Blackpill Having HELICOPTER PARENTS is the ultimate DEATH SETNECE

[Rassimov]

Nothing will cripple you more than having your own parents socially inhibit you, by not even trying to shove the bluepill down your throat with pressures to man-up and put yourself out there. A father who tolerated you wasting your youth jerking to loli in front of a monitor, is a worse parent than a fascistic father who has a violent outburst when seeing his stupid son slacking and NEETing.

It is absolutely crucial for a healthy NT development, no matter of your looks level, to be able to rebel against your own family. For that you need clearly defined rules and a patriarchal figure who will be openly intolerant of your bad behavior and nasty habits — Such a process never occurs in a cuck 'helicopter parents' environment, since they pose as your friends. Liberal 'helicopter' parenting doesn't rely on authority, it relies on arousing feelings of guilt in you. Your mother still washes your clothes, makes you dinner, takes out your piss bottles, so how dare you hurt her feelings like that? Helicpoter parents will put you on a guilt trip for breaking their already low expectations of you, so that you will feel like a bad guy after it. It's a nanny totalitarian micro-state you're living in. You're never forced to grow up, on the contrary, you're being infantilized, going to to the beach with your mom at 25.

This, my friends, is the difference between TOTALITARIANISM and DICTATORSHIP; in a dictatorship you have rules to obey, in a totalitarianism you've already internalized them. the conservative father is the alpha-dictator of the house you are nonetheless allowed to hate since he keeps imposing ridiculous demands you cannot possibly accomplish, while threatening with punitive measures, he nonetheless keeps challenging you to better yourself, and he himself is a challenge to be overcome. In American action movies all the soliders who end up proving their combat excellency rebel against their crazy drill officers at some point — your father should be your drill officer you can rebel against and grow, while identifying with him simultaneously.

tl;dr :You will feel a little smug satisfaction when failing to live up to the impossibly high expectations of a jerk tyrant father, but you will always feel like absolute dog-shit coming home just one hour too late finding cold tendies in your room serving as a reminder you broke your loving mothers heart again.

 

[Deleted member 23656]

When you think about it, most of your life is already determined on the day you were born. Who your parents are, how rich are they, what genetics they have, where you live etc.

 

[Saudade]

brutal and truthful observation
incredibly high iq ngl

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Most important is for you to closely relate to your peers and spend quality time with them, it trumps eveyrthing.
It's awful to acknowledge, but having any kind of involved relationship with your parents is pathological, whether it's too much closeness, or too much control, or too much 'serious discussion between adults', whatever..... that's not what a healthy kid is supposed to be doing, they're supposed to be out with their peers and having MINIMAL interaction with their parents necessary for a normal kid life.

I mean, that is if you want to be a normal guy with friends and sex, maybe you don't want that.

 

[LastGerman]

you're being infantilized, going to to the beach with your mom at 25.

Another 25 pill.

 

[Irredeemable]

If you're born an ugly high inhib manlet, upbringing will change nothing.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I have never been more than a few days from my parents. Even when I was living alone, my mother would show up every few days just to check on me.

 

[DarwinsDisgrace]

Don't blame your parents, blame women.

 

[squirrelsonfire2]

I want to slaughter my gay helicopter dad but need him to not be homeless. It’s brutal I hate him so much but need him to stay alive when all I want to do is be independent but he won’t let me be independent but hates me for not being independent. It’s goddamn brutal and I would classify it as abuse. Of course my slut sister gets to be independent as she wants and they even make fun of me for it and still have the nerve to invite me to Christmas parties, etc...

 

[Allblueeeee]

I actually like having helicopter parents. I can ldar

 

[Sportbro]

I actually like having helicopter parents. I can ldar

They crippled your social development, it's a big reason why you are on this forum

 

[speedtypingincel]

This hit close to home, mother is totalitarian, but dad who was away was tyrannical.

 

[Rassimov]

If you're born an ugly high inhib manlet, upbringing will change nothing.

It worked with ugly boomer manlets 60 years ago. Do not underestimate the taming power that modern parenting has on your passivity.

Most important is for you to closely relate to your peers and spend quality time with them, it trumps eveyrthing.
It's awful to acknowledge, but having any kind of involved relationship with your parents is pathological, whether it's too much closeness, or too much control, or too much 'serious discussion between adults', whatever..... that's not what a healthy kid is supposed to be doing, they're supposed to be out with their peers and having MINIMAL interaction with their parents necessary for a normal kid life.

I mean, that is if you want to be a normal guy with friends and sex, maybe you don't want that.

Your parents should never be your 'friends', it has devastating consequences for your guilt levels. You can never turn them down properly, much less rebel against them.

I have never been more than a few days from my parents. Even when I was living alone, my mother would show up every few days just to check on me.

That's why we're here, boyo.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

They crippled your social development, it's a big reason why you are on this forum

Being short ugly and autistic cripples your social development. A tall good looking guy with helicopter parents doesn’t have that problem going out into the world , neither does any foid, because the world bends to their needs because of looks

 

[Mainländer]

It's basically all about looks. Learning it made me less mad about my upbringing or the bullying I suffered. All that did was robbing me of the possibility of thugmaxxing and enhancing my inhib a bit.

 

[CopeKeith]

Helicopter narcissistic parents are a true death sentence

 

[Rassimov]

I want to slaughter my gay helicopter dad but need him to not be homeless. It’s brutal I hate him so much but need him to stay alive when all I want to do is be independent but he won’t let me be independent but hates me for not being independent. It’s goddamn brutal and I would classify it as abuse. Of course my slut sister gets to be independent as she wants and they even make fun of me for it and still have the nerve to invite me to Christmas parties, etc...

