if there's no afterlife, there's no salvation for us in our lifetime then we can just enjoy life. What I mean by enjoying life? I don't mean going to buffet and eating over and over the same dish, I think it's better to try sorrow, happiness, etc. I mean average person lives around 80 years, you've got time. The most important thing in life is not to stagnate, if you do one thing over and over you'll be tired of living, wanting to achieve ecstasy by having intercourse is short period of time where you feel empowered, dopamine hit, and all that. Why focus your life on that, why not try looking for happiness somewhere else. Today society it all about everyone wanting to be rich, wanting to have intercourse with someone they like, why not try looking for happiness somewhere else. When person is born their mind is empty canvas and people ant their actions paint out of it a picture, they'll see someone do something, someone say something and absorb it like a sponge, if not for our brains learning we would just be animals. Why endure the animal part of our brain that tells us to procreate, and gain power, in form of money, sex,, etc. I'm not telling you people how to live I just don't understand why people care only about other peoples sex, race, when you can care about what you are and what you can be I think it's more fulfilling than spiral of greed. I just don't get it why people care so much about others their feelings, or lack of, when you can care about yourself and how to better yourself, if we want we don't have to look at other people and what they think, we just have to earn enough money to get by and a little more to put in some hobby or passion. I might be dumb, can you guys tell me what you think?
TLDR: Why care about everyone else and sex, when you can just make yourself happy in simpler ways?
I mean when we die, let's assume there's no afterlife, then when you die, you die.
I have never been in relationship and I don't understand why I should try. I heard many answers why, one is to pass genes, but if so, why should I care about my genes, it's just a lump of many ancestors genes stitched together, why should we care about future generations, why care what they think, if we die then the future is meaningless to us, they won't talk about some rando that did almost nothing of value, and was gray nobody, future generations will forget about your existence in like a centry, and you'll be for them, just like those ambiguous ancestors you know nothing about, other than genes you share with them, you don't know who they were. Another thing that comes to mind when talking about relationships is that some do that to feel less lonely, I don't understand how can you can't be alone in long periods of time in current age, I mean we have internet where you can post stuff, interact with people and all. Some say that you should be with someone to have help when you get old, in my opinion if you are under 80+ you can manage, but after that you have lived through life, your body is weak and you should accept living with it, or should I say dying with it, Some say relationship is just for sex, just to feel good, in my opinion just going for chemical rush from your brain when you ejaculate is like feeling thirsty and going to bar to just order water, plain old, know even by animals water, instead of something more interesting. If we just go for easy way out and just want rush of dopamine why not do drugs or smt. I think that when looking for happiness dopamine is not the best way, better way to find happiness is to achieve something. What I mean by something is little, and bigger goals, making it through the day, buying a new car, repairing old car, losing weight, making art etc. I just think that short rush of happiness is less worth than constant form time to time happiness that you achieved that by yourself. Humanity is filled with hatred, agony, envy and above all greed, why endure that, why care about it, caring about yourself is in my opinion better be someone rather than be part of a group. Why care what happens when we leave leave humanity, if there's no afterlife, there's no salvation for us in our lifetime then we can just enjoy life. What I mean by enjoying life? I don't mean going to buffet and eating over and over the same dish, I think it's better to try sorrow, happiness, etc. I mean average person lives around 80 years, you've got time. The most important thing in life is not to stagnate, if you do one thing over and over you'll be tired of living, wanting to achieve ecstasy by having intercourse is short period of time where you feel empowered, dopamine hit, and all that. Why focus your life on that, why not try looking for happiness somewhere else. Today society it all about everyone wanting to be rich, wanting to have intercourse with someone they like, why not try looking for happiness somewhere else. When person is born their mind is empty canvas and people ant their actions paint out of it a picture, they'll see someone do something, someone say something and absorb it like a sponge, if not for our brains learning we would just be animals. Why endure the animal part of our brain that tells us to procreate, and gain power, in form of money, sex,, etc. I'm not telling you people how to live I just don't understand why people care only about other peoples sex, race, when you can care about what you are and what you can be I think it's more fulfilling than spiral of greed. I just don't get it why people care so much about others their feelings, or lack of, when you can care about yourself and how to better yourself, if we want we don't have to look at other people and what they think, we just have to earn enough money to get by and a little more to put in some hobby or passion. I might be dumb, can you guys tell me what you think?
TLDR: Why care about everyone else and sex, when you can just make yourself happy in simpler ways?