Having a good personality/social skills is as much a choice as having a good mental health

[Deleted member 34161]

Nobody decides what their personality is like. Nobody also decides to grow up with poor social skills. They are results of the environment and genes.

Asking a 25+ year old male with autism to "improve their social skills" to get women is as ridiculous as suggesting a chronically depressed person to become not depressed or an anxious person to become not anxious by choice. Being ugly subhuman means you usually get isolated and bullied in school and develop shy and introverted personality because of that. Being ugly also means that people will always perceive your personality as worse than it actually is due to reverse halo-effect, so you're always fighting an uphill battle.


Incels are gaslighted by claims such as "its your own fault", "develop a better personality", as if a person can just completely rewrite who they are after decades of discrimination and social failures. Foids discriminating against introverted males is toxic femininity.

 

[kanyepilled]

well said tbh

even users on this forum believe that you can just "get over" your autism or personality disorder

 

[Deleted member 35432]

Chad experience more positive interactions with peers before the age of 6 than an incel/autist does in his whole life. There is no way to fake it til you make it. Its brutally over.

 

[Lebensmüder]

Chad experience more positive interactions with peers before the age of 6 than an incel/autist does in his whole life. There is no way to fake it til you make it. Its brutally over.

 

[Kamikaze]

You cant cure a personality disorder, but your personality disorder wont matter if you have the halo of looks.

 

[belowhumanity]

Nobody decides what their personality is like. Nobody also decides to grow up with poor social skills. They are results of the environment and genes.

Asking a 25+ year old male with autism to "improve their social skills" to get women is as ridiculous as suggesting a chronically depressed person to become not depressed or an anxious person to become not anxious by choice. Being ugly subhuman means you usually get isolated and bullied in school and develop shy and introverted personality because of that. Being ugly also means that people will always perceive your personality as worse than it actually is due to reverse halo-effect, so you're always fighting an uphill battle.


Incels are gaslighted by claims such as "its your own fault", "develop a better personality", as if a person can just completely rewrite who they are after decades of discrimination and social failures. Foids discriminating against introverted males is toxic femininity.

Well said. People on this forum who make fun of mental health have no idea what it is like and probably had a privileged and normal childhood that we never got to experience and I hate them for that. It makes me want to rope knowing what happened to me.

 

[Deleted member 36576]

apparently therapy is supposed to solve all that. idk if it ever has, but it's the ITcuck's number one recommendation for incels.

 

[Italian Incel]

You cant cure a personality disorder, but your personality disorder wont matter if you have the halo of looks.

 

[Pikacel]

It’s hard man. It seems straightforward in theory and when I see other people socialising but I flop whenever I try

 

[Loner94]

Normies have been full of shit for a very long time in addition are privileged beyond there understanding.