Your dad probably genuinely thinks it's he knows your best interest, many helicopter parents aren't intentionally abusive, just completely deluded about the consequences of such over-protective parenting. You should let him know when it drives you nuts. Maybe he'd start respecting you more, I mean, like a man would another man.

It's basically all about looks. Learning it made me less mad about my upbringing or the bullying I suffered. All that did was robbing me of the possibility of thugmaxxing and enhancing my inhib a bit.

Between a truecel and Chad there is a whole spectrum of men being socially stunted and falling into inceldom because of what I just described.

 

[squirrelsonfire2]

Your dad probably genuinely thinks it's he knows your best interest, many helicopter parents aren't intentionally abusive, just completely deluded about the consequences of such over-protective parenting. You should let him know when it drives you nuts. Maybe he'd start respecting you more, I mean, like a man would another man.


Between a truecel and Chad there is a whole spectrum of men being socially stunted and falling into inceldom because of what I just described.

He will have one of his gay chimp outs on me

 

[Akkadian]

I've talked about numerous times, honestly it destroyed me the most. It made me lack social development I needed. And I feel that my parents are slowly realising they fucked up big time. Imagine for your whole childhood being supervised by your parents, how the fuck are you gonna be independent when you're older?

 

[BlackpilledRetard]

This shit fucked up my whole family.

 

[Rassimov]

I've talked about numerous times, honestly it destroyed me the most. It made me lack social development I needed. And I feel that my parents are slowly realising they fucked up big time. Imagine for your whole childhood being supervised by your parents, how the fuck are you gonna be independent when you're older?

Imagine continuing it through your 20s. A smart parent, even if bluepilled, would at least pressure you into developing a independent persona of your own by going out, having fun, meeting new people...

This shit fucked up my whole family.

It's a modern phenomena that is wide spread, no wonder 20% of millenials are loners who can't establish normal human relationships.

 

[To_Live_is to_Serve]

My mother was what you could call a helicopter parent. She was also simply narcissistic and quite sadistic. She hid her true desires behind pretending to care too much. She neutered the male dog my father bought and I owned legally despite being downvoted by the two of us and even let in on the voting. She then laughed about it in front of us. My father was not perfect either. I moved away 5 years ago but they will do their best to keep me trapped in legally and materially binding conditions; they know I would not fall for guilt at all and break any binding I could.

 

[Deleted member 23634]

It's basically all about looks. Learning it made me less mad about my upbringing or the bullying I suffered. All that did was robbing me of the possibility of thugmaxxing and enhancing my inhib a bit.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

Excellent post, deserve to be pinned srs

 

[Deleted member 22907]

I had too much freedom, my parents should've intervened more

 

[mylifeistrash]

generally in american culture, no one gives a shit what the son does or what happens to their male children

I had too much freedom, my parents should've intervened more

mine never gave a shit about what I did and I still failed at getting women

sheltered chad gets pussy though

 

[vic624]

I doubt most of the people here really wanted a "normal social development" anyway. If you are mentally free enough to take the blackpill, you'd be mentally free enough to realize spectator sports, dances/clubs, bars, capeshit movies etc. are all marketed horseshit that aren't really fun except to low IQ people.

What people on this forum really want/wanted is sex. Really, that's it. Anyone could get some level of social interaction just by having a job, but even if you made manager of the local grocery store at 16 or whatever, you still would not be satisfied if you'd didn't get sexual validation with it.

IMO the worst part of the helicopter parents is what the OP referenced as instilling high inhibition mentality. This is worst among non-Western parents in Western countries. They grew up around corrupt authority figures in violent and/or war torn shitholes that made them literally scared of everything. Anytime you leave the house they think there's a risk Los Zetas got you or some shit. That type of mentality made no sense in Western countries until fairly recently (if you're concerned about the migrant influxes).

A lot of ethnics also had parents that were extremely racist, and since they didn't understand Western dating/sexual conventions, thought any interaction with an "undesirable" race (read: anything not in-group or white) was seen as a step too close to marriage. This means your interactions with females start with assessing safety risk and potential parental approval. Even if you were a gigaChad, that type mentality is going to make it extremely difficult to get your dick sucked in an alleyway.

 

[universallyabhorred]

Try having abusive helicopter parents like me.

 

[MuslimCell]

I am that I wish to be , fuckem

 

[Rassimov]

What people on this forum really want/wanted is sex. Really, that's it. Anyone could get some level of social interaction just by having a job, but even if you made manager of the local grocery store at 16 or whatever, you still would not be satisfied if you'd didn't get sexual validation with it.

IMO the worst part of the helicopter parents is what the OP referenced as instilling high inhibition mentality. This is worst among non-Western parents in Western countries. They grew up around corrupt authority figures in violent and/or war torn shitholes that made them literally scared of everything. Anytime you leave the house they think there's a risk Los Zetas got you or some shit. That type of mentality made no sense in Western countries until fairly recently (if you're concerned about the migrant influxes).

You cannot make a case in favor of helicopter parenting in Europe or the US, it's undoubtedly toxic and it's negative effects outweight the potentially positive ones. You're treated as a 10 year old throughout your life, just look at the late Terry Davis.

 

[Blacktarpill]

I hate that type of parents ngl.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

Upbringing is cope. No amount of parenting would have stopped me from ending up as a sub5 autistic manlet ethnic

 

[wizardcel]

We all blame the parents lol. If your genetics are shit, there's nothing you or your parents could have done to remedy that. What would be the point of barring your way with roadblocks if you didn't have what it takes to overcome them? they knew you weren't fit for the task.

What If my parents expected me to get married and have children? I can't. Even when I was at my best to get a girlfriend proved to be an impossible task

 

[copemaxx9002]

When you think about it, most of your life is already determined on the day you were born. Who your parents are, how rich are they, what genetics they have, where you live etc.