Experiment Have you ever met and recognized an incel brother irl?

[A10n3]

By the time going browsing on this forums, I noticed more and more people extremely depressed, with dark ideas even at time, which sadly isn't surprising.
Like many of you might experiment, my mood happen to be very versatile as it can vary from me feeling extremely happy at one time then hopping the next minute into a state where I can barely retain tears.

When I read very depressing threads from incels expressing the bottom of their pain, it can easily put me in this kind of state, because I can relate to the suffering displayed and because I know that, beyond the virtual words, there is a real human being who's suffering highly behind his screen, which makes me sad AF.

It led me to think I'd like to get the chance to tell an incel brother I recognized irl : "You are not alone. Not anymore. I too can relate." But so far it never happened to me.
Did it happen to any of you and in what circumstances? (don't reveal personal details, I'd just like to read your story of meeting irl with an incel brother).

If you've seen the movie "Fight Club", on its 2nd part the members of the "Chaos Project" are able to recognize themselves, and it makes them powerful.
It would be really awesome if we could find a way too, a secret code or something, as it would bring the whole concept of inceldom into a more developed and powerful form : we would go further into the path away from that virtuality we hate so much (social medias/virtual interactions <<< real life exchanges).

TLDR : Have you ever recognized and met another incel irl and how did it happen? Would you like to see a secret code being created for incels to recognize each others irl?

 

[acnescarcel]

i know a couple of incels in real life. they don't refer to themselves that way, but they fit the definition more than i do.

 

[Zaetheus]

If I met anyone here, I’m going to give u a full autism hug (no homo). Then we will rape stare any nearby roasties.

 

[UBERCEL]

Our ugliness should signal our inceldom, but it won't work, due to most ugly people being bluepilled.

Maybe if they use the lingo irl we could identify.

Secret codes leak out of course, the community isn't made from few members after all.

 

[Life Wasted]

I see them everyday in my immediate family, my literal brothers are all incel.

 

[everythingislava]

No. Not in high school and now I don't meet people anymore, period.

 

[AmeriCel64]

I agree that we should have a phrase, consisting of a question and specific answer, to identify each other.
This should be posted somewhere only registers users can see but where though?

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

I knew this kid in high school, half Asian/half Mexican hapa manlet, never saw him talk to a girl. I'm sure he grew up to be incel.

 

[mlcurrycel]

If it's spread through DMs on this website, it could work. Decentralisation could cause inconsistency. Codes can be allowed to be weirder when reaching out to strangers, but need to be more versatile for talking to business partners, fellow workers, or friends and families.

 

[A10n3]

I agree that we should have a phrase, consisting of a question and specific answer, to identify each other.
This should be posted somewhere only registers users can see but where though?

Yes, a specific Q/A seems brilliant. It should be a very simple one.
It could also be a phrase associated with a gesture.
For exemple, putting your hand on someone's shoulder and tell him "I can relate."
It wouldn't seem abnormal to normies and it would be very difficult for a non incel to spot it.
I can't think of the best way now, but I do know we would gain alot if, in a group of people, we could at least casually identify 1 person as another incel.
It would give us an edge over normies.
For exemple if I was owning a company and receiving an applicant, I would give him favour if I knew his incel status, in order to compensate the way society does the exact opposite of it to us on a daily basis.

 

[AmeriCel64]

Yes, a specific Q/A seems brilliant. It should be a very simple one.
It could also be a phrase associated with a gesture.
For exemple, putting your hand on someone's shoulder and tell him "I can relate."
It wouldn't seem abnormal to normies and it would be very difficult for a non incel to spot it.
I can't think of the best way now, but I do know we would gain alot if, in a group of people, we could at least casually identify 1 person as another incel.
It would give us an edge over normies.
For exemple if I was owning a company and receiving an applicant, I would give him favour if I knew his incel status, in order to compensate the way society does the exact opposite of it to us on a daily basis.

It needs to seem normal, as the answer would be the giveaway. Also, it cannot be posted publicly as IT would use it to identity incels and get them fired or do harm to them.

I strongly agree with what I highlighted on your post.

 

[BrendioEEE]

I think so, but they don't refer to themselves as Incel.

 

[Albero]

Yes. There is one specific case of a friend of mine who is dead ugly and constantly gets rejected by girls he approach irl and on tinder. He is not only ugly, but ultra skinny, manlet and dumb.

No need to say he is bluepilled as fuck. I can't even relate my inceldom with his, he is just too positive despite being worse than 90% of this forum.

 

[Evil Genius]

I knew this kid in high school, half Asian/half Mexican hapa manlet, never saw him talk to a girl. I'm sure he grew up to be incel.

Lol based af username augustcel

 

[Indari]

maybe my neet brother. prob him actually

 

[Gentleman]

I haven't met any incels but I definitely think we should come up with some sort of code that we could do to try to find them irl. We need to talk to mods to get them to think of something and then post it on the front page, but that might make it so normies could see it.

 

[Limerencel]

I met up with an incel who I had met on Discord first. He lived closeby. We walked around for an hour or two in the middle of the night, talking. It was cool.