Lv99_BixNood
fascel
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fanwl3/having_a_kink_doesnt_mean_i_wasnt_raped/
I have a ravishment kink. I like how primal it feels and the raw passion behind it. But I only like it when I'm fully consenting. I have safe words and I know my limits. My current partner is a safe person to practice this kink with. They check in on me during to make sure I'm enjoying myself and am still consenting.
My last two boyfriends just thought they could take me at anytime even when I clearly stated that I was not consenting. They didn't stop while I cried because they were hurting me. They where ruthless. I felt powerless and like my body wasn't my own.
I have shame from these rapes, because I feel like it's my fault because of my kink. I'm just a defunct individual that caused myself to be raped.