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Discussion Having a gf would be unfair

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I wouldn't be happy in a relationship in which my partner isn't attracted to me. If my love isn't reciprocated, it would be selfish on my part to mantain an asymmetrical situation. If strict monogamy was reinstated tomorrow, and the sexual market balanced again, i would become volcel even though i want gf. Its over for me either way i guess.
 
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Would still sleep with her once or twice though.
 
Would still sleep with her once or twice though.
It would be no different than masturbating using someone else's body, you would simply be satisfying your desires, there would be no deeper connection, purpose or necessity o it. But i understand the aopeal
 
My main issue is being ugly as fuck, not being lonely and sexless... Honestly, after everything I've learned about foids...I don't see how they could offer any solace or benefit to my life. Plus, I'm not a normie and people think I'm deranged and shit so it would be hard to find a foid I'm compatible with... I just want to transition from incel to volcel... Surgerymaxxing>"Ascension"...
 
In the West, it would take generations to fix things. There is no solution for our problem.
 
cuckpilled :bluepill::bluepill::bluepill:
This tbh. If the sexual market place was balanced then whores woud become humble and start fucking their looksmatches. In SEasia noodlewhores have no problem fucking fat old whitecels, because their smv isn't as over inflated by cucks and femtardism.
It would be no different than masturbating using someone else's body, you would simply be satisfying your desires, there would be no deeper connection, purpose or necessity o it.
Better than jacking off.
 
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The thought of her not loving you back, has little to do with the fairness of the relationship, and more to do with the fact that if she is not happy she will cuck you with another man.
That might be part of it, i may be deluding myself. Thanks for this post, will think about this
a relationship can be fair even if the foid isn't in love with you.
Good point. Still, a relationship without love sounds cynical to me

If the sexual market place was balanced then whores woud become humble and start fucking their looksmatches.
Yeah, but that would mean the foid would be with me out of necessity, not desire. If she could she would be with Chad anyway
 
Yeah, but that would mean the foid would be with me out of necessity, not desire. If she could she would be with Chad anyway
Who cares? I'd settle for a foid that I'm not 100% attracted to, not everyone gets what they want. Not every cunt deserves a chad.
 
Yeah, but that would mean the foid would be with me out of necessity, not desire
That was the norm for all of history and still is in third world nations. If you aren't Chad, foids will only want you for what you can offer them (money, status etc.).
But I don't see why it matters. It's a fair trade really; you get to have sex, she gets to have a bit of your money. If I was rich, I'd be down to marrying a gold-digger as long as she served my sexual needs and cooked for me.
 
No the fuck it wouldn't. One of these cunts need to compensate for my lifetime of suffering. I couldn't care less what she wants genuinely or not(it would be nice for her to have genuine attraction for me in the first place though).
 
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That was the norm for all of history and still is in third world nations. If you aren't Chad, foids will only want you for what you can offer them (money, status etc.).
But I don't see why it matters. It's a fair trade really; you get to have sex, she gets to have a bit of your money. If I was rich, I'd be down to marrying a gold-digger as long as she served my sexual needs and cooked for me.
If she's a young virgin then betabuxxing her wouldn't be cucked.
 
Exaclty. Perfectly put @Robtical.
I would also settle for a foid I'm not 100% attracted to.
Thanks. Men used to be the picky ones, now that cucks flipped the power dynamic upside down everything is messed up, and many bluepilled men have the same mentality as op.
 
If she's a young virgin then betabuxxing her wouldn't be cucked.
True, that's what >90% of marriages are like in non-feminist societies.

Who cares? I'd settle for a foid that I'm not 100% attracted to, not everyone gets what they want. Not every cunt deserves a chad.
I'd say that such a relationship would actually prove to be better for us. They say that the person who cares less about a relationship has the most power over it. If you were madly in love with your partner then you'd be paranoid about her leaving you and if she did, it would destroy you. However, if you weren't that attracted to her, you would care less and would probably behave more aloof and demanding towards her because you know that her leaving you wouldn't be that much of a big deal.

Also, the Chinese have a saying "the ugly wife is a treasure in the home". Meaning that attractive foids will put in less effort into relationships because she feels like she already brings enough to the table by merely being pretty. Meanwhile, an ugly foid will know that her looks have no worth and will attempt to bring more practical value by cooking for you and stuff like that.
 
I'd say that such a relationship would actually prove to be better for us. They say that the person who cares less about a relationship has the most power over it. If you were madly in love with your partner then you'd be paranoid about her leaving you and if she did, it would destroy you. However, if you weren't that attracted to her, you would care less and would probably behave more aloof and demanding towards her because you know that her leaving you wouldn't be that much of a big deal.

