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Have you ever been to a date?

thespanishcel

thespanishcel

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Me yes, when I was 16 with a 5/10 girl. But actually it went pretty bad. When we were walking a guy from high school run across us and started picking me while the femoid giggled, I was so embarassed. Worst part was when he said "what are you doing with this loser, I heard you fucked x last week" and she was like "teehee stop saying that it's so embarassing ~". After it I just went home feeling bad and depressed, actually I think the girl only went to the date with me because I gave her pity lol.

Some people will say "if you've been to a date you're a fakecel" but I don't agree, just look at me. I had only one date in my life and we didn't even kiss or hold hands, and it was so humilliating that I've never tried asking a girl again :feelsrope:
 
Yeah, that wasn't a "date".
 
should have drove to that girls crib, and became my name. don't even have to have to use a rifle.
 
Even when i was bluepilled, i didnt like concept of dating.
 
Went to disneyland with a prostitute.
 
I've never even been out with "friends" before, because I've never had them (not even acquaintances). So no. Never been on a date.
 
if i put a wig on my right hand then yeah
 
My heart would be beating out of my chest if that happened to me
 
Tsk those maycels jk jk!!!
You shouldv'e gone to her house and fucked her by force that night obviously, but the past is the past.
 
Twice, once at 17, once at 19.

The 17 was with a girl who way above my looksmatch. Not sure how I managed to get a date with her. We went bowling. It was pretty clear she was not attracted to me. She rejected me the day after the date.

The 19 was with a pastor's daughter, maybe a point below my looksmatch. She invited me to her family's house for thanksgiving. I had an autism attack and went silent (didn't speak to anyone for minutes at a time, almost an hour at one point), then her father (the pastor) made a black joke at the table and I laughed my ass off. She took me upstairs and scolded me for that (like a fucking child). She rejected me the following week for being autistic.

Did not receive any sexual anything from either of these (no kiss, handhold, etc.) . 2/10 experience tbh.
 
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Well, i was catfished once on tinder. Does that count as a date?
 
no bragging br0 lol
:lul:

Better no date than "your date".

I almost got on a date once. I asked a grill for a date, but she said no, so no date. That's "my" date.

And it was an actual grill.:feelsautistic:
 
if youve ever been on a date youre a total fakecel
 
Wow. What a heartless skank, I wouldn’t worry too much about her but that experience sounds dreadful.

And to answer your question, no.
 
You’re not an incel if a girl finds you attractive enough to go on a date with you.
 
Thought i had a date with my neighbor.

Met her once in the stairwell of my apartment building. Kinda knew she lived here since she was studying with my roommate. So i had something to talk about. Hung out a couple days later with my roommate and her which went pretty well.

Some weeks later i was inviting some people to our apartment for my birthday. She came as well and we talked a bit but i was drunk and probably said a couple retarded things but w/e. So it kinda seemed like she would at least tolerate me.

Again 1 or 2 weeks forward I met her in the bus and managed to ask her to grab a coffee together next week. Everything seemed fucking perfect like in the movies or sth, i actually couldnt believe it.
So next week 1 day before the date, i was kinda sick but i wasnt gonna pussy out now. Well she texts me: She's sick and cant make it. Also shes not gonna be in town over the holidays (this was shortly before christmas).
Not too surprised i caught oneitis and all of christmas I couldnt stop thinking about her.
Didnt wanna seem needy, so I text her after new year. She took ages to respond and couldnt really tell me when she would have time. Luckily (or not) i met her again in the bus and managed to get her to agree on a day later the week.

So the day comes, and I am actually on my first date. We grab a coffee and talk, but i kinda sense that she's not as interested in the whole thing as I am. At some point she tells me, that she is meeting some friends later the evening and has to go soon. As we live in the same building we drive home together. I tell her that I enjoyed it and we should do it again blabla... She agrees.

Next day i text her about when she has time. She doesnt respond all day and in the evening i get the following message:
"Hey sorry about texting so late, i was having breakfast with my boyfriend today":feelsrope:
 
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To answer the question, no I haven't been on a date.
 
