As an ugly male? I still want sex and a relationship.
But it doesn't seem like a very enjoyable thing.
I'd MUCH prefer being good-looking first.
It's a much better life experience overall.
Sex and girlfriends will follow that anyway.
Being good-looking would fix most of my problems tbh.
Even if I got sex and girlfriend, it would be from a weak place.
From a black pill perspective, being in a relationship as an ugly male is extremely risky with getting cucked and the moment a foid wants to have an open relationship I'm out of there. Alpha fucks and beta bucks.
There is very little reason for a foid to be afraid of losing the relationship with an ugly male, even with emotional bonding and such, because the average foid has a massive amount of options in case a relationship doesn't work out.
But an ugly male... usually has nothing.
What do I do if there is a conflict? I stand my ground and then what happens?
There is no power to bargain for anything, a foid can just leave and easily replace you when she is displeased with you.
Being unattractive makes you weak. You have severely diminished influence over others.
Rich, status maxxed men like Bezos or Zuckerberg are extremely influential, but still people don't respect them the same way they respect an attractive actor.
Attractive people get away with being assholes, because they have influence over others, because they have power over others due to the way they look, and that's what incentivizes them to conform to the stereotype, because power corrupts.
Many times, people will return and forgive after being abused by someone who is attractive, but if not, the attractive person doesn't have to look far to find someone else to abuse. We all have seen it time and time again with an attractive man being violent but his foids just return to him for more.
My dream scenario would be where I have someone who feels so drawn to me that I don't have to fear losing them whenever there is conflict, or at least that I'm not devastated by the loss of the relationship because other options exist for me.
I would be highly confident in such a position.
But as an ugly male... there is nothing to be confident about, because it all could fall apart at any point and since it can't be replaced the loss is devastating.
This must be what PUA's talk about with "having an abundance mindset".
Duh, of course if I have more power than the other person and can easily replace them I will automatically be confident.
I wish to be in the beneficial situation of having the upper hand rather than being in a relationship where the other person has the upper hand.
Having a relationship the way I look now would sadly lead to the latter, and I can't imagine it as a place where I'd be happy.
In my estimation a man without power can't be a happy man.
But it doesn't seem like a very enjoyable thing.
I'd MUCH prefer being good-looking first.
It's a much better life experience overall.
Sex and girlfriends will follow that anyway.
Being good-looking would fix most of my problems tbh.
Even if I got sex and girlfriend, it would be from a weak place.
From a black pill perspective, being in a relationship as an ugly male is extremely risky with getting cucked and the moment a foid wants to have an open relationship I'm out of there. Alpha fucks and beta bucks.
There is very little reason for a foid to be afraid of losing the relationship with an ugly male, even with emotional bonding and such, because the average foid has a massive amount of options in case a relationship doesn't work out.
But an ugly male... usually has nothing.
What do I do if there is a conflict? I stand my ground and then what happens?
There is no power to bargain for anything, a foid can just leave and easily replace you when she is displeased with you.
Being unattractive makes you weak. You have severely diminished influence over others.
Rich, status maxxed men like Bezos or Zuckerberg are extremely influential, but still people don't respect them the same way they respect an attractive actor.
Attractive people get away with being assholes, because they have influence over others, because they have power over others due to the way they look, and that's what incentivizes them to conform to the stereotype, because power corrupts.
Many times, people will return and forgive after being abused by someone who is attractive, but if not, the attractive person doesn't have to look far to find someone else to abuse. We all have seen it time and time again with an attractive man being violent but his foids just return to him for more.
My dream scenario would be where I have someone who feels so drawn to me that I don't have to fear losing them whenever there is conflict, or at least that I'm not devastated by the loss of the relationship because other options exist for me.
I would be highly confident in such a position.
But as an ugly male... there is nothing to be confident about, because it all could fall apart at any point and since it can't be replaced the loss is devastating.
This must be what PUA's talk about with "having an abundance mindset".
Duh, of course if I have more power than the other person and can easily replace them I will automatically be confident.
I wish to be in the beneficial situation of having the upper hand rather than being in a relationship where the other person has the upper hand.
Having a relationship the way I look now would sadly lead to the latter, and I can't imagine it as a place where I'd be happy.
In my estimation a man without power can't be a happy man.