Also, the Chinese have a saying "the ugly wife is a treasure in the home". Meaning that attractive foids will put in less effort into relationships because she feels like she already brings enough to the table by merely being pretty. Meanwhile, an ugly foid will know that her looks have no worth and will attempt to bring more practical value by cooking for you and stuff like that.
I can handle a foid whose kind of ugly as long as her body is nice. But I think I'd treat a good looking foid not much different, the most important thing is she doesn't try to use her looks to boss me around and behave disobediently, which even landwhales can behave like these days.
 
I would also settle for a foid I'm not 100% attracted to.
The thing is, i am 100% attracted to many foids in my surrounding, i am totally capable of unconditionally loving them. But because of hypergamy, they do not feel the same thing towards me. My point is it seems unfair that there would be such assymmetry in a relationship, if i am 100% attracted and the foid doesn't feel anything.
 
The thing is, i am 100% attracted to many foids in my surrounding, i am totally capable of unconditionally loving them. But because of hypergamy, they do not feel the same thing towards me. My point is it seems unfair that there would be such assymmetry in a relationship, if i am 100% attracted and the foid doesn't feel anything.
That is a societal problem caused by cuckoldry, which is something that won't be fixed until society collapses.
 
That is a societal problem caused by cuckoldry, which is something that won't be fixed until society collapses.
It will never be fixed. Hypergamy is in female nature. No societal change will make females be attracted to the average guy to the same extent he can love them
 
My main issue is being ugly as fuck, not being lonely and sexless... Honestly, after everything I've learned about foids...I don't see how they could offer any solace or benefit to my life
Foids are only useful for sex and reproduction, they will not solve your problems as many people on this forum think they will
 
Foids are only useful for sex and reproduction, they will not solve your problems as many people on this forum think they will
For real... Being ugly is our problem... If we weren't ugly but remained black pilled, we'd just see foids as worthless animals... Some incels give them a false value because they simply cannot get foids...
 
For real... Being ugly is our problem... If we weren't ugly but remained black pilled, we'd just see foids as worthless animals... Some incels give them a false value because they simply cannot get foids...
High IQ ngl, the blackpill applies to every male out there. Now you can understand why chad pumps and dumps instead of settling for an abusive whore
 
High IQ ngl, the blackpill applies to every male out there. Now you can understand why chad pumps and dumps instead of settling for an abusive whore
And when you realize that even if you surgerymaxx, because you're not a chad, no foid will ever respect you... The whole idea of "ascension" goes in the rubbish bin... MGTOW is the logical conclusion a black pilled sub8 with self respect will come to when weighing his options...
 
And when you realize that even if you surgerymaxx, because you're not a chad, no foid will ever respect you... The whole idea of "ascension" goes in the rubbish bin... MGTOW is the logical conclusion a black pilled sub8 with self respect will come to when weighing his options...
Ascension is cope, whatever you are born with defines your success with foids, surgeries are too damn expensive and you could possibly end up even worse
 
Ascension is cope, whatever you are born with defines your success with foids, surgeries are too damn expensive and you could possibly end up even worse
Nah, if you're super woke about surgeries and you go to the right guys, it could save you from the rope if you're disfigured and just want to be happier with yourself... But yeah, success with foids is determined at birth (and childhood if your face gets injured) , by the time one can afford surgeries (if he doesn't have rich parent's) teen love is over and it's a sea of used up roasties... Brahmacharya is THE WAY.
 
Cuckpilled but there is some truth behind it, if someone isnt attracted to you it will be hard.
 
Do you think that blue pilled beta cucks can become less submissive if they have more pride on themselves? And in turn flip the power dynamic back to it's place?

I mean, those betacucks seems to have a low self esteem, and because of that they are willing to submit to the foids and allow for them to cuck them with Tyrone/Chad.

They seem like they are masochists, they like when the foids treat them with disrespect and shit on them. Chad uses the foids as cum toilets, and the foids use the bluepill soy cucks as toilets.
I think it's both low self esteem and masochism. That's why imo the best thing to do is make it socially unacceptable to behave like a cuck, because right now they get praised and called "real men" for raising chad's leftovers and marrying a used cock carousel riding roastie, instead of being shamed. The only thing that's keeping them hanging on to their cucked mindset is social acceptance, they'd drop the act immediately if they knew they'd be made fun of by normies like what used to happen to cucks before feminism.
 
My main issue is being ugly as fuck, not being lonely and sexless... Honestly, after everything I've learned about foids...I don't see how they could offer any solace or benefit to my life. Plus, I'm not a normie and people think I'm deranged and shit so it would be hard to find a foid I'm compatible with... I just want to transition from incel to volcel... Surgerymaxxing>"Ascension"...
 
Cope, idk waht she thinks, it doesn't matter.
 

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