Yes. I did not get laid and I wasted an hour of my precious life
 
I was dating a looksmatch girl for a month 2 years ago. We never even held hands, though
 
I ask one girl out and said yes and she told me we gonna meet up at this certain place once I got there and I waited for almost hour and realize she wasn't going to show up and text her afterwards and told her what happen and she ignore every single one of my texts and so I gave up.
 
Yea last summer. Girl was receptive up until date, texts were bubbly laughed at my jokes. When we finally meet, I thought it went well. Everything was the same pretty much. Then she just gets cold and doesn't respond.
I was dating a looksmatch girl for a month 2 years ago. We never even held hands, though
Was the relationship imaginary?
 
Oh Boy how did that turned out if I may ask ?????
It was awkward.

Her: "Hi, how are you?"
Me: "Hi. Good. You?
Her: "Good."
*long pause*
Her: "what do you want to do?"
Me: "I dunno" *nervous laugh*
*annoyed/confused face by her*
Me: "Lets go on Space mountain.
*I start walking*
Her: "Space mountain is that way."
Me: " Oh" *nervous laugh*

Then she started to get the hint that I'm an autist and started leading the way and picked everything to do and basically just talked to whole time in line while I stood there nodding like an autistic retard. Was painful as hell.
 
nope never got that far, every girl ive asked out inperson and online has rejected me. :feelsrope:
 
It was awkward.

Her: "Hi, how are you?"
Me: "Hi. Good. You?
Her: "Good."
*long pause*
Her: "what do you want to do?"
Me: "I dunno" *nervous laugh*
*annoyed/confused face by her*
Me: "Lets go on Space mountain.
*I start walking*
Her: "Space mountain is that way."
Me: " Oh" *nervous laugh*

Then she started to get the hint that I'm an autist and started leading the way and picked everything to do and basically just talked to whole time in line while I stood there nodding like an autistic retard. Was painful as hell.
Jeez that suck even if it was hooker and how long ago was this ?
 
I don't have any interesting stories. We go out to eat, I pay, I take her home, I leave, then never talk to her again. It's really shit, because I'm on my best behavior and it's exhausting trying to keep that facade up.
 
Never been even close to one
 
I don't have any interesting stories. We go out to eat, I pay, I take her home, I leave, then never talk to her again.
JFL that sucks man at least stop paying.
 
JFL that sucks man at least stop paying.
At first I forced them to go dutch; I thought, "Why would I pay her to be with me? She should be here because she wants to see me."
I quickly learned that is absolutely wrong if you want to have any chance.
 
At first I forced them to go dutch; I thought, "Why would I pay her to be with me? She should be here because she wants to see me."
I quickly learned that is absolutely wrong if you want to have any chance.
Disagree. Paying has no influence on chance. Your chances are only based off of face, height, and NT status.
 
Disagree. Paying has no influence on chance. Your chances are only based off of face, height, and NT status.
The only time I've had any success with women is just because of some pity and them trying return the favor. My dates have never, ever desired me in the slightest. It's obvious they only went on a date with me out of boredom, and if they give anything it's because they're huge sluts and sex doesn't mean anything to them. The last girl I went on a date with fucked over 50 guys.

If I were Chad I'd make them pay.
 
It was awkward.

Her: "Hi, how are you?"
Me: "Hi. Good. You?
Her: "Good."
*long pause*
Her: "what do you want to do?"
Me: "I dunno" *nervous laugh*
*annoyed/confused face by her*
Me: "Lets go on Space mountain.
*I start walking*
Her: "Space mountain is that way."
Me: " Oh" *nervous laugh*

Then she started to get the hint that I'm an autist and started leading the way and picked everything to do and basically just talked to whole time in line while I stood there nodding like an autistic retard. Was painful as hell.
That's how my date would go if I ever have the opportunity to go on one (I won't)
 
Nope. Never had one.
Only femoid with whom i used to get out alone, like "only me and her" was my best friend. So it wasn't a date, rather just two friends going out together.
Also, my mom and grandma, but that doesn't matter, obviously.
 
No. The closest thing to a date was having someone from another country wanting to fly over to meet me and me rejecting her.
 
Yes but she didn't let me hold hand and admitted she just wanted a free meal

Khhv btw
 
Yes. And that date was 15 October.
 
Nope never, the few times that i have been alone with a girl has always been in awkward silence.
 

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