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Serious Having no supporting father

neet

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Okay, please forgave any typo´s since Im just back from a nightclub.

What I see is that many Incels have no father who does not support and indirectly teach him how to get girls and socialising.

Can you discribe your situation?
 
many Incels have no father who does not support and indirectly teach him how to get girls and socialising.
this most definitely applies to me
 
My dad and mom never taught me anything about life, never gave any tips or advice, never said anything to me, just did their own thing
 
I have a father but he is not very supportive. He wasn't there for me really until I was 12. But when he started developing a closer relationship with me, it wasn't a fatherly one. He behaved more like an older friend. But the fucked up thing is that he also got mad at me and punished me sometimes. He was very passive aggressive. He never really disciplined me or gave me any structure in my life and then got mad when I misbehaved or did bad in school, etc. It's like he expected me to raise myself. But those instances were kind of rare. He only had an outburst maybe twice a year or three times a year. The rest of the time he acted like a friend. The only advice he ever gave me about women is that I have to be confident, have good communication skills, and be charming. He always bragged about all the women he was with in his life and he said it all came down to his confidence, communication skills, and charm. Nowadays he teases me for being a single virgin and says its my own fault for being a NEET and that's why women don't want me even though his other son (my half bro) is a Chad and literally has a criminal record and is unemployed and has women throwing themselves at him constantly.
 
He never taught me anything concerning how to get a girl but considering he grew up in a different significantly poorer country and is technologically inept, I would imagine his advice would ultimately be just betabuxx bro unless there's one crazy trick to make any girl like you that he has locked away somewhere
 
Most of our fathers just got lucky and got stuck betabuxxing, they have little to no understanding of what it's like now. My dad just thinks I'm too negative and pessimistic about my chances
 
Most of our fathers just got lucky and got stuck betabuxxing, they have little to no understanding of what it's like now. My dad just thinks I'm too negative and pessimistic about my chances
Yep.
 
Yeah I grew up without a dad. I never thought anything of it growing up but now looking at how my life turned out, that definitely was a negative factor.
 
When I grew up, everyone I knew had fathers.
There's a reason they were called The Greatest Generation.
 
My dad and mom never taught me anything about life, never gave any tips or advice, never said anything to me, just did their own thing
Mine too. They think they're great parents just BC they fed and housed me. And any abuse was just what I had to put up with BC their job was stressful.
 
I have a father but he is not very supportive. He wasn't there for me really until I was 12. But when he started developing a closer relationship with me, it wasn't a fatherly one. He behaved more like an older friend. But the fucked up thing is that he also got mad at me and punished me sometimes. He was very passive aggressive. He never really disciplined me or gave me any structure in my life and then got mad when I misbehaved or did bad in school, etc. It's like he expected me to raise myself. But those instances were kind of rare. He only had an outburst maybe twice a year or three times a year. The rest of the time he acted like a friend. The only advice he ever gave me about women is that I have to be confident, have good communication skills, and be charming. He always bragged about all the women he was with in his life and he said it all came down to his confidence, communication skills, and charm. Nowadays he teases me for being a single virgin and says its my own fault for being a NEET and that's why women don't want me even though his other son (my half bro) is a Chad and literally has a criminal record and is unemployed and has women throwing themselves at him constantly.
Mine too. They think they're great parents just BC they fed and housed me. And any abuse was just what I had to put up with BC their job was stressful.
Most of our fathers just got lucky and got stuck betabuxxing, they have little to no understanding of what it's like now. My dad just thinks I'm too negative and pessimistic about my chances


Father's aren't supportive because when they were young, you could "make it" by just existing. It's a foreign concept to them.

Get a good job, get a girl, etc. without having to min-max every aspect of your life.
 
Father's aren't supportive because when they were young, you could "make it" by just existing. It's a foreign concept to them.

Get a good job, get a girl, etc. without having to min-max every aspect of your life.
Capitalism has spread to every aspect of life, even human connection. If you don't meet a certain requirement you're thrown away. Even friendships end BC ppl will label you as 'negative' or 'toxic' for expressing negative emotions.
 
grew up without a dad jfl

a suprisingly large number of us were raised by single mothers
 
My dad was too busy mentally and financially abusing me. My parents didn’t give a shit about me ever having a relationship.
 
Father's aren't supportive because when they were young, you could "make it" by just existing. It's a foreign concept to them.

Get a good job, get a girl, etc. without having to min-max every aspect of your life.

So fucking true
 
My parents expected me to just go to school and then work. And then they were mad at me for failing grades and ultimately dropping out of school for mental problems such as anxiety, concentration problems due to me being completely autistic and having no social skills causing me stress.
 
My dad was too drunk most of the time, to give any kind of life advice
 
My old man wanted me to work and be simple man, what is straight way into betabuxing
 
But even simple man in degeneracy of today has no guarantee of success
Absolutely right. And we have to open yeas of overage man to his pathetic existence in order to shift the political model of world to our favore.
 
My dad and mom never taught me anything about life, never gave any tips or advice, never said anything to me, just did their own thing

^^^^
I pretty much had to teach myself everything. My dad is helpful for technical things like fixing cars etc though...
 
My dad is chadlite and obsessed with the high life. Without too much details, he had multiple gf (not at same time) in the past, and has cheated on my mom multiple times (mom got mad at him but stays anyway).

I've never received much life advice, much more of my social knowledge comes from the media. TV, online, online chatrooms etc.
 
Okay, please forgave any typo´s since Im just back from a nightclub.

What I see is that many Incels have no father who does not support and indirectly teach him how to get girls and socialising.

Can you discribe your situation?
That's my situation tbh. My mother was pretty much the only one involved in my upbringing my father did almost nothing and neither of them ever spoke to me about girls or socializing.
 
"Raised" by a mentally ill single mother alcoholic that produced me in her late teens. At the very least she could have been Chad's pump and dump so I could have gotten some decent genes to work with but she was probably so wasted it was a local goblincel that sneaked in through the air ducts and took a golden opportunity.
Close male role models are a necessity for a boy's development. In the old days if a father died or something they at least had other men in the village to play the part. Now you're shut off from the world and given frozen dinners and video games to keep you sated until you are old enough to kick out. You'd probably be kicked out sooner were it not for government handouts and child support.

Even the most normal of single mother raised men I've met are a little off. Some are exceptional at hiding it because they lucked out with looks or had mothers that tried hard but every once in a while something will shine through that quickly makes you realize something is off.
 
My father is a cunt. He lives off making me miserable.
 
If we had a supportive father during our childhoof, we wouldn't have grown up incels most likely.
 
Single mothers are the lowest of the low. Bottom of the food chain. Dwell among incels. They commit child abuse by simply existing and allowing themselves to get pregnant and then pumped and dumped. Gubmint handouts should be withdrawn from these whores.
 
Now that single motherhood is so widely pushed - having a father present in a child's life is seen as unnecessary at best and weird at worst - how do we think the next generation of children is going to fair, socially?
 
Even though my father died when I was young, I still consider myself in a better situation than an incel who has an ignorant boomer dad who spews bluepilled bullshit "advice."
 
"Raised" by a mentally ill single mother alcoholic that produced me in her late teens. At the very least she could have been Chad's pump and dump so I could have gotten some decent genes to work with but she was probably so wasted it was a local goblincel that sneaked in through the air ducts and took a golden opportunity.
Close male role models are a necessity for a boy's development. In the old days if a father died or something they at least had other men in the village to play the part. Now you're shut off from the world and given frozen dinners and video games to keep you sated until you are old enough to kick out. You'd probably be kicked out sooner were it not for government handouts and child support.

Even the most normal of single mother raised men I've met are a little off. Some are exceptional at hiding it because they lucked out with looks or had mothers that tried hard but every once in a while something will shine through that quickly makes you realize something is off.
not having a dad is on a completely different level of shit (both my parents had single moms). Even most of us with our dads around spent little to no time with them because they had to wageslave 24/7 which left me with my mom. Even if your mom is a great person, she can't properly raise a boy into a man.
 
My parents think I'm gay.
 
My father is a good man, I love him and his heart is on the right place. However he's very autistic (which I also inherited from him), so he never ever supported me in some emotional way and he never advised me in anything in life.
 
What I see is that many Incels have no father who does not support and indirectly teach him how to get girls and socialising.

Can you discribe your situation?
Same.:feelsbadman:
I don't have a father, it's just a progenitor. He never taught me anything or gave advice. He was just a selfish man who did not care about me, he preferred to drink beers with his friends.
Actually he gave me a tip once, to get a girl ''If you want a girl, just tell her that she's pretty and stuff like that, it's so easy''...:feelspuke: Certainly the BEST tip I've ever had from him :feelsree:
 